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New2swinging225 last won the day on September 11 2021

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About New2swinging225

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  • Birthday 12/08/1982

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    couple
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    Calgary
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    Motorcycles, movies, swimming, pubbing, clubbing
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    Receptionist/Tradesman
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    Since Feb. 2008

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    Moonlight Magic & Calgary Adult Playground Club

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  1. I'm Darrell from Dallas and looking for a women that no how to treat her man even one night nine seven two five one three three two one nine

  2. I don't think it's so much 'concern' as much as that we are new to the idea, our friends have been cuckold as long as we've known them. He seems to be becoming more submissive than ever. My wife wants to explore the dynamic, he is enthusiastic, which probably means they will go through with it anyways, regardless of who's involved. There's no indication that anything is wrong, we just haven't done this before. We are excited to explore, just wondering if anyone has had experience with a cuck and a hotwife before.
  3. I don't think discussion is on the table as it seems to be a turn-off for the other wife. The sexual dynamic is there, I think we need to play the fantasy through to really see how this plays out - play at the slowest person's pace and see how we all feel after a night, a week, a month and so on. I'm actually most concerned about our friend the cuck, as he falls further into this rabbit hole. Don't forget, essentially we're all playing out His fantasy.
  4. My wife has spent the night with another man before while I was at home looking after the kids. She's only done it once and it was all good, we had a nice romantic lunch alone the next day where she told me all the details. I've never literally slept with another person, but we've both played alone a handful of times without the other doing anything sexual, but overnights, just been the one. I don't think I'd want it to be the norm, but it was exciting when it did happen!
  5. I think the first obvious question is: is your wife interested? If she doesn't know this is what you want, if you try and set something up out of desperation and she freaks, the whole damn thing will implode on you. If she doesn't know, let her in on the fantasy and let it stew for a while... watch some mfm porn regularly, read the 'Wives Gone Wild' section of Penthouse letters together... that sort of thing. Now, if she's already into it and your looking to see if it'll be okay, just remember it's all about love, trust and communication. I love watching my wife with other men, and the older I get, the more I realize that eventually I'm not going to be her favorite lover. But who else would let her have the freedom to experience these situations and take her back into loving arms? She will love you every bit as much after the fact, and as long as you're both open and honest with each other, the only limit is your comfort zones and imaginations! Enjoy, there isn't anything quite as exhilarating as knowing that your wife is being well taken care of! J (& M)
  6. Hi all, I am partially writing this to make sense of the situation in my head, and partially to see if anyone else has done something similar. But let's start with the dynamics at play first. In our relationship, sexually my wife is the top and I am bottom. We have friends whom we've played with who are cuckold, they are both submissive, but He is obviously the bottom. My wife and the other husband have a strange relationship, though we have all played together before the two of them have a dom/sub texting relationship where my wife is learning to Dominate him... she may be my top in the bedroom, but she has never before been a Domme before. I have been sent to fuck the other wife alone before (once alone) and I am her top. Despite this, the other wife and I don't really have much of a relationship, though we seem to enjoy each others company. The convo's between my wife and her friend have begun to get more, well, involved, and he is basically looking to be ordered around by my wife while I'm sent out to be the Bull for his. We've discussed it with each other, and my wife is fine with me going out with this woman a couple times a month, but I think we'd both like it if there was 4-way interaction on a semi-regular basis. He wants me to be their regular bull (I'm assuming it's a trust/comfort thing using a happily married friend) and to emasculate him. He also says that I am her favorite Bull, which I kind of have to take his word for as we never really talk afterwards (as in post meet texting or anything). He has us refer to his wife as a Slut in convo's with him, and he seems to desperately want to be degraded by my wife and I. The only side of the story we're getting is from him. We know for a fact that his wife is into being a hotwife as they're not new to this, and that is how our more recent encounters with them have played out, but she isn't putting in any feedback. He tells us she isn't interested in talk, just getting fucked, so I guess the only place to go from here is to test the waters. But just to sum up: My wife tops me, I top his wife, she tops her own husband, and he's at the bottom of the shit pile. Has anyone had anything like this before? J (&M)
  7. I say 5 or more, so long as all parties are interacting with each other, to whatever degree the sexuality of the crowd permits. We've been in huge crowds of like 30 - 40 people fucking in a room before, but we were only playing with one other couple at those parties. However, we have been in a bed with 2 other couples where we all played together. Now that was an orgy to me!
  8. Our first gangbang (and only to date), was planned. Wifey decided it was time to try after numerous successful mfm's, and we got online to pick our guys. We had four eager to come and only one dropped out. I think we fluked out as we only met one beforehand, and another lived four hours away. But when we all met at the hotel bar and clicked, a magical evening began. Mrs. New2 was nervous about it as well, as I think most would be, but she didn't so much need to be lead as supported in her choice. Having said all this, I do agree with Tahoecple. Anytime we tried planning number 2 it all fell apart, and we are considering trying it again on a swingles night at our regular club.
