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mwc_mich

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  • Birthday 10/25/1974

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  1. I tend to not judge people by their age and let attraction and compatibility determine who I see. My poly partners have ranged from early 30s (similar age) to a partner who was in his early 60s. Everyone has something to offer and variety is the key to keeping things fresh and exciting.
  2. I thought of a few additions - Fantasy Fest - Desire or Hedo - Letting a really cute masseuse rub all the right places
  3. Sounds like a next step for us... how fun!!!
  4. Here is mine - More voyeur sex... public beach, a park.. etc - Join the mile high club - Blindfold / mystery sex - A small group of guys and me (may remain a fantasy)
  5. We had some recent voyeur fun. We had a suite in Chicago on the 42nd floor. The hotel was on Michigan avenue but our room was on the opposite side of the hotel. It was late and we had all the lights on in the room. I pulled him over to the window and we had sex for about 15 minutes pressed up against the glass giving a little show!!! I had never had the nerve to do that before but its still a turn on for me to think about... It won't be my last time!
  6. I've dated all races... but I've always had an attraction to black men. To me it is no different than someone have a preference to hair color or eye color. I guess you could look deeper and try to pick out some psychological reason and there might be some element of the taboo that fuels it. Beyond that it's just a simple physical attraction and variety that makes it exciting for me. Variety IS the spice of life so spice it up!!
  7. I think the title of this thread defines my response. When I've truly had a poly "relationship" I've wanted to spend some time alone and away from my everyday life with my boyfriend. Vacations are one of the things that take dating to the level of a true relationship. When I ask my husband if I can take a trip with a friend he knows that I'm serious about the person I'm seeing that I need to spend the time away. Although he's never said no, it gives him a signal that I'm more serious about the person I'm seeing and is a point where he has some say in my realtionship. If you are poly you know how difficult it is to juggle more than one relationship. Its really nice to just get away and enjoy each other for a while and connect and focus on the person in front of me. On vacation I try and maintain good contact with my husband but its not constant... calls are pretty infrequent and I try to be discrete about them too. I am lucky to be married to someone that understands and lets me take the time to spend developing my relationships into more than just casual friendships. As far as my husband coming along, we've talked about that and vacationing as a triad is not something that we would do. It kind of defeats the purpose of the vacation as well. Vacations with friends are infrequent enough and usually different enough from things that we like to do together that its never really been an issue between us.
  8. I don't think I've ever met the perfect lover yet, but I'm still looking. That being said I think everyone brings something unique. I've had some amazing lovers that were better in some aspect that my husband but its helped us both together. I've learned things that work for me and I can tech them to him and he does the same. The variety is part of the fun of the lifestyle and not sharing that is kind of missing the point.
  9. I always wear underwear to clubs. I think its more erotic and a little mysterious to have something left to take off after a dress or skirt. Then I can till leave something for the play room after which give my partner something to discover later.
  10. WE started with a pretty healthy list of rules and quickly found out we didn't need them. Always respect each other and communicate openly. If either of us is uncomfortable then it is time to stop. When it stops being fun then its time to stop! Its simple as that!
  11. For me it was not something that I did right from the start and in fact I thought going without a condom was a pretty crazy idea. A couple of years after we started I kind of realized that I wasn't being any more risky than when I was single and I adopted that attitude. I prefer my partner to cum inside but again it all depends on the moment, situation, etc.
  12. It is our 10th anniversary this year!! We've been together for 15 years.
  13. Sometimes I feel like poly is not as widely understood as the rest of the lifestyle, so it is great to see a dedicated poly section on the site!
  14. I would agree. I've never met a person who was in love with using them! For me it depends on the partner and the trust that I have built with that person. Unless it is used wrong there is rarely a problem with condoms. I have an IUD so assuming that it working, I always have it my mind that if something were to happen and it failed would I be nervous about STDs? If the answer is yes then I probably shouldn't be playing with this person. If it is no, then I know I'm making a good choice and time and trust will probably lead us to more intimate times.
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