athenagirl
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athenagirl last won the day on November 22 2008
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- Birthday 12/09/1953
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Personality Types and Swinging
athenagirl replied to BookwormsInHeat's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
My Type INTP Introverted 11 Intuitive 50 Thinking 62 Perceiving 22 It said I am: * slightly expressed introvert * moderately expressed intuitive personality * distinctively expressed thinking personality * slightly expressed perceiving personality But what does it all mean? head bang From what I recall about the Myer's Briggs' test: here's what it means: I -- Introverted (This means the ways in which you are energized. For example, if you are truly introverted, you enjoy your times alone. It doesn't mean that you don't enjoy socializing or talking with people, it means that being in large groups of people or spending a lot of time talking can be fairly draining, and that you need time alone to recharge your batteries. If you're Extroverted, then you are engergized by being with people.) I -- Intuitive (this means you think of things in more abstract ways, rather than concrete examples). T-- Thinking. If you're a thinker type, you tend to use logic and reason rather than rely on feelings. (The "Feeler" type of course, allows their feelings to sway them. P -- Perceiver. (If you're a perceiver type, you don't enjoy living by a strict schedule. You are more spontaneous. The opposite type, the Judger, tends to be very organized and likes to plan everything.) -
Single Female New to lifestyle, with questions.
athenagirl replied to Peaceful Minded's topic in Swinging Solo
Thanks... I was curious about that... so do your non-lifestyle girlfriends ever consider joining the lifestyle? -
I'm wondering if the play partner is someone the male half of this couple is already seeing (or wants to have an affair with): either way, what he said to "unregistered" is unforgiveable. She needs to dump him!
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Single Female New to lifestyle, with questions.
athenagirl replied to Peaceful Minded's topic in Swinging Solo
Magnum -- you mention you've been playing with friends/couple for several years now... do you ever have relationships with single women? Or fall in love? Or does being in the lifestyle preclude that? And if so, is that partly why you're in it? Athenagirl -
Top 10 Stupid Things to Do in Swinging
athenagirl replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
How does an organization proclaim it's "opposed to swinging?" I mean, what kind of organization (other than a government organization that may demand a security clearance) needs to know about your sex life? Just curious. Athenagirl -
Do women enjoy anal intercourse?
athenagirl replied to CyberTuthTygrrr's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Even with those who have found pleasure, most only indulge in anal sex on an infrequent basis. Understandable, since there is most usually prep time involved that is not always available. Oh thank God... I'm not the only one who thinks anal sex requires "prep" time. However, even without "prep" time, if I'm with an uninhibited and accepting lover, then even the fear of getting "something" on my lover isn't so bad. Anal sex: not for the squeamish! -
He is a swinger; this is all new to me
athenagirl replied to dburton's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Dburton: many women do have trouble being able to easily separate love and sex: at least when they are actually in love with someone. (I know I tend to get a bad case of monogamy when I'm in love -- LOL!) However, what makes swinging intriguing to me, is that you don't have to separate sex and love. What I mean is, you're having sex with someone you love: your husband or boyfriend, and you're having sex with someone you're not emotionally bonded with. My concern is that you've apparently never fantasized about just sex, instead, you have the more typical female romantic fantasies. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it just makes me wonder how sexually charged you are. I think you'd be a better "candidate" for the lifestyle if you'd had some purely sexual adventures previously. That doesn't mean you couldn't enter and enjoy the lifestyle, just that it might not come as easily to you as someone else who'd experimented more in their youth. That said, best of luck! athenagirl -
Speaking of messes associated with anal sex: how do you prepare for anal sex? Do you fast? Take an enema? Both? Athenagirl
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Thanks! I hope you're having heat wave up in your slice of frozen heaven! Athenagirl
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Does swinging equal sex addiction?
athenagirl replied to NymphoWind's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
LOL! Yes, you are right: what passes for normal in most of society would lead some to brand swingers as sex addicts, or at the very least, sexually deviant. And apparently, there's a "cure" for that! (I'm passing!) -
Single men: Do you prefer the husband just watch, or join in for a MFM?
athenagirl replied to a topic in Swinging Solo
Thanks, Magnum... we'll see how that goes! I'm definitely a hopeless romantic and a sex maniac in search of someone who can satisfy both sides of me! Ha ha!- 65 replies
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Mr. Essex, tell your friend he can email me at my SLS account under my screen name: Athenagirl. (I have not been logging on much of late, though... taking a break).
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Hey Mr. Essex! The same goes for you... should you ever decide to drop in my neck of the woods, I'd be happy to show you around. Athenagirl
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Awww... you are so sweet. What a lucky woman who got to play with you. Athenagirl
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singles finding love in the lifestyle?
athenagirl replied to gnb4u's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I'm a bit surprised to hear your take on single guys finding single women in the lifestyle... I've seen some swinger sites that seem to have jillions of young single women claiming to want just sex. If that's true, then it seems a single guy would have a great many women to choose from...- 33 replies
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