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About NorCalRnS

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  • Birthday 06/03/1965

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    Couple
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    Sacramento, CA
  • Interests
    Photography, camping, outdoors, Lots of SEX, family, friends
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    NorCalRnS
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    NorCalRnS

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  1. I got "the talk" from my mom at the age of 5 when she and her best friend walked into my bedroom and found myself and the friend's daughter naked under my covers playing a game of "hey, why do you have one of those and I don't?". Mom was always open to questions as I grew up and instilled no sense of sexual shame as some of my friends' parents did. Looking back I'm sure she was probably a swinger back in the day. I of course then taught my friends all I learned. Mr. RnS
  2. We have played with a couple who was maybe 10 years older and as young as almost 30 years younger. At first we decided not to get with anyone close to our daughter's age, but we have met very mature people that age and decided we wouldn't focus on age so much as the people themselves. That being said, we tend to gravitate towards those about 10-15 years younger.
  3. Not yet. But we're willing. We met Tommy Gunn in Vegas and the Mrs. would have gladly jumped him. Since we have a video that is published on the internet we have had people say they've fucked porn stars when we're done!!
  4. If you don't mind, what's the name of the club. We'll be in the area in a few weeks and might be looking for some fun that weekend. Not familiar with the scene in that area. TIA
  5. If you do end up finding a swing club or two to attend, make sure and have a chat with whoever runs it. They should be willing to take good care of you and watch out for your well being. You'll have every opportunity to meet as many people as you want. Have a great time, wish you lived closer to NorCal, we could use a few good unicorns.
  6. We had mostly negative results on CL. Basically flakes or the pic collectors who immediately ask for naked pics (but post none of themselves). We have however met a few worthy people on there, one couple not so long ago. Then there's the people who just turn out to be assholes. Earlier this week we responded to a trio (2f, 1m) who were looking for a couple to help celebrate a birthday. We responded, got a phone number , texted back and forth, sent and received PG photos and all looked good. Until we went to set a time. We wanted to go out early, it was after all a work night for us. As they were visiting in town, they had no need to get up early. They said they weren't available until much later in the night, about the time we'd normally head to bed. When I brought up this fact and said there was no way we could do it unless it was earlier, the only thing I got back was...Another CL Flake. I responded kindly (no need to get pissy) that the lack of understanding was pretty weak and maybe it's a good thing we didn't get together as we both hate people with attitudes. I'm sure they maybe had to deal with real flakes, but when we say we'll be somewhere at a specific time, we will be there. I think in 3+ years we've only had to cancel two or three times on short notice for work or emergencies. Hell, we even once continued to a meeting even after I had burned my hand badly on the way when we witnessed an accident and stopped to help. I think that was the only thing that offended me. Bottom line, you just have to dig through the weeds to find the roses. We've had just as many people be flaky from the swinger sites too.
  7. Try Mixxxer.com, it's a swinger-friendly version of Tinder. You can create a profile online but can only logon from your mobile device. Haven't used it when we've been out yet, but read some things about it that make it interesting to try.
  8. This was our first Lifestyle cruise. It was sort of a "working" trip for us as we were involved with the Sybian seminars/demonstrations. Hopefully if you attended either you enjoyed Mrs. RnS' performance. It was truly a treat being on the main stage for our second demo. We weren't really sure what to expect, but have to say it exceeded everything we thought. Count us in for loving 70's night. We had a great time. Mardi Gras night was the other spectacular theme night. The food in the main dining room was average, the company was what made the meal. We decided to sit with a different group each night and meet new people. We did eat in each of the "specialty" restaurants and have to say they were the food highlight of the trip. The shore excursions were great except for Haiti. It was incredibly hot and even though there were many topless women that day we were eventually told it was NOT a clothing optional location and the Haitian police were on their way. Back to the ship we went. The water park in Cozumel was a blast, the bartenders made a great Miami Vice and kept us filled with those all day. The floating obstacle course wore us the hell out. Lost my glasses in the water 3 times, thankfully there was a mask available and I found them each time. See if I forget my floating croakies again. The beach in Jamaica was great fun, we met some really cool people that day. Let me tell you, if you weren't on the last bus of the day you really missed out. It will forever be known as the Jamaican Bang Bus. If you were there you know exactly what I'm talking about. That should have been captured on film. It was so cool just to wander around the ship at night, mini golfing at midnight, dancing until the wee hours and of course the naked fun with our new friends. There was definitely someone for everyone. Young or old, fit or not, there was debauchery to be had. We are so glad that they're doing a West Coast cruise in May, we'll be on it. If we didn't meet you on this trip, we hope to on the next.
