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  1. To clarify, I (hubby) am not really that much in favour of the whole exclusivity thing and agree with many of the comments so far, although if there is a close connection between the four of us, I can see how it could work. The relationship we had with the couple before this couple was very close to that. We were both very into the other couple. The Mrs. is a little on the shy side and it's my thought that she prefers avoiding the stress of meeting new people. I think that is her reason for considering the "exclusivity" route - the comfort level and the potential for developing a very close emotional bond. This new couple is very nice. He is a wonderful, thoughtful guy and I see why my wife really connects with him. I like his wife also, but probably not to the exclusioin of all other as I don't really see developing a close bond with her and probably wouldn't want to spend a whole week at a vacation resort with mostly her alone.
  2. We are not big "sexting" types. Like you, it doesnt really do too much for the Mrs., but she doesn't mind once in a while. We dated one couple where that is pretty much all he wanted and when the Mrs., didn't reply in kind, he lost interest. In that case, his wife and I got along wonderfully and really became quite close (even though we were 2000 miles away). But alas, it takes four to tango and if everyone isn't in sinc, it doesn't work. The two of us also prefer a close connection and a good time. I don't think it's very easy for four people to have it work.
  3. Yes, we are grappling with these issues in a big way. The summer resort trip is weighing heavily as we will not only have the new couple with us, but there will be other couples there that we have played with in the past and who may want or ask us to play again. Some feelings may be hurt, unintentially. The new couple has not even brought up the issue of "bareback" so we can't even be sure that that is a factor for them. They seem to want us all to themselves. Incidentally, we have told them about all of our past experiences so they are well aware that we like to have fun and don't have too much trouble meeting others at lifestyle friendly resorts. Incidentally, they are very fit and attractive and would also have no problem meeting others but they are adamant that they wish to be only with us. It seems clear that we need to have a talk with them about what would happen in various scenerios. Mrs. Westcan is not totally opposed to the idea of "exclusive" but she admits that one of the big reasons for that is the stress in having to meet and get to know new people. It stresses me out also, but to me the stress doesn't weigh as heavily as the benefits. Not sure if that is the best reason. But that is really the only reason she has given. Don't want to start a new thread here, but I could never get the V done, although I have the utmost admiration and respect for those that can.
  4. Very compelling reason. We haven't talked about that yet with the newcouple but we would like that for sure. This new couple may not even be interested in bareback...we don't know yet, as being with a new couple is very new to them. Our other "exclusive" friends from last year liked to bareback with us but I got screwed (or hosed if you will) because my playmate was not on the pill and I had to wear a condom anyway (except for her time of the month).
  5. The prettier half of the two of us asked me to downplay the whole 2000 mile thing because we have a vacation home that we travel to four or more times a year that puts us only three hours from our new friends. Also, they would probably offer to fly and visit us once or twice per year. So the distance isn't too much of an impediment but some planning and less spontinaity is definitely required. But I agree that it does seem kind of contradictory to what LS is all about. I've read a lot about jealousy between respective spouses, but does jealousy between two couples come up also and should it?
  6. So far the responses have been absolutely wonderful and helpful... We're kind of sensing it is not really easy to make an "exclusive" relationship work and from our experience it is hard to imagine why it wouldn't end in disaster. On the flip side, the two of us are a little on the shy side and the comfort we get from exclusive is avoiding the stress in meeting new people (which hasn't really been a problem, just stressful). Playing with someone around home isn't really a good option because we are unusually busy (work hard/play hard) and prefer to do our cutting loose when we get away on our Lear jet (ya right...haha)....
  7. Help, help, help..... We have dabbled in the lifestyle (on vacation) for over a year and enjoy making friends. But it's just been a vacation thing for us and at home we don't get involved with anyone else. We tried to be exclusive with a couple 2000 miles away last Fall. It worked for about 3 months and we all got a little emotionally involved to some extent. Then they wanted to play with others and we were a bit hurt at the "breakup" (on good terms - actually if we saw them again, we would all likely get along great). So now we met another couple about 2000 miles away and they are just new in the lifestyle. We spent a whole weekend together and lots of email and Skype chats. They are very fond of us and recently asked to be "exclusive" with them. We are not sure if "exclusive" works in the lifestyle, but we are not totally opposed. The problem is that the four of us are travelling to a nude lifestyle resort in a few months with a big lifestyle group. We kind of don't want to close doors to others, but our friends want it to be an "exclusive" holiday for the four of us. Is this normal? They are a wonderful couple and we like them, but the two of us kind of do have some interests in others at the resort (that we have met in the past) and kind of like the variety of personalities generally. Any other experiences that anyone can share to give us different perspectives on this?
