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sealovers

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About sealovers

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  • Birthday 06/27/1969

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    detroit
  1. I honestly appreciate your replies ! Thank you guys ! I guess I do need to be extremely honest with her and talk straight and clear. In the bottom of my confused soul, I guess there's a stupid fear that she might do this by herself if I declare my jealousy issue. Something like "-Hey, it's your fantasy too, right ?". During some rough time we had some months ago, some day, after sex, we discussed about swinging again and she said that maybe this would be a good way to test our relationship, our feelings. I thought and still think that this is a very wrong way to test a relationship. Later she agreed with this. Since then, our relationship changed very much for the good but I'm still not ready to plunge into this. I did tell her a few times that I would like to find a place for amateur streeptease (not exactly in our city) to see how we both feel after that. This is something I would be ok with for now. I guess this would be also a good way to test my "issues"
  2. Hi guys, Mr.Sealovers here. This is the very first post with my basic question, after searching the forums with not too much luck Here it is: - I always had my fantasies about group sex, especially a DP with my wife, but never talked to her about this. - Ths is crazy but I am also kinda jelous and don't know how I would feel about my wife having sex with another man......although this is my fantasy Crazy isn't it ? - About a year ago, my wife asked me what do I feel about group sex. She told me that she has a fantasy about having sex with two men (exactly my fantasy about her) - Because of my jelousy, I gave her an untrue answer, that I also have a fantasy about having sex with two women. Untrue, my fantasy is a DP on my wife or a full swap in the same room ending with DP's on both women. - The subject died there and we "concentrated" in some voyeur pictures, amateur posts, toys, sex on the deck at night and things of this sort. My big question is this: - How can I bypass my jelousy stupid issue ? Did any of you guys had this thing ? - We had our marital issues at times, maybe a few no-sex week-ends, some fights, but no super-issues. So we're not a "diamond" marriage and I don't really know what swinging could do to us. I really don't want to "jump" without thinking into something that can destroy things that I fought for. Any ideas from you guys can help, might help. I'm just asking a stupid question, for the very first time in my life, about some fantasy that I don't know how to handle because I don't want it to destroy my marriage.
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