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  1. As an avid DVP fan, I've done a write up on this just for people like you Chicup Successful DV is in your future if you're into it! To the OP; it's about pleasuring the girl. There's nothing gay about that. DVP stands for double vaginal penetration and it is FANTASTIC. If you've got a vagina and you're into penetration and totally get off on it, you will probably like DVP. I'm 5'6'', 150 pounds and I've been doing this for almost 3 years. I've done it with smaller than average dicks, average dicks and bigger than average dicks and all combinations. I've seen a 5'2'' 100 pound girl take two larger than average dicks and enjoy the hell out of it. Body size is not a limiting factor. Vaginas stretch, this is a fact. They also STRETCH BACK. You can go back to having pleasurable single partner sex within 2 minutes of DVP. Or at least I can, and so can everyone else I've ever spoken to about this. Don't worry. Vaginas in an aroused state are very flexible and happy. This scenario works with 2 guys, 1girl. GuyA, GuyB and Girl. GuyA lays on his back with a happy boner. Girl gets on top of GuyA, facing him and slowly leans forward until they are belly to belly. It generally helps if GuyA has a long enough dick to allow this to happen, but really there doesn't need to be a whole lot of length to make this work. GuyA has his legs together. Pro tip: Pull out your balls so you don't squish them between your thighs. You might want GuyB to lube up a bit, even if you get really wet, I'd suggest a bit of extra lube. It makes everyone happy. GuyB, has his legs outside to GuyA's legs. This gives him the position and angle necessary to thrust without a whole lot of work (GuyA should already be inside Girl). GuyB is the one doing most of the work in this scenario. GuyA and Girl aren't doing a whole lot of thrusting. Girl has her knees outside GuyB's knees. It might take a bit to get used to, readjust as necessary. GuyB (doggy stylish, behind Girl) slides his dick in beside GuyA's dick. Go slow, if you're both thick give Girl a chance to get adjusted and allow her vagina to get used to the...hmm..influx of activity. Once everyone is ready, GuyB thrusts There may be some slippage, just pull out, line up and go again. It's fun and easy! Safety Tip This is not a scenario that is safe if both men are wearing condoms. It is very important for at least one of the men to not be wearing a condom. If your play style does not allow this, Try a female condom, but the men will still be touching. Two male condoms together will rub and cause friction, this could cause breaking or slipping. I have NEVER had a problem with just a single guy in a DVP situation wearing a condom. No breaking, no slippage.
  2. Guess no one would be pleased with me then... I'm a jeans and a t-shirt kinda gal. Hoodies? All the time. Cute possibly mis-matching socks? All the time. I shower, shave and brush my teeth. I shaved my head a few months ago so my hair is literally too short to style. I don't wear makeup, ever, so that's not changing... Guess I'll just be down at the bottom of the pile. Seriously, if they're arriving in dirty, smelly gross clothes? Than leave. But don't fault people for not blinging themselves out to meet some strangers at Applebees.
  3. This is not true. Low risk and high risk refers to how likely the dysplasia is to cause cancer, not genital warts. The strains of HPV that cause warts do not (generally) cause cancer. They are separate issues. If you have low grade dysplasia, the cell changes are very few, and aren't far from normal. The higher the grade of dysplasia, the further along the cell changes have progressed. The cellular changes can eventually lead to cervical cancer. As KM34 already stated, cervical cancer is rare to occur if you get yearly paps done because it is generally caught very early. If you have genital warts, it is a different strain of HPV. Hopefully this quoted paragraph below can clear some of the information up. It's is from wikipedia (i know wiki, but the information is on par with what I have talked about with my doctor). From here exactly, Cervical cancer - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia "More than 150 types of HPV are acknowledged to exist (some sources indicate more than 200 subtypes).[12][13] Of these, 15 are classified as high-risk types (16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 68, 73, and 82), 3 as probable high-risk (26, 53, and 66), and 12 as low-risk (6, 11, 40, 42, 43, 44, 54, 61, 70, 72, 81, and CP6108).[14] Types 16 and 18 are generally acknowledged to cause about 70% of cervical cancer cases. Together with type 31, they are the prime risk factors for cervical cancer.[15] Genital warts are caused by various strains of HPV which are usually not related to cervical cancer. However, it is possible to have multiple strains at the same time, including those that can cause cervical cancer along with those that cause warts. The medically accepted paradigm, officially endorsed by the American Cancer Society and other organizations, is that a patient must have been infected with HPV to develop cervical cancer, and is hence viewed as a sexually transmitted disease (although many dispute that, technically, it is the causative agent, not the cancer, that is a sexually transmitted disease), but most women infected with high risk HPV will not develop cervical cancer.[16] Use of condoms reduces, but does not always prevent transmission. Likewise, HPV can be transmitted by skin-to-skin-contact with infected areas. In males, there is no commercially available test for HPV, although HPV is thought to grow preferentially in the epithelium of the glans penis, and cleaning of this area may be preventative."
  4. You are correct on this, I did forget about that information. They do not do any testing unless you get a weird pap back though, you don't just go to the doctor or clinic like you would with any other STI and get a test though.
  5. I've had problems with both men and women being way too aggressive. It's extremely uncomfortable for me. When we were swinging we just met couples individually and hosted ourselves. I dont want to pull this post off topic though, maybe i'll post about it in "bad swinging experiences"
  6. And that same fact can't apply to a straight women in a couple? I think there is way too much emphasis on G/G play at events and parties. It's part of the reason I felt uncomfortable going to house parties.
