Thank you all for writing in. I appreciate the differant views. I did talk to her the next day about it and worked it out. We do have great communication. I told her it was part my fault for playing head games with myself. She said she was having fun and lost track of time and thought I was coming back.
When I said that our rule is to play together always doesn't mean to stop durning piss breaks. Just no full swapping in another room without each other. I don't mind if I got to go get something to drink or piss and she continues to play but I figured after an hour of me being gone she would come look for me. 1: To make sure I was alright (physical or emotion). 2: Because it is suppost to be a MFM party not a MF. I just felt a little hurt she didn't come find me.
Thanks again everyone. I just wanted your opinion on the matter. I do understand it was my fault for testing her like I did and told her it wouldn't happen again and she said she would be more aware of me being gone.