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riprat last won the day on October 31 2008

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About riprat

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  • Birthday 04/25/1959

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    West Alabama

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  1. We neither one drink anymore, and have never minded anybody else doing it in Moderation. Our first good experience was with a couple who drank a little bit of wine between playtimes. No problem, no "dragon breath". We went to another couples house one time, and it was totally different. The man sipped whiskey and chasers all night, and the woman drank one beer right after another. We stayed at their house only about three hours talking, and needless to say, both were well lit before we left. We didn't play at all, and when we decided to give them a second chance the next weekend, they acted like they didn't know who we were.....they probably didn't even remember us coming to their house! Needless to say, we never contacted them again, and ignored them the one time later when they contacted us.
  2. We also live in a rural area. Swingers aren't just next door to us, either. We have to drive 30 miles or so usually to meet couples we know, so the bad economy has affected us , too. And living in a small town/rural area, if there are swingers close by, most of the time you don't want to play with them due to the fact that everybody knows everybody's business, and we prefer to keep our business to ourselves, lol. Another thing, we are also approaching the big 50, and we find that the younger folks, for the most part, don't want anything to do with us old farts. I guess it's the feeling that they screwing their parents or grandparents, lol. We decided not to play with anybody that was young enough to be our child.
  3. Our "Teacher" couple has the no kissing rule. The way they explained it to us was, they reserved kissing as the only thing that they didn't share with others. We have sorta followed their example, however, D did kiss a female once when giving a two on one blowjob. It really hasn't came up between us since, we just haven't lip kissed another couple. We spent all of our time licking, sucking, and fucking! We don't rule it out with the right ones, though.
  4. Stay away from Mexican food, especially the refried beans! Really, we try to eat light and avoid foods that cause us problems.
  5. I kinda agree with Julie. We like to talk and get to know people first, but sometimes, it works against us. Two examples: We met a couple for a meal at a restaurant. After the usual small talk, the subject got around to sex and swinging, with us doing more listening than actually talking. After a good little while, I was sure we would never play with this couple, and I could tell by D's expressions that she agreed. You know, that some little something you can't put your finger on a lot of the time that tells you "NO WAY" That's the way it was with them, so we never mentioned playing with them. We just left after the meal, and told them we would talk to them later, which we have, but we have never met them again. Second example: We met another couple at the same restaurant sometime later. We talked a good while, learning we had a lot in common as a couple. We all seemed to feel pretty comfortable with each other, so I asked them if they wanted to get a room and play. The Hubby said he always leaves the decision up to his wife. Well, she says it doesn't matter to her, but what does D think. She's ok with it, but then the other wife says it's so late they really need to get home in a hour or so, because they live a hours drive away. So we make a date for the next Sat night, and get an earlier start. This time we go to their house. We grill out, and afterward, we watch some porno flicks with them. We play with our own spouses, and when they get finished, she gets up and gets dressed, so we do to. We have been to their house several times since, and them to ours, and stay in touch by phone and yahoo all the time, and are great friends. We still talk a lot, but we still haven't played with each other, and I doubt we ever will, but they are good friends to have. Sometimes talk helps, sometimes it hurts. We would never just start playing with somebody we had just met until we had a chance to sorta get to know them a little bit, but that's what works for us.....
  6. Our experience has been a little different than most of you. It seems like the "skinny minis" as my wife calls them, won't have anything to do with people that are larger than them. We aren't huge, I'm 5'11" and 200 lbs, and shes 5'3" and 200 lbs, give or take 5 lbs. Our best luck has been with people around our size, or just a little larger. It might also be that we're 49 and 48, and the younger ones don't want anything to do with us "old folks". When we look at profiles, if the female doesn't weigh close to 200, we don't even mail them anymore, but if they contact us first, we will talk with them. Sure, I'd love to fuck a 98 lb woman once or twice, but the ladies with a few extra pounds look good to us, too.
  7. Our "teachers" told us that they reserved kissing for themselves, never kissing another than their mate. We adopted that for us as well, but with one exception, D is free to kiss another female if she wants to. She and the other lady were giving me a blowjob at the same time, and the male said "Why don't you ladies just go ahead and kiss each other", so they did. So far, it has only happened one time, and she said it was different. Myself, I have no desire to kiss another male, period.
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