jodi

hi, thanks for all of your replies. glad that i'm in a poly relationship now & it's going well. so, i'm feeling more comfortable approaching things as a single female ...but, lol, sometimes my couple is there w/ me...we'v been to a club a few times & hv met some people. talk soon. jodi

hi. after 18 years of 2 marriages, and involved in lifestyle periodically thoughout that time, i am now single and wondering how to proceed with my social life. i have many friends, straight girl friends that are friends of my children's friends, that kind of thing. lately, i've been entertaining the idea of singles groups and even mentioned to my girlfriends that i'm on the market again, jokingly, but they actually came up with people for me to date. the thing is, i don't want a serious relationship, but maybe just a guy that i can enjoy his company and even go to a swinger club and have some fun this way, whether full swap or not. i know there's lots of single guys that are into swinging, but to be honest, this makes me nervous, just meeting random swinger guys. does anyone have any suggestions? on my last post, i got some great suggestions to call a club ahead of time and the host couple can introduce me around. so maybe i'll meet someone, or make some friends this way. i can't force it to happen. thanks forreading.

a swinger. cheating is sneaky. but, i guess cheating is more acceptable.

i think a man should be a gentleman, a gentle man. isn't it the woman that gives the cues anyway? if i had to give advice, i'd say to try to be more alert to cuesthat a female is giving you, e.g. touching your shoulder, smiling alot, flipping her hair back, . flirting basically. but grabbing butts and boobs, definately not. i wouldn't like it.