  9. Hey, thanks for the input and support everyone. It's nice to see that we aren't alone on this one! At the house parties I'm sure a lot of these moves would be hugely successful. The hotel parties, well they can have a certain complication. Our host likes to have us all leave and arrive back at the hotel by limo, which sounds fantastic every time. But we always end up closing down the nightclub before going back to the hotel. Granted, last time staying up 'til six was my own stupid fault as the girl I wanted to hook up with drew it out for an hour and a half. Should have followed wifey to bed! But next house party missus New2 and I will get our own party going in the playroom early! Thanks again guys, always good to hear from the board!
  10. Hi all, I want to start out by saying that we love our friends, but sometimes our situation makes it difficult to party like they do. We are in a fairly active group of swinger friends who like to host parties, and the group has a pretty diverse social, economic and ethnic spectrum. We love this group and the friends in it, but their parties, while enjoyable, can be a little difficult for us. You see, these parties generally start late evening, often in public locations such as vanilla nightclubs, and end up at a hotel or back at one of our friend's houses. This would all be well and good except by the time we actually start playing it is now 3 to 4 a.m. (6 a.m. last Saturday). Most people at the party are fine with this, but we seem to be the only regular members of the group who have our children either on a full time basis, or that they haven't grown into fairly self sufficient teens yet. We usually have a pretty limited time with sitters, and by the time we get to playing (if we get to playing) we are running toward a sleep deprived rest of the weekend. I'm pretty much just venting as this doesn't have any solutions save buying a bigger house to throw our own parties with our timelines, and waiting for the kids to grow up. Guess I'm still a little grumpy and trying to catch up on my sleep...
  11. I've been bi since the first time I played doctor with another boy. I have always been infatuated with girls, then women, but the taboo of a penis turned me on, even when I was terrified of the thought of it. When I met my wife I was starting to understand that at least a part of me was bi and that the few experiences as a teen weren't just random. As we continued on our sexual exploration into group sex, little by little I dared to try new things, and discovered that there is a degree of m/m play I enjoy. I am getting a little bolder all the while and have a great group of LS friends who are all pretty open minded, and so far I think I know this about myself: I am turned on by cock more so than by men. I know when a man is generally attractive but I don't feel attracted to men on the street, but get them naked and in a group sex environment and I crave tasting my wife on their todger! Also I've always loved porn, from too young an age as I should have found it, and in recent years the content I like has become more varied. Bi porn has become a staple in our masturbation, and as we look for future MFM partners we have put more of an emphasis on finding bi guys to join us, just so the option is there to explore further. So, to answer the question... finally, yeah, I am still learning to enjoy being bi!
  12. I of course mean that generally I guess what I am trying to point out is that in our world 'straight', 'bi-situational', 'bi-curious', 'bisexual' and 'gay' are not just labels but references to what kinds of activities we might expect from potential playmates. Sometimes I want a burger, sometimes I want a hotdog, and sometimes I want the whole damn buffet. If I'm on AFF looking for potentials, these 'labels' will help point me in the direction of the 'meal' which I (we) am looking at partaking in at that point in time. Some days I might bi-pass (sorry, I had too!) a couple for a particular label, but might find myself drawn to them when I'm in another mood. Sometimes it is just quicker to find and to be found by these labels.
  13. I think that that is the advantage to being bi, that you can chose just about anybody you find attractive and realize what the situation could be going into it. Think of it this way, you may not pass up a couple for this listing, but would you pass them up on a given night if it wasn't what you were in the mood for? I know, usually online swinging is usually a more drawn out process, but in an ideal world where you could take your pick of the litter that day, would you turn down a straight couple one night for some bi fun, or vice-versa?
  14. Our opinions on having 'feelings' for people we play with have changed over the years. At first we were very protective of our relationship, and we believed that if either of us ever began to feel 'feelings' for a playmate, we would end that situation. As playmates came and went, some were 'ships in the night' and some have been around since the beginning, we have never ended an arrangement over 'feelings'. Instead, as far as the great friends and lovers we have made go, we have become truly close to some, and care about our special friends deeply, however we are both 100% confident that we are each others one and only. Sexual attraction will come and go, and finding people you adore is to be cherished, but your one love is just that.
  15. I think society does help to create a fear of not conforming to the status quo. My wife and I are relatively open with a good deal of our friends. My wife's one sister has a pretty good idea of how we spend our nights free from the kids, but I know that in a professional setting it isn't as easily accepted. She was working as a receptionist at a popular business in a small community where even showing cleavage was frowned upon by the owners. We were at a company BBQ when the subject of swinging - actual people in particular that had been thought to be swingers, had come up and the people who they were talking about were not being mentioned in a particularly respectful way because of their lifestyle choice. It was pretty obvious at that point that if it were known about us those same peoples opinions of my wife would be altered for the worse, which would likely end her chances of promotion within the company she otherwise loved. As for my work situation, while I can't see having any professional backlash over my admission, if the guys I worked with were to find out that I enjoy a good MFM with my wife, it could contribute to my being treated as some sort of social leper, and while some may say 'who cares what others think', the fact of the matter is when you have to work with people day-in, day-out and getting along with these people makes the day and job that much easier, why would you risk revealing it for the sake of bragging rights and a few minutes of interesting conversation. However, in a perfect world, wouldn't it be nice! I'll be honest, my wife's situation is probably the worse one than mine, but still...
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