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Well, I think everyone was right. Last night we were out for a drive and she brought up the Swinger email, and that there is a new Swingers Club near us. Additionally, she talked about a certain Swingers Party near us, where "Swingers go to have fun." Shame on me, but we were as she was finishing her comments, getting out of the car. My only response was that I would try and check the email on that Website, but would first have to get a new Password issued. In short, since she has brought it up twice in two weeks, yes, I would have to say that she is indeed interested in pursueing the lifestyle again. Thanks for your answers everyone, and if anyone wants to chime in further I would be very interested in what you have to say.

Here are the basic facts about our previous experience and backgrounds. We are mid-40's couple, reasonably or better attractive. I am very outgoing, but the wife can be shy or at least a little timid. Since our Daughter was born four years ago, we have never been out alone. About 5 years ago we experimented with swinging but never consumated it. We did build a Profile on a Swingers Site with her photos in Public Viewing but with her face masked. We then went to a Swingers Club near our home about 4 times, but never had a Swing relationship, only sitting talking with others etc and seeing some of the sex acts taking place. Afterwards we always had hot sex at home. She also has in the past talked of wanting to have a bi encounter, though she says she is bi curious. She also thinks it would be hot if she could watch me with another woman. Then we found out she was pregnant. She said leave the Profile but (I think) she said remove her photos on the Swinger Site. In any case, for almost 4 years we have not spoken of Swinging. This week we went on vacation. The night before she turned the TV to Showtime and we watched some soft porn film while we made love. Her eyes were constantly on it as we made love. Two days later while returning to our home from vacation, she calmly stated that, "I still get a lot of email from sex sites and Swinger Websites." Then added this, (which is true), , "I don't read them, I just delete them, but it is nice that these sites always keep me aware of events and things in that lifestyle." Then lastly added, "I am glad we went to City A for vacation, because City B had a Swinger Party there this last night." "I noticed that there was a Party in City B from the subject line of a email I received from the Swinger Website we are on." I listened but made no reply as our little one was sleeping in the back seat. After she finished, I added, "Well you can read anything in your email if you want, there's no harm." She then replied with, "yea those people we met and the ones we exchanged email with were all so very nice." She then asked, when was the last time I had checked the Swinger Site Inbox (I said it had been a while) and then she added as the conversation died out, "Even if you left my Photos on the Site it is OK with me. There is no harm." So this is the story in as much detail as I can remember and with all the facts. Does it sound as though my wife wants to begin to explore Swinging again, or at least that she is not opposed to it? I am fine with it, but don't want to open the bottle if I am just imagining things. Any suggestions? Thanks