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TwoAreLooking

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About TwoAreLooking

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  • Birthday 12/30/1966

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    SE MI
  • Interests
    cooking, reading, computer gams
  • Swinging Experience
    3-4 years
  • Anniversary
    1/20/95

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    TwoAreLooking
  • SwingerZoneCentral Username
    twoarelooking
  • Kasidie Username
    TwoAreLooking

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  1. Swinger Zone Central and Swinglifestyle have been the most productive for us. We're in SE Michigan. Kasidie has just been annoying. Considering pulling down even the trifle of profile we have there.
  2. This makes sense to me. He and I both identify as "heteroflexible." To us, that is that our default is attraction to the opposite sex, but fooling around with the same sex is entirely possible and not icky. Finally, I should note that seeing two men who are turned on by me and each other turns ME on. A lot.
  3. So fucking true. I'm in the process of explaining to a ("wups, did I not mention this?") married man that we do not foster cheating. Vegas Lee (you fabulous man and smart swinger), you posted this 10 years ago, and it's still true! M.
  4. I am wondering about this one, too. I'm in my 40s, so perhaps a little older than OP, but younger than most people with dentures. I have a top plate for my front four teeth (moral of the story: don't let your children's braces stay on too long). The plate is newish, and we haven't been out playing since I got it. I love giving BJ's, frankly. I now prefer without the plate in, so I can do everything I want to do. Also, i was glad I was able to get the work done -- the natural front four were getting ugly and painful. So: advice? I love everyone who said if the potential playmate doesn't get it, it's their problem... but I'm shy!
  5. I agree with all of the replies! Keep an eye out, have a bag ready, and stay strong. M.
  6. Sweet Blury, I think what I see here is what I agree with... we all love you, even though we don't know you and this man is being abusive and is potentially dangerous to you. A lot. We will be here to support you emotionally as much as we can, and as much as you can let us. M.
  7. okay, many thoughts, and this may be horribly garbled. Sorry in advance! Thought: he's being a jackass, and a coontrolling, abusive jackass at that. This is a mutual journey. If D said "no, I can't do this," we'd be done. Period. Would I miss it? Yes... but my primary relationship is the point. Thought: baby girl, you feel bad about having sex with other people? This will come out harsh: stop it. His pleasure is not worth your emotional torture. No matter what. Thought: what else do you get from this relationship? Do you fear abuse if you speak up and say, "hey, let's cool it with the playtime with others, for a non-specific period of time, until I say I'm willing to dip my toe in again, if ever?" If the answer is yes, I worry about you and the relationship. Thought: threatening to cheat if you won't swing is pure mean mind-fuckery. Please don't be too upset if I'm too brass tacks. I'm just a voice on the internet, you know? All my love, M
  8. and I'm glad to hear that this is true for other couples. Because our baseline rule is always together and never with a single member of a couple, we sometimes "miss out." I put it in quotes because we don't feel like we are missing out on drama. ...that said, there have been situations where I played alone. Not a particularly ongoing thing, because he sort of lost his mind. Hopefully, that wasn't my fault. I mean, one speaks of mindblowing sex, but... oh, dear.
  9. Hey, reading your post on the Newbie Mistakes thread, and wanted to let you know that I feel compassionate for your plight. How frigging RUDE was THAT couple? Sigh. D & I would not pull that kind of stunt, but D does not drink at all... that was obviously a factor.

     

    Best,

     

    M.

  10. Thank you for the feedback, sweetness! I love your posts and comments, so feedback from you is especially pleasing to me. Huzzah, indeed, baby. I'm hoping the youth will equal shorter refractory time. 'Cause that would be, you know, useful. And stuff.
  11. Encouraged by the positive feedback, I'm taking a stab at infrequently posting... My current amusement at myself is what I realize is the conversion of a vanilla boy. I say boy because I realized that he is... wait for it... twenty-two. Well, I'm 43. This is a boy that I flirted with excessively... hey, I should tell the story. As some of you know, I'm a budding ren-faire merchant, with the wonderful and enthusiastic support of D (Mr. TwoAreLooking). This past weekend, we set it up so that my business needed to be in two faires at the same time. THAT didn't work out, but we had already made prior arrangements to hire two different friends, one to work with us at each event. I was at the more-likely-to-make-money one, working with my friend... let's call her Jen. Jen, it turns out, is a kindred soul. Her marriage is way more open than mine. She can do anything up until actual intercourse. I discuss everything possible with D beforehand, and had already warned him that I was all about getting my flirt on at this event. He was down with it. End of a long, rainy, cold Saturday. I'd packed up and changed into 'danes. Site was horrifyingly muddy. Already had a plan to stay at a local friends' home, so had some time to wander around faire with Jen. It was the final weekend of that faire, so Jen had already planned to make some purchases she'd been putting off. She wanted to go pick up a pair of shoes she'd had her eye on. Off to the shoe merchant! At the other end of the site. We got there, she bought the shoes, and she noticed the charming assistant. He goes by Slim. He matches his name. She cuddles up to one side, and invites me to warm up his other side. Provocative talk ensued. Neck nibbling ensued -- of both of us, and of him. My neck is really quite sensitive. I got faint and very turned on! Cannon has long gone off and most danes are off-site. Owner of shop, used to faire shenanigans, is studiously working away on his phone on the bench at the front of the shop. Talk turns to cleavage, and I point out that I've changed out of my bodice, but there are twins present and accounted for -- see? He saw. I was wearing a knit tank under my shirt, so he really did only see cleavage. I leaned over to Jen and told her that we should see if his nipples were pierced. He looked quizzical at the whispering, and we simultaneously checked. They weren't, by the way. See, still only flirting! Jen drifts away, and I let him know that I <b>don't</b> have the same openess in my marriage that Jen does. We play, but only together. He smiled and said that sounded worth trying. Next morning: texted the cute boy b/c I was too busy to get to his booth to say good morning. He came to my pavillion. He greets me sweetly, and I stood with my back to him to get subtle cuddles -- I am at my business, see? Jen cuddled up to his back. He kissed me gently but throughly, and goes off to the rest of his day. This week, since this weekend, I have had a chance to text some more with him -- mostly provocative, but not explicit. We all (me, D, Slim) are planning on getting together next Friday. I will, naturally, update! Just as well that we are meeting in a week -- poor thing has a chest cold! Hope he perks up. Man, do I hope he perks up!
  12. The reaction on my hometown (Detroit-area) "alternative" station (89X) to Demi/Ashton info was kind of horrified. I think that even if the personalities themselves are ok with swinging or open marriages (which I think are two different things, frankly), they can't actually SAY that on-air. This is too darned bad, as Michigan has long been known as a weird dichotomy: very conservative, uptight people on one hand, and an underground-but-nearly-public sexually adventurous set of folks on the other. Sigh.
  13. Looking to see if there's any interest in our fairly tame life. It would mostly be to work out stuff in M's head (me). I'm pretty much the only one posting here, as D is not much for reading online. Thoughts?
  14. Reading the posts, I realize that one interaction may count. The first time we got together with another couple, we (I) did one-on-one interactions, and that was STUPID. The couple was on the rocks in a big way. Train. Wreck. M.
  15. Okay, that's kind of amazing. I was planning on posting the exact same thing -- my husband & I both wear glasses, and take them off. My only currently-active playmate leaves his on pretty much until he doesn't need them at all Amusingly, my husband is near-sighted, and I am far-sighted. The result is that we wear glasses at opposite times! M.
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