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  1. Okay we finally did talk. But first let me clear up some stuff. I think is pretty much obvious I know we have a problem. Secondly. her fixation. It will be explained a bit more in the text. Not that I agree, think, or know it to be true or false, but how it was explained to me. Now when we talked she said (which does not make it fact) that she did indeed have a great orgasm with me and him. In truth it was the best she has had. Now being the normally shy girl that she (except sexually, then she is very bold) is she held a lot back from me as to try and not hurt my feelings. Now if any of you have ever been with a new partner for the first time, it usually isn't a great experience...anywhere from bad to just ok. She felt guilty about that and couldn't bring herself to be intimate with me while she felt she had betrayed me. So in her way of think she needed to prove to herself that it wasn't him that made her have this tremendous orgasm. So her plan was simple, she wanted to get together with him or another well endowed guy (all the other well endowed guys she and been looking up) one on one and see for herself. Thus the condoms as well. She did indeed get together with him again and they did indeed play again. But, she found that it was not a good for her as the time me, her and he played together (to her relief). She said she was sorry and should have trusted me with her thoughts, but she was afraid I would be upset. She also thought that if she could do this without my knowledge no harm, no foul. Alas she should have told me. And she should have trusted me to understand. Now a lot of you will think that this was a lame excuse and I agree but I do see her point of view. So all in all I see what she thought was a good idea that was executed poorly. I believe she should have told me her feelings and trusted me to handle it. Then we could have worked together to allow her to find out one way or another. Also she would have found out that I wouldn't have been upset by her having a better orgasm, but indeed happy as playing in the lifestyle is about exploring new sexually experience for us. And if it leads to better sex, why the heck not? Yes we have talked about stepping away from the lifestyle for a bit to get straight. And just fyi, we made love last night and it was very fulfilling for both of us. I think she was glad to finally get things off her chest. Because, honestly how do you tell the one you love "Dear, I had the best orgasm ever with that guy we were playing with last night"? I don't know. Again I do not agree with her approach but I do understand to some extent which still doesn't make it okay. Thank you all for your advice and getting me to ask the right questions of her. You have all been a real help.
  2. Thanks all for the advice so far and I agree some what and disagree somewhat as well. Two things that red flag for me as to her being in love with him. Make that three. 1. We have swung before and she never showed any interest in straying before. 2. We have always been very sexually active, even up to just before mr. x. 3. Why is she checking out all the well endowed guys on our site? Now I know we need help, but my point of confusion is (why all the large guy fixation) by her. And, I can't prove that mr. x was the one that was there.
  3. Hey you all, I need your opinions. Okay let me start this tale from the beginning. Me and the mrs. have been swinging for going on three years now. We always debated which was better, longer or thicker. She said longer, I said thicker. Anyway, after all this time about two months ago we finally hooked up with a much longer and much thicker person then myself. I am no slouch btw. So anyway as this twisted tale goes, we played with the person and she absolutely loved it. One of the best orgasms she ever had, so she said. Well since then me and her have not been active sexually. First it was that she hurt from the playing with mr. x, then it was that time of the month so forth and so on. Well, I just let it slide. Anyway, recently I was digging for the keys to her car, and I discovered some new condoms in her purse, way too large for me to use . So I asked her why she had bought condoms as I am usually the one that buys them. She replied that she was just trying to be safe in case we went playing again. So of course being the trusting husband I am I was like cool. Then later that week while she was in the shower her cellphone rang. I answered and it was mister x. Once he heard my voice he hung up. I then proceeded to check her recent calls and found not only had she received several calls from mister x but other men that I found were on our swinger sites. All of whom were well endowed. So I confronted her about these calls and she calmly replied that she didn't know what I was so upset about and that she was trying to set us up with another play time in the future. So I begrudgingly let it slide. Then the dagger, I came home from work yesterday, I work an odd schedule, and she was laying in bed naked and said that she was hot and was taking a nap. So I was like, maybe I will get lucky today. So I went to the bathroom to get cleaned up and use the john. While I was in the bathroom I found three of those large condoms used in the trash can. So I went back to the bedroom and confronted her. She told me that it wasn't that she didn't love me anymore and we would talk about it later. Well we still haven't. And we still haven't had sex either I think we may have a problem, but she acts like nothing is wrong.
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