  9. Thank you, more great advice. We know our profile is a little long (getting shorter by the minute) but one of the things we noticed when we first signed up that bugged us was the 3 line profiles. I don't really learn anything about you in 20 words. But too much info can have the same effect. We rotate our profile pictures, so the nose bubbles won't be there long. Keep it coming, we'll have it dialed in in no time. RnS
  10. Thank you, exactly the kind of feedback we were looking for. RnS P.S. we love our picture too, it really shows who we are in a nutshell (we're nuts!). That underwater camera is one of our best purchases.
  11. Just came across this thread, would love to have a critque of ours. norcalrns on SLS. We try to keep it updated, read it as if we were someone interested and change things we think might read wrong. One thing we notice is that people seem to contact us that are clearly out of the scope of what we're looking for (age, fitness level, etc.) are we not clear enough? Thanks for your honest opinions. RnS
  12. We hope so too, everyone's should be. They may not all turn out that fun, but it's a hell of a start.
  13. Done. Thanks for the suggestion, it was kind of hard to read. Once I get going, I just type away.
  14. We are new to swinging as a couple, but I (husband) have been in a few threesomes in the past. We're very open to new experiences, so this seemed like something we'd like to try. We're discussed it for 2 1/2 years and just had our first experience at an on-premise party over the weekend and it was great. I just posted the details over in the first-time experiences forum.
  15. (Written by husband R) As I sit here thinking whether to make this short or long, I keep picturing the scenes in my head and they're so hot I have to be detailed. Please forgive me for my long-windedness. So we have been talking about the possibilities of swinging in some fashion off and on for about 2 1/2 years with the conversation picking up recently. We joined this site a while back to get as much information as possible. I have to say that some of the horror stories have probably contributed to the delay. I check out local events and saw that one club was having a sensual masseuse at the party on Saturday night. Knowing how my wife loves a good massage I asked if she'd like to go. Once I added us to the guest list, the anticipation and the butterflies started. As Saturday approached we wondered if we'd actually go. We decided that the worst that could happen is we'd go, really not like it and leave. We had decided a long time ago that at least in the beginning we would not get into a full-swap situation, but be open to soft swap. We discussed out boundaries on Saturday and determined we'd stick with a "2nd base" limit of kissing, fondling and same room sex with each other if it came to it. Since I'm far more comfortable with open sex than my wife, I told her I would follow her lead and let her dictate the pace. If she felt comfortable expanding her limits, we would do so as long as intercourse was between us. I told her what I would really love to see is her experience her first kiss with a woman. S has always talked about how it would feel to kiss, touch and taste a woman. She said as long as I'm there with her, she thought she could do it, but wasn't sure. We agreed that pretty much all female contact would be allowed. We packed up and headed to the party, S looking spectacularly hot in a new dress that clung to her squat-sculpted ass. We arrived when the doors opened so we could get a tour and pick a spot to observe as people arrived. We met and talked to the bartender who was great at mixing up my wife's drinks. More and more people started showing up, we said hello to some, but mainly watched. There were some who were obvious regulars and put on quite a show on the dance pole!! My wife went out to the main room to see if anything was happening and motioned for me to come out there. The masseuse had arrived and had a (nude) man on the table giving him a rub down. I'm sure she was doing a fantastic job as evidenced by his hard-on. She finished with him, gave his wife a massage (as her female friend kissed her and rubbed her pussy). After she finished she had an open table. I asked S if she was up for it. She asked what she should wear, I told her whatever she was comfortable in. She decided to strip to her bra and panties. As she got her back rubbed, the masseuse asked if she could unhook her bra, no problem there. When she turned her over, I reached to her and took her bra, a little surprised she'd leave her (bought and paid for) 34D breasts exposed. I was so glad she felt that secure. Her massage over, she put her clothes back on and we headed down the hall to see if anyone was in the playrooms yet. Much to our pleasure, there was a MFF group in one room along with some observers. We are voyeuristic and loved the show. I can always tell when S is getting turned on and seeing this in person for the first time was definitely doing the trick. We headed back to the bar for another drink as the place was filling up. We were enjoying the dancing and music and of course I was rubbing S's ass through her dress. We were trying