  8. westcan

    Nude Fun in Mexico

    My wife Sara and I had such a great time at the nude lifestyle friendly resort in Mexico last year, we booked another trip this past spring. The first trip was pretty much a sexual awakening for us and led to many hot nights of steamy sex since we got home. I don't have a particularly good imagination, so most of this story is pretty much how it happened. Sara is about 5'6" and of slim to average proportional build with full perky breasts. She has long dark hair and big chocolate brown eyes. I am an average guy, slim but sturdy, with dark hair and green eyes. We are both quite shy by nature and neither of us would ever be the "life of the party", although we both get along very well with others socially. Sara, and I only married a few years ago. She'd only been with a few guys before me, including one long relationship, and I felt that she was sexually prudish in many respects when we met and not particularly outgoing in bed. After our first Mexican nude vacation, and our brief but memorable swinging encounters, we talked a lot more about the swinging lifestyle and getting it on with others. Our talks always made Sara super horny. Although she never came out and admitted that she actually wanted to have sex with someone else, her soaked pussy usually told a different story when I suggested the possibility. About a month before our trip, we started taking our foreplay in a different direction. Sara encouraged - even asked me - to try shoving four fingers in her wanting wet pussy; something she had never done before. It seemed to bring her to a new level of climax. On one occasion while being fingered she whispered in my ear that she would like to try a "thick cock" in her pussy, "like the size of my four fingers." I told her that I would love to see someone with a thick fat cock fuck her hard. After that conversation, she moaned even louder than usual as I shoved my member home, pounding her hard and fast. Unfortunately, although I would guess my cock to be about average or slightly longer in length than most, I suspect that it is on the thinner side. Later, while lying in bed and talking more about it, I (half) jokingly asked her about this whole thing about the difference between a "thick" cock and a "thin" cock. I said to her that I thought that length was the most important thing for women and that width wouldn't make much of a difference. I went on to say that I would "bet a hundred bucks" that she couldn't tell the difference in width between my cock and anyone else's of a similar length. She was adamant that she could tell a thin cock from a thick one and that there was a big difference in her (limited) experience. We agreed to disagree. The first night at the resort was a meet and greet for all the couples that were attending that week. We sat next to a cute 40ish couple from Kentucky. Dan was about 6'1" and about average to a little heavier build. He was quite chatty, if not overly forward with some of his comments. His wife Marla was about 5"7, slender and very attractive with longer blond hair. She was intelligent and well spoken. I was quite taken aback when Dan said to Sara, in her little black dress (after he took an obvious peek between her legs)... "why don't you take your panties off; we're going to be naked soon anyway". I thought Sara would be offended but she smiled in a way that I knew she was enjoying the attention and seemed to like Dan's forward approach. We talked about their involvement in the lifestyle. They were quite candid to us about how selective they were and the importance of frequent medical exams to insure themselves of being disease free. The next evening we ran into Dan and Marla in the hot tub. Before too long, we were joined by two other couples: Ed and Kathy, who were a cute younger couple in their early 30's from Texas and Jake and Tina who were about in their late 30's, from what I could tell, from Minnesota. These two couples were first-timers to a nude resort, but Dan and Marla had been out about a 1/2 dozen times before. It was our second time. We all chatted and hung around the tub for several hours. By this time, there was lots of laughter and some sexy talk as all of us had gone through quite a bit of booze. Ed started talking about how much Kathy liked to get her ass slapped. Without much warning, he grabbed her hips, swung her around and gave her ass a good slap. Ed looked at me, Dan and Jake and joked "who's next?". Without hesitation, Dan grabbed Kathy and positioned her ever so gently before giving her ass a good slap. Jake had a turn next and I was last. Kathy had a gorgeous apple shaped ass and it was quite a turn on to have her bend over in front of me and stand up on her toes so as to get her ass above the water line. Kathy giggled when I gently slapped her, after grabbing and squeezing her ass cheeks a little. After I had my play, Marla then said without hesitation... "hey... where's ours (referring to herself and Tina)?" Ed didn't need to be asked twice and was quick to grab Marla. Following my lead, he first rubbed and squeezed Marla's ass before giving it a gentle, playful slap. Marla made it clear how much she liked having her ass played with by gently moaning with each squeeze. Jake was next followed by Marla's husband Dan. After some rubbing and squeezing, Dan slid his fingers down the crack of his wife's ass down to her pussy. "Someone likes this game", he said to all of us with a smile. I was last and I couldn't help but follow Dan's lead. After some squeezing of her ass cheeks, I slid my finger down Marla's ass cheek to her soaking wet pussy lips. I gave her wetness a gentle rub but was unsure about pushing it any further, notwithstanding Marla's encouraging moans. Tina