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  1. So what part of Ohio are you stuck in? We are stuck near Cleveland.

  2. Thank you all for the replies. I wish I wouldn't have put down that I was an engineer to see how/if the replies would have been different:) Yes I realize the woman vs man dynamic, that is not to say I am able to ignore my need to provide a solution and instead respond with "I understand, that must be......." But I find some of the responses interesting I believe this means you would hit on her, if they were into the LS. The only reason it will remain a fantasy is because you don't have any reason to believe it can become reality?? Not even sure how to respond to that:D You are right on. It definitely spices things up. Based on some things she says and does I wouldn't be surprised if some day she'll take the leap. Regardless, I love that she shares the fantasy with me and allows me to help her play it up. When we go out for a night and she kicks me under the table then nods towards someone and says "I'd do him" she knows it gets me going.
  3. Thanks for the replies. I appreciate your responses and hope to hear from more. Maybe I don't have any fantasies, just wishes, therefore don't understand the idea of a fantasy????? The question is- I am trying to identify if my wife truly only likes the idea of a MFM or if that is the answer she has decided on due to some of her worries. I should note that we have considered for many years having a MFM. I am a typical male and an engineer on top of that so when I see a problem I solve it. When she is concerned about going to a swing club since they will have our names, I suggest a meet and greet. When she is afraid someone not with the group may see us I suggest finding someone on Swing Lifestyle. When she worries about finding someone on the internet being a serial killer I suggest going to a normal club, yet not in our neighborhood where some single guys are more likely to frequent. I could go on. Let me note the thoughts of going to a club, meet and greet, etc were things she wanted to do at first, not just things I suggested. I know some replies will be that we need to communicate more- we have for several years. I know some replies will say she needs to be ready- just the other day we had the door to the garage open to allow some fresh air in the house and she started to get frisky. My wife was very excited at the thought that someone may walk in the open door and find us and join in. Several times she mentioned she wished I would have set something up- not just the other day but on many occasions. When not in the heat of the moment she says she likes the idea, but doesn’t really want to do it. I interpret her actions as she does want to do it, but worries about the process. She denies this- I think because she knows the engineer in me will find a solution to her worries. Maybe I am wrong and she really only does want to fantasize about it. I don’t want to give a lot of details on a general post, but I would love to hear from some of you that may have had some similar concerns when starting up. I am not looking for ways to convince her to proceed, I am looking to try and understand if a fantasy is only a fantasy. I can give more examples/details to allow you more insight, but again, not in a general forum. All I know is that after working in the yard on a hot day and thinking about how good a nice cold beer would be, when I get done I enjoy a nice cold beer- not just the thought.
  4. I will keep my question very short, maybe add more later if needed. Can someone- especially a female- fantasize about something that they truly don't want in real life? To me this would be like saying I like thinking about eating a piece of apple pie, but don't really want to. Of course if my reasoning for not wanting to was due to being a diabetic or watching my weight that would make sense since yes I wanted the pie, but the ramifications would be too great. My thought is that if someone fantasizes about something, it is something they wish they could do. I do realize that some fantasies may be more or less impossible, too risky, or such, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't want them to happen. Only that they would most likely never happen or would take too much to make them happen to be worth the effort or risk. Your thoughts?
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