to decide if we would approach anyone or just hang for the evening. We didn't have to make the choice after all. You may now take a brief intermission from our story. A couple came up to us and the husband (H) said, “you keep lifting your wife's skirt up and and then down, but never show enough of her great ass”. You want to make a good impression, tell S she has a great ass. Good move. They were friendly, funny and put us at ease immediately. We attempted to chat over the booming music and probably heard about every 5th word everyone was saying. Since we told them it was our first time at a club and really our first experience of any kind like this, they asked what we were looking for in the evening. We explained that we didn't have expectations, but did have limits. They did say that they are full swap but spent their first 6 years doing only soft swap and they understood boundaries fully. Another good move. I'd say we talked for about 30-40 minutes and they asked if we'd like to go to one of the rooms. I looked at S and she gave me the “good sign”, so we went and found an empty one. We were standing by the bed and I was talking to H's wife (W) and I heard H ask S if he could kiss her. I will be frank that I am very possessive and protective of S and I wasn't sure how I would react the first time. I'm glad to say it was far more of a turn-on and there were 0 pangs of jealousy. I turned to W and I could see she wanted the same. I kissed her slowly and deeply and moved to her neck. I kissed her ear and told her asked what she thought of female contact. She whispered that she is bi so it's all good. I told her about wanting to see S kiss a woman. She just smiled, turned to my wife who was still kissing H and pulled her away. She touched both sides of S's face and just leaned in and kissed her. S responded as I always knew she would, with passion. Fantasy #1 down. S went back to H for some more kissing (S REALLY loves kissing). W asked if it was in our limits to touch each others “better parts”, which I said it was. The next thing I knew I had both S's and W's hands rubbing me through my jeans, then S moved to H's. It was clear that what she was doing was having it effect on him. W asked me if I thought S would like to have all of us rub her. That is actually one of her top fantasies, to be lying on a bed, with multiple people massaging her body all over. H asked if he could unzip S's dress to get a better look at her butt, which she agreed to. She would look over to me periodically to make sure I was okay with whatever was happening and I always gave her a nod. H asked if we could take S's dress off, she said yes, that would be okay. When she was in her underwear, she suggested I take off W's dress as well, which I willingly did. She then said it was unfair that the guys were still dressed so the girls stripped us down. We laid S down on the bed and I asked her if I could take off her bra so we could rub her. H was on one side, I was on the other and W was straddling on of her legs. We all started rubbing her with H and I taking turns kissing her. I know S was in pure heaven. Fantasy #2 down. At this point we were pretty much as the limit of our boundaries and having a great time. We had discussed naked fondling of other people and that was pretty much where we cut it off. S had my cock in one hand and H's cock in her other while we caressed her. W leaned over to me and asked if it would be okay if she licked S. I asked S and she didn't hesitate a moment before saying, yes, that would be good. W is obviously experienced at this and it was a beautiful sight to see. I really wasn’t sure if S would allow a woman to go down on her, but she seemed fine with it and had her usual reaction. H and I continued to rub her and she pulled me closer to her mouth and started sucking me. A moment before it happened I knew what was coming next. She took her mouth off me, turned her head and put H in her mouth. H looked at me and asked if this was okay. I knew oral sex with others was beyond our boundaries for the night, but as I said, I was going let her set the pace and it was something she has talked about doing. And she looked so beautiful doing it. She continued back and forth on us while W brought her to her first orgasm. S is extremely multi-orgasmic and can cum in just about every way possible, but oral is her favorite. At this point she looked at me and told me that W was being neglected and I should give her some attention. I asked W to come up to the bed, which she did. She asked if I wanted her to suck me while I licked her, I told her no, I wanted her to focus on her pleasure. Truth is I was so turned on I probably would have came the second her lips hit me. :-) H replaced W's mouth with his fingers inside S. I went to work licking W and slid my finger into her. She was dripping wet, licking S had turned her on incredibly. I looked over at S once in awhile to watch her sucking H and he asked her if he could taste her, which of course she agreed to. He bent down to lick her soaked pussy. One thing I appreciated, he kept saying to me and W how gorgeous S is. I know she loved hearing it. W is very responsive to oral and tasted very good. I figured