was next. She seemed a little nervous about the whole thing but later didn't seem to mind all the husbands squeezing and playing with her ass. Like the other two, I slid my finger down to give Tina's pussy lips a gentle rub from behind. By this time, my cock was getting pretty stiff, but I tried to keep it under the water line so it wasn't so obvious. I imagine that the other three guys were having the same problem as they were sitting, rather than standing up in the water. My wife Sara was the last of the women to have her ass touched and groped by the other three husband's. I don't know if it was because of Sara's dark, exotic looks or because I was especially playful with their wives, but each of the husband's made sure that they had a good long feel of Sara's ass. Although I couldn't exactly see what they were doing behind my lovely wife, I could tell by the big smile on Sara's face that she was having fun. After the last guy, Ed, took a turn, Sara came back beside me with a huge grin on her face. She leaned over and whispered to me that a couple of them, Dan and Ed, slid their fingers "all the way in" to her very hot slit under the water. Sara said that it made her "very horny" as she loves to get her pussy fingered before a good hard fucking. I got the feeling that if any of the other husbands had wanted to fuck her, she would have spread her legs right there and then. She also told me that she could see that all the men were rock hard under the water. She was "particularly impressed" with Dan's cock. She said it was "as big as a tree". "How would you like to be fucked by that?", I asked. She just smiled, without saying a word. We heard some splashing and giggling and turned around to see Dan stand up and lift Marla's ass out of the water. It was then that I saw the size of his massive tool. It was slightly longer than most but as thick as I have ever seen. Without hesitation, he shoved it deep into his wife's cunt from behind. It was like watching live porn. Both Dan and Marla seemed very comfortable fucking in front of us and everyone else that was in the pool. Marla was bent over with her hands on the edge of the tub while Dan fucked her doggy-style in plain view of the crowd. It wasn't long before the other two couples became quite affectionate with their respective spouses. Sara asked me to sit down so she could get on top and straddle my very stiff member. It slid easily into her lubricated snatch. All she mumbled to me as she was sliding up and down my shaft was.... " boy that Dan is big". I couldn't help but notice Dan occasionally looking over at us and watching Sara's big tits bounce up and down while she was riding cock. The other two couples were fucking underwater also, but in a more subdued manner. Slowly the other couples retired to their rooms to get ready for some evening activities. We headed back to our room to relax before heading out to the disco, where many of the the guests typically congregated later in the evening in a variety of different theme related costumes. I chose to wear a loose fitting pair of shorts and a sports shirt. Sara tried to be more in theme and wore a cute little "schoolgirl" miniskirt with matching white shirt, tied just below her breasts, exposing her very attractive mid-section. I encouraged her to wear no panties (it wasn't hard) and black high-heeled shoes. The littlest of bending easily exposed her cute little bare-ass. We arrived at the disco a little later than we hoped. People were hopping and the music was lively. After saying a brief hello to some of the couples we had met, we ran into Dan and Marla. Marla was wearing a sexy little gold club dress that barely covered her. Dan was nearly naked, wearing little more than a "Tarzan" style loin cloth. Sara looked at Dan a moment before saying something like "...oooh sexy guy". I offered to get everyone drinks and they all told me what they wanted. At the last second, Marla offered to come with me to carry them. When we got back, Dan and Sara were not where we left them. It wasn't long before we spotted the two of them up dancing. Marla and I both looked at each other and figured we might as well join them. The music was a little loud, making conversation difficult, but Marla and I did our best to chat as we were dancing. We had to get quite close to our respective ears to hear each other talk, but I didn't mind getting close to Marla in the least. I looked over at Sara from time to time and she and Dan seemed to be having a great time and also dancing quite close in order to hear each other speak. After about the second or third song, Marla got real close to my ear and whispered loudly..." you know, Dan told me earlier tonight that if he gets half a chance, he's going to try and fuck your wife..". I turned around to try and find them in the crowd of people. After a moment or two, I saw the two of them dancing with their bodies very close together. They had moved to a darker corner of the dance floor almost into the dimly lit seating area. After a few more moments of watching them, it became obvious that Dan had reached up underneath Sara's little skirt and was fingering her bald pussy as they swayed to the music. I saw Sara then reaching under Dan's loin cloth and start tugging gently at his thick manhood. I knew from experience during sex with me, that when Sara started tugging gently at my stiff cock, it was usually a signal that she wanted cock between her legs and wanted it pronto. Marla and I looked at each other at about the same time and I said..."