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About ncalfuncpl

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  • Birthday 11/04/1968

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    Couple
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    Nevada county, ca
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    12/14

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    funlovingcplca

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  1. We are full timers, currently at Paradise Lakes Resort, Lutz, FL no exit date yet happy where we are
  2. Reading the forums everyone is looking for the perfect couple to date. I have been in the LS for many years on and off always looking for the perfect couple. My current Girlfriend and now long term SO I brought into the lifestyle, we have a different outlook. We have 4 rules: 1. Both have Veto power (the only time this came in play we both wanted to use it) 2. No Anal (this is our special thing together) 3. Use condoms (Well we try both have broken this rule) 4. We always go home together (biggest rule, have sex together and discuss what happened) We have found rather than long conversations, we like Hot tub hookups, playroom hookups...just sex. A month or so ago We were asking at the nude resort if anyone turned in flip flops to the lost and found, the receptionist ask "You guys had fun last night, what where their names?" Lisa came back with "We don't ask those kind of questions" Last Weekend we were at a private party, hooked up with several people in the play room, at the end of the night they wanted to give us their SLS name...I was nice put it in my phone, then didn't save it, didn't care We want to have fun sex, not date these people. Are we just Sluts?
  3. We have become very tired of single males. All of our local clubs allow them. Over the weekend we attended a private invite only house party that was hosts by a couple we had meet several months back on SLS. This was Couples only, we had the best time we have had in ages. No singles is our preference
  4. We ended up skipping on Secrets and spent 9 days at paradise lakes, would couldn't have had a better time. Good bang for the buck, Swinger Friendly, we had no issues finding playmates, we will be planning a return tip in the near future.
  5. There is many different ways to nicely deal with these guys. Most haven't a clue what swinging is about just looking for easy sex. Does anyone do Couples only parties anymore? Seems like all of the clubs and parties in our area, have opened up to Single males, I think it for the money. However we are to the point we just stay home because we don't feel like dealing with them.
  6. Recently we have had several evenings ruined by very pushy single males. A month or so ago we had arranged to meet a couple that we had made contact with on SLS at a club. We were having a fun conversation, then a single male actually sat himself down at the table with us and poured himself a glass of wine from our bottle. When us couples decided to move to a play room, we literally had to close the door in this guy's face. Another weekend at the local Nude resort, we were having a conversation with an interesting couple, again a single male gets between us and tries to take over the conversation. We finally decided to leave and call it an evening, and return to our room. This guy asked if he could join us, what room we were in, he didn't get we were leaving because of him. At this point we would really enjoy a couples evening, however all of the local clubs allow single men, and so do the advertised parties. Looking at SLS Hot Date many of the RSVPs are 50% single males. We are not against playing with a single male, but that is the exception not the rule, we really want to play with couples. Has anyone else noticed the increase in single males? How can we swing as a couple without dealing with so many rude ones?
  7. Thank you for all the good information, I think we are going to Stay at paradise lakes and Day Trip to Caliante. We are hoping The Tree House will be having a Sunday Party and Finish the Week off at Secrets in Orlando, any comment on those locations?
  8. I am the male. I have been in the lifestyle for many years. I have always been half of a couple. I have never liked single males at parties and clubs, I always selected parties and clubs that at least limited single males. Over the past year my significant other and I have split and have gone different ways. I am no longer part of a "Couple" I have a Friend with Benefits, that had an interest the lifestyle. After some talk I took her to her first house party, as I told her she would just want to watch the first time. It got her attention, she liked what she seen. Now we are attending parties as a couple. But once we are there we will play as singles or play as a couple. I will not approach a couple without her, but a single female is fair game. She is only ok with playing (she likes men, woman, and couples) but only if I am in the room, even if we are playing with different people. (I like woman or a couple) she feels safe that way, if she can call my name and say she is uncomfortable, she knows I will be there. Have I just found a technicality since I arrive with a female and leave with a female we are a couple...or am I the Single male that I hate at these parties? How do true couples feel about people like us?
  9. We are late 40's early 50's. We dont have a problem finding people our age or older. We use SLS and we will look at the parties on Hot Date, then look at the attendees..if they are all young..we find a different party. We have found one club and one regular party not far from us that has the age group we are looking for. You are normal and your age group is out there
  10. Thank you for all your advice...this worked out. The girls ended up going to dinner together, talk between them, and became friends. we all worked our schedules and locations, we came together in a nice hotel room..and had a great time...working on when we can do it again. As the man...this was such a treat..24 hours later you couldnt take the smile off my face
  11. We agree to the couple..single...people..we are playing with before we get involved...after than...well..game on
  12. The condition was a big issue, it appears to be off the table now, but with a secure relationship in the lifestyle, we were able to discuss this and find it to be acceptable. We were even able to discuss rules if it was to be on going..that is between us...but isn't that what this is all about..
  13. When we first started swinging we had a no Kissing rule...that didn't work, we both broke it on the first couple, kissing is just part of sex....
  14. We quest for the Single Female for a FFM is what brought us into the lifestyle, but we have found couples to be a lot of fun. I (The Male) always thought it should be the female approach the other female to invite her, especially if we believe she is vanilla. After years of no luck, a drunken night on facebook, I asked a female friend from High School, if she would join us, I very quickly got a yes answer back, with a condition...that she could have a night with me solo. My GF and I discussed it, she read the conversation between me and this other girl had on Facebook. We normally do not play separate, but she agreed. a she said lets do this. I contacted the Single female "When would you like to do this?" She needed a couple of weeks to recover from some oral surgery then game on... less than a week later the Single female contacts me "If we are going to do this we need to do it, I have started dating someone and I think it will get serous and I don't want to cheat on him.." I went back "We are available this weekend" She came back "I Work weekends" I said "How about Monday night then? I will book us a nice Hotel" She said "I need to meet your GF first" I managed to get the girls together to talk on the phone...now their schedules just don't mesh to get together... At what point do you say f..it and move on? Single Females thou are really hard to find...
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