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D-nice

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About D-nice

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  • Birthday 10/10/1974

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    single male
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  1. No. Rooms are not something that are part of the party. The entry fee is for the party, which you can enter with or without reserving a hotel room. If you choose to reserve a hotel room that's up to you.

  2. I am invited to a party at a hotel later this month. I had to reserve a room..$99 which inckudes a king size and sofa. I am a single male. There is a $35 entry fee for single males.

     

    This is my first hotel party.

     

    Since I am reserving a room,shouldn't I be exempt from the entry fee?

  3. I say again....we're not swingers...we're not trying to join a lifestyle....we're not looking for a hook-up....the swing club idea is just an idea..nothing more or less..something to do differently than normal. Try to take it for what it's worth. Sorry there's no soap opera or drama. The issue was about the co-worker...you guys, pretty much said let it go...so the deal is done... My colleague and I don't bring it up...we talk about everything else in casual conversation. appreciate the feedback.
  4. Well, the young lady, that I've been dating for a couple of months, just separated after a long marriage so I'm the first guy that's she been with other than her husband. She's still spreading her wings sorta. We're not a serious couple as far as long time commitment. She still has kids in the house so we go out when we can. If there's a possibility of her getting into this lifestyle...that's her choice...not mine.
  5. lol.....like being on stage with a microphone...or scoring a touchdown...some things are better left as fantasies.
  6. she didn't have a problem with it....I wasn't going with my colleague to the club to swing...just to observe the environment and see if I wanted to bring my girl. My co-worker knew I had a girlfriend...I just wanted to visit the club out of curiosity. Nothing more or less. I went to a porn convention in Vegas one year just to meet some of the "celebrities"..just to say I'd been.I had no desire to be a porn star.
  7. My colleague can be flakey at work...say she gonna doing something but doesn't....so I figure this "swing invite" is just an extension of her personality. We're cool and everything...it is just the way she comes across.
  8. I gave her the link to the club to check it out..I told her about the co-worker..it didn't fade her. No, she doesn't read this board....I told her I'll ask around on here. Her thing is as long "we're not doing anything there.".....she's just curious as well. knowing us, we'll probably go and leave within the hour. I told her if she feel uncomfortable , we'll just leave. thx for your response. I'll keep you updated.
  9. thanks, y'all, I must admitt this feedback is more positive than the first go-around.As I said , I'm new to this..so I wasn't aware of the single guy stigma. As for my co-worker, I won't bring it up again. I can understand the apprehension on her part. Of course, I still don't know why she would volunteer such information that she was a swinger.True enuff, I told her there was a club near the job but I never asked if she was one.Sometimes I think she was just putting me on about her lifestyle since who would admitt such a thing in their workplace but as I said she can be flakey at times and I guess I pushed it a lil' too much as far as tagging...hell,I was treating the tag along as an event..like I'm going to Disneyland.Ol' girl probably thought I was nutts....lol Anyway,we seen each other at work as recently as today...no static or anything. Thx you all for your responses..I'll let you know what happens.Me and my girl are supposed to go next Saturday so we'll see what happens. Thx again.
  10. Also, to the others, my intentions are pure...forgive if I sound like some other guys.this lifestyle is unknown to me. The club invite by colleague was given couple of times. Last Saturday, she extended the invite but didn't show..so I get a mixed signals from her when it comes to that. Me and her are cool and shit....there's no apprehension on her part when we talk. So the best advice is to forget about as far as hanging out with her...and if she ask again...just pass?
  11. Appreciate the understanding....as I said tagging along with the co-worker was about learning the ropes...the do's and do not's since she was a veteran. Again, this is out of my element so I wouldn't know what to expect which is why I pose the question. thx everyone for your feedback.
  12. I have a co-worker at my job who says she's a swinger...the topic came up one day when I informed her that there was rumors of a swing club near the workplace. She said she knows because she goes there from time to time.I thought she was jokin' until she started naming the other clubs in the area. Me and her started talking because we're affliated with the military ..I'm was in for 10 years and she was the wife of a Marine so we can talk about a lot of things. the swinger admission took me by surprise..I've been on various I/R boards and came across the names of the clubs in my area.I thought about going just out of curosity but never ventured to do so.The girl that I'm seeing right now is up for the idea but I'm still apprehensive. I ask my co-worker could I tag along with her the next time just to get a feel for the place before I bring my girl and she said yeah. The problem is my colleague has yet to take me up on the offer. She gives me her e-mail but doesn't respond.When I inquire...she says she deletes alot of her e-mails. She ask for my number but doesn't call. This past Saturday, my colleague said she was going that night and said she would pick me up.I gave her my number again..still no pick-up or call. The next day, she said it was raining too hard for her to drive (yes, it did rain that night but still at least she could have call to say that she wasn't coming.) Should I give up on my co-worker.Mind you, I'm not interested in her..I just want to visit the place with someone that I know sort of as a comfort zone. I don't want to push the issue with her since this is a workplace environment (sexual harassment, you understand)..she can be flakey at times. any feedback is greatly appreciated...thx in advance.
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