..It sure looks like Dan has half a chance." Just then Marla gently reached down and stroked the outside of my shorts. She certainly didn't need to explain to me what she wanted. I reached around and cupped her firm sexy ass-cheeks before giving her a deep wet kiss. She started to moan a little as she could feel me growing between us. When I looked again at Sara, she and Dan had both fallen on to one of the large comfortable lounge sofa's in a passionate embrace. Sara then got down on her knees and shoved as much of Dan's cock in her mouth as she could fit. Her head started bobbing up and down, almost to the music. She looked up momentarily to see where I was and I caught her eye. She could see Marla and I embraced on the Dance floor. I gave her a thumbs up and she gave me a big smile before devouring Dan's cock once again. Marla and I continued our heavy necking and grinding on the dance floor. My hands were all over her; rubbing her braless tits through her thin dress and occasionally inserting my finger in her very wet pussy. She didn't have any panties either. Marla continued to rub the outside of my tented shorts and occasionally stuck her hand down inside so she could stroke my hard cock. I was doing all I could to stop myself from bending her over and fucking her from behind right on the dance floor. It certainly occurred to me more than once as she occasionally turned around while dancing and wiggled and pressed her ass against the front of my shorts almost begging me to fuck her from behind. I couldn't take it any more. I whispered in Marla's ear... "do you think Dan would be ok if we fucked here and now". Marla smiled and said,..."of course; have a look over there...Dan is about to fuck your wife." I turned just in time to see Sara's legs spread open, laying on her back on the couch with her little skirt shoved way up over her stomach. I watched as Dan started rolling from laying beside her, with his fingers in her snatch, to kneeling between her legs. His erect cock was at about the same height as Sara's wet pussy hanging slightly over the edge of the sofa. It was such a turn on to see Dan gently thrust forward until his stiff tool entered my gorgeous horny wife's steamy bald cunt. I could hear her loud moan from across the dance floor as he entered her. I don't know if couples were allowed to openly fuck in the disco, but nobody seemed to mind and Sara is a bit of an exhibitionist anyway. Dan's pace quickened and it wasn't long before he was pounding her hard on the soft sofa with his loin-cloth covered ass thrusting back and forth. Seeing her in that position with Dan really turned me on. As newbies, it was a bit of a pleasure and pain thing for me at least. Although Sara knows how much of a turn on it is for me to imagine (and see) her with another man, I have to admit that I couldn't help but feeling a little twinge of discomfort watching my wife with Dan (even while I was in the arms of a very attractive woman). Although I know its "just sex" (as Sara put it to me once), we haven't had enough experience for my little head to fully convince by big head that there is just nothing to worry about and to relax and enjoy the fun. That only lasted a few seconds as Marla suddenly pulled her lips to mine and I quickly re-focused. "Well", I said to Marla, "I guess permission granted and then some". I pulled Marla over to an empty sofa and sat down. I had her sit down on my lap facing me. I pulled down the top of her loosely fitted club dress to expose her gorgeous tits. I squeezed and sucked her nipples as she started to grind her wet pussy into my loins. I reached down to free my stiff tool from its cloth prison. I thought it would be kind of cool to let Marla have the honors. Rather that direct my member into Marla's warm wet hole with my hand, I thought that I would continue to let her grind on my exposed cock. It didn't take her long for her to manipulate her sopping pussy directly over my stiff shaft and gently lower herself until her cunt swallowed it whole. She didn't seem to need a whole lot of help from me as she bounced and shook on my cock, moaning with pleasure until she came in a loud but muffled yell. I then asked her if she wouldn't mind bending over the end of sofa seat so that I could fuck her from behind, just like her husband did that afternoon. She smiled and said ".. with pleasure" as she was turning around beside me. I got behind her, lifted her dress to look at her sweet apple shaped ass as I shoved my erect member into her warm wet hole. It didn't take me long to blast a thick hot load of cum deep inside her snatch. I hardly noticed the many couples that were watching us with smiles. I think we encouraged others to start making out as several other couples were in deep embraces when we were done looking like they were going to fuck also. Just then Dan and Sara walked over to us holding hands with big smiles on their faces. "your wife's a sweetheart", Dan said to me. "Ditto", I said with a big smile. We all made our way to the bar and chatted and laughed for a bit before heading back to our respective rooms for the night. "So Honey", I said when we got back to our room, "could you really tell the difference between Dan's cock and mine?". She looked at me with those big brown eyes and gave me one of her knowing smiles. She didn't have to say a thing. I opened my wallet and gave her $100.00 cash. That night was probably the highlight of that trip, although there were some other fun things we did during the week. We'll have to save those adventures for another time. Sara and Kyle
