Oh man, was it great to read your post! I too am a man that has a problem with the kissing issue. My wife and I had a threesome a few weeks back, and that was the one thing that I had a problem with. As a matter of fact, I posted a message on here regarding that issue, and boy did I catch a lot of flak for my feelings. So, it is good to know that there is one other guy that share my feelings!