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lnm98

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About lnm98

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    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 12/19/1972

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Kalamazoo
  1. Chicup: Actually we are certain it was couple #1 due to timing and other factors. My wife is the type to take full responsibility - I think she is right - she is just a different person when she drinks and each time she had been drinking. I am wondering if we have lost our chance to enjoy the lifestyle forever, or if we can overcome this setback.
  2. After a whirlwind first year of swinging, with one couple rather regularly (couple #1-including some separate play), and another couple (couple #2) twice, my wife was diagnosed with herpes and says she will not do it anymore - she is totally done. Everything was great until the diagnosis. When we found out we were both devastated and I felt guilty. I thought we were done at that point, but even after the diagnosis we went to a party recently with couple #2 and after the party they came to our house and we told them about the diagnosis and we still swung. On top of the herpes issue she is also afraid the other people at the party know about us and doesn't like sneaking around and now she is sure she is done with it and attributes it to drinking too much each time. But during the last year she told me several times when she hadn't had too much to drink that she was just as into it as I was (which was a lot). I think we both enjoyed our foray into the lifestyle immensely and if she had not gotten herpes and we were smarter and more discreet we would continue with it. It looks like our swinging is dead but I think neither of us really wants it to be - what should I/we do. Thanks in advance for all the advice I can get.
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