  7. Your husband may or may not be a carrier, there is no way to tell HPV status in men at this time unfortunately.
  8. That's not the information I've gotten from my doctor at all Chicup. There is no HPV test, you just go back 2x a year for paps instead of 1x a year. Either the results come back normal, weird for something else, or weird for cervical dysplasia. Cervical dysplasia is ONLY caused by HPV. Km34, my doctor told me when I voiced my concerns about HPV was the following: Many woman have one weird pap come back sometime in their 20s, and never have another issue again related to the cervical dysplasia. Given the lack of testing in both men and women, it's impossible to tell if you still have the virus at this time. Most people generally clear the virus in 12-24 months. My doctor told me specifically to make sure all the women you know that are sexually active are getting a yearly pap done and keeping up to date with the rest of their standard screening. You have the option of stopping play. You have the option of continuing to play. I would suggest however, letting any and all sexual partners you've had recently know about your pap and have any women you know make sure they get their yearly exam done. Your partners can then make a decision to stop play with you, or continue. Who knows if they have also had weird paps come back and they've neglected to tell you about it (although I'd probably stop playing with people who didn't offer up this information when they found out). Condoms do not prevent the spread of HPV. The reduce the likelihood of being exposed, but do not eliminate it. It can be transferred skin to skin. Also, HPV can lie dormant in the system for over 5 years, sometimes up to 10 before causing anything weird to happen (i.e. abnormal paps). By the time you present with an abnormal pap, you could have already cleared the virus, it's just taken that long to show up in your system. My doctor told me this "it is an unrealistic expectation to stop people from having sex over this. It is an epidemic. By age 45, over 85% of sexually active women will have some strain of HPV and we don't know the numbers in men." Basically, if you are having sex, you most likely will run into this. It isn't something you have to shut down completely over, you just need to be aware of your own health and the health of your partners. Make sure you do a lot of research, your doctor should be able to tell you MORE than everything you need to know, they are an invaluable resource, give your doctor or nurse or PA a call. They should be able to direct you to any resources you'd need.
  9. Hire a pro? That's kind of their job, to come over, fuck you, maybe have a bit of small talk and then leave. Try asking your friends what you might be able to tweak about yourself. They're with you in person. They'll know if its something as trivial as "you don't bathe before dates" or if its something major "dude you're coming off as a creeper." Please don't take any of this personally, I've never met you, I don't know you from johnny. I wouldn't recommend the swinging scene as "the place to get laid." I know (personally) I'd would not pick a virgin as a partner because I want someone who knows the deal. It's a lot of pressure on guys especially to preform in the context of swinging/group sex/whatever. I mean, feel free to try but don't expect ladies to be throwing themselves at you. Too many guys (sexual status unrelated) think swinging is a variable pool of pussy, this is not true. Have you tried the regular dating websites? They are really good for guys that might not have as much "game" to get to know people they might be interested in (just PLEASE read profiles before messaging people). Okcupid is alternate relationship friendly, moreso than other sites I've been on.
  10. I get this a lot. I chose "bisexual" on the sites as my sexuality even though I'm not bisexual, I identify as pansexual. Most sites don't even know what that is, let alone have an option for it. I go on to explain in great detail in my profiles so people know what they are getting into. That and I hate getting solicited for FMF threesomes from strangers anyway, so even if I was into the girl, the fact that they treat me like another vagina (instead of a person) is a huge turn off. Stick with it, you'll find couples who understand that F/F play is not the frigging song and dance of swinging. If couples are only interested in that, then you know they aren't good partner choices for you guys anyway. Swinging is a numbers game as far as finding compatibility. Keep looking, don't sweat when people are douches, and keep having a good time.
  11. Wow... Echoing what everyone else is saying. What your wife is doing is NOT swinging, it's cheating. Those two things are not the same thing. Either she wants to fix things with you and make sure you two are on the same page, or she doesn't. She can't cheat on you, then emotionally blackmail you, then get angry at you, all while you aren't doing anything. She needs to stop seeing this guy now. She needs to talk to you, now. And if she doesn't want to fix things with you, then you need to figure out where you're going to go next. Maybe you should bring her here to take a look at the responses and read up on how both partners need to be kept on the same page for a relationship to stay stable while swinging. Maybe she needs to be told that you should always go at the pace of the slower partner, to make sure everyone is comfortable.
  12. Since you can only find other couples, why dont you guys switch out ladies if everyones ok with it? That's what we do for friends
  13. My fiancée and I swing and are in an open relationship so we have a lot of interesting dynamics going on. We both usually have 1-2 OTHER partners than ourselves. However, we are the primary relationship and have rules in place to make sure boundaries are respected, everyone knows whats going on, etc. It has been years in the making and I've never felt more sexually gratified and fulfilled. It's not for everyone, it wasn't even for us at first. When we first started swinging we were SAME ROOM only (full swap but same room) and the idea of being separated mortified us. However, over time, it became apparent that either we had wants, thoughts or desires that we couldn't satisfy for each other; i.e. he is a bisexual man and no matter how hard I try I don't have a penis, so there was no way he could experience that with me. The real trigger item was BDSM which he was VERY interested in and I wasn't. Should my lack of interest in a certain fetish be the end of my partners interest in it? He found a mentor who he loves and trusts and they had a beautiful thing going on (it's on hold because of things going on in her personal life but now we are perusing Kink together, and I'm getting my poor vanilla boyfriend interested in all this stuff as well. I think it's been interesting for him too).
  14. I masturbate sometimes... but I'd rather have sex. I cum so much harder with a partner and it takes me so long to cum through masturbation that sometimes it's just not worth it. :/
  15. I do DVP in every MFM threesome where all the guys are cool with it, 90% of the time it happens, but thats because I love it and usually talk to partners about it prior to nakedness.
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