there was no time like the present to see how far S wanted to go. I told W that I was going to ask S if she wanted to lick W and she just smiled. I whispered to S, “would you like to take your turn at licking W, I'll be right there with you”. I thought she was going to say she wasn't ready but she just said, “Sure, I'll try”. We both made our way back to W and I went in first, with S right behind me. I have given her pointers on what to do if she ever tried it, but I don't think she needed them. Once she started licking, she was in W's words, “a quick learner”. She went after it I never thought she would even fingering W while she licked her. Once in a while she would turn and kiss me so I could taste W. I was enthralled watching S, I don't think she was ever more beautiful. H had made his way up to W and she was sucking him. I got behind S and knew exactly what she'd want so I started licking her and tonguing her ass, and fingering her, rubbing the spot I know drives her wild. All I could hear from W was moans and the occasional, “God she's really good at this” comment. I think S must have been down on her for 30 minutes. I haven't mentioned that during all of this, people were coming and going from the room to watch us, which made it all the hotter. I asked S later if she paid any attention to the crowd and she said once in a while she'd look over, but otherwise was too busy. S turned and said that it was about time I fucked her. W got up and as I entered S from behind, W crawled under her and started to lick her clit. I could feel her tongue lightly brush me as I went in and out. What a sensation. H moved back around to the front of S and she started rubbing and sucking him. I know this is one of our most frequented fantasies and I was thrilled to see her live it. I would alternate between fucking S and leaning down to kiss W and tongue fuck S. I know at this point S was just stroking H because she could not concentrate enough to suck him. W and I made her cum 3 or 4 times together. I told H I thought it was about time he take care of W, I could tell she was wanting to get fucked pretty badly. They moved to one side of the bed and he took her with her legs over his shoulders. I had one more thing in mind. I had S get up and I bent her over the bed behind H & W. I asked S to reach in and rub W while she was getting fucked. I could tell that feeling this heightened S's thrill level as she felt H sliding into W. I's swear we all 4 came abut the same time, and it was a glorious release. A few of the couples in the room watching told me how hot it had been to watch us. W told them it was S's first time and they said they'd never have guessed. We chatted for a bit until we figured maybe someone else would like the room so we dressed and went out for a cool drink and talked some more. We went back to the bar and watched some more people, then went back to H & W for more conversation. We ran into one of the couples that had watched us and talked for a long time. Turned out we have a lot in common with them and they said they wished they'd run into us first. We told them to email us and we'd go out for a drink sometime. His wife describes him as her caramel colored stallion, so we'll have to see what that's about. We chatted with the owner of the club too, to let him know how much we enjoyed the party and his place. We'll definitely be back. By the time we left it was going on 3:00am (we got to the party at 8:00) and we were exhausted. That didn't stop us from coming home, talking about what had happened to make sure everything was good and then having some more amazing sex. I asked S if she had any negative feeling or had experienced any jealousy, she said no, everything had been really great. I know we both truly appreciate the respect and care H & W showed towards us. They were not pushy but helped guide us and kept it light and fun. It was something we'll never forget. We had always discussed whether to make our first time with an experienced couple or newbies such as ourselves. I think it happened the right way and hopefully some day we'll do the same for other new couples. We've since had some great recap conversations of the experience and are looking forward to here we go from here. S said she absolutely loved how it turned out and really wants to keep the soft swap for the time being. I think we'll revisit our boundaries and move the lines accordingly. As for her first female experience, she said it was better than she expected and something she'll do again. She wants to find a single woman so they can focus effort on me, something I'm certainly not opposed to. I asked her about a single male, she said she has no need now and maybe we'll explore that later. I really don't see how it could have gone better, we were so totally afraid of having a bad first experience. I think I have to mark off about half a dozen of our fantasies as completed. So there's our story, I think I need a glass of juice and a nap now. All names have been omitted to protect the not-so-innocent. These forums were a wonderful place to educate ourselves on etiquette and what we could expect in general. R of RnS
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