  9. Holy BJ Batman!! Did I say that I thought that my wife was a tiger inside? I was hoping for a little play at the c/o lifestyle friendly resort we attended a few weeks ago but I got all of my questions and doubts about my wife answered in spades. It's funny how these things have a way of working themselves out. Anyway I don't want to say too much but it's reallly hard to contain my excitement and love for my wife. The first night, we just played with each other in view of others involved in group play. That night, she woke me up from a sound sleep to play some more (which is actully the first time ever). The next evening, we played in our room for a while until I joked with her about trying some "fresh meat" or something like that. Much to my surprise, she said "well go get me some then". Yippee, I thought. She was serious. So off we went to mingle. It wasn't long before some body shots were being poured around the group. I asked one of the guys sitting near my wife if he wanted to try some on her. Of course he did. One thing led to another and the four of us (his girlfriend also) went to the play room to play. Others joined us at some point until the room was packed. My wife's new guy took a break after lots of mutual oral play and before you could say BJ, two different guys started playing with her. In a one hour span, she had no less than 3 different cocks in her mouth and seemed to love it. These were all guys we had met before, not strangers. They were very polite and attentive - not pushy - and their wives were playing elsewhere but nearby. I asked her about the blowjobs later and she said she "felt she had no choice", but that was not the feeling I had watching her in action. She really seemed to get into it and enjoy it. She is a people pleaser personality and although I always felt that deep down it would make her feel good making her new partner feel good even if its not her favorite activity. Unfortunately, I was having some problems performing, which was unusual for me but not unexpected given everything I've read about group play. It was so erotic watching my wife service these guys in every way possible that I tried not to be too upset by my own shortcomings and the woman I was with was very nice about it. The woman I was with starting giving my wife deep kisses and also went down on her orally for about 10 minutes. Another thing I did not expect (but thought it was possible). She later admitted to me to having many orgasms that evening; but we all knew that because she was the loudest in the room by far. The last evening, we met another couple. The four of us hit it off famously and went straight to our room, avoiding some of the problems (?) that come from group play. It was my suggestion as I was a bit nervous given the prior night. We all played on the same bed and it seemed we all enjoyed each other's company. My wife even gave him some oral play when he was having some temporary down time without being prompted. Anyhow, there is much more i could say but the bottom line is that i've never loved my wife more as we embark now down a slightly different path in life. we've had a few long chats since the trip and sorted out some things that we never really discussed before but I have to say that its all gone pretty smoothly and better than i've ever imagined. We're planning another trip in the next few months and will be visiting a local club soon.
  10. I never much cared for bj's. For me it was always ok and felt good but never a big deal - probably something to do with my first girlfriend gagging and being extremely disgusted after I blew a load in her mouth - maybe affected my later attitudes. Anyhow, since then I came to realize that most women quite enjoy it and partake happily. I found my wife to be a bit odd in that regard and told her so. Over the years I have grown to crave abit more bj. It's like anything else; you crave it more when you can't have it. Could I live without it? Sure, but I'd rather not be made to feel like I have to. I think my lovely wife is really a tiger inside given the right circumstances coupled with a lot of love and positive encouragement. We're heading out to another c/o resort in the next few weeks and we're expecting/Hoping to have a few pleasant experiences to talk about upon our return.
  11. westcan

    Sharing the Wife

    My wife, Sara, and I only married a few years ago - second marriages for both of us. She'd only been with a few guys before me and I kind of got the idea she was a bit prudish, although she didn't mind being naked around me or showing her body. In 2007, while vacationing on a beach in Mexico, we saw a few topless women walk by. She joked about doing that too. I said, "you wouldn't". But she did, and I got a raging hard-on watching the guys walk by and stare at her tits. I'd never been with a flirty exhibitionist women before and what a turn on. It opened my eyes sexually about someone who I figured to be a little prudish. In 2008, we decided to check out a clothing optional resort in Mexico, so we could try full nudity. Naturally, after we booked the trip, we started talking about all sorts of hot possibilities and maybe sex with others. Sara just laughed and said that it "would be cheating". What I kind of like about my wife is that she is that she just loves to get her pussy licked followed by animal hot sex where she prefers her man to get on top and pound away for as long as he likes and then come. She can take a good long pumping before ever losing steam. She is able to get dripping wet in minutes which is also really handy for quick hot sex every now and then. Although she is a very loyal person, Sara has admitted to me that it would (hypothetically, of course) really turn her on to see another man getting a stiff cock after looking at her body. I told her that it is my fantasy to see her getting fucked hard by one or more men. She would get so wet when we talked about it, so I was pretty sure that she was warm to the idea even though she would not admit it. We arrived at the resort in September, 2008, expecting lots of sun and nudity. It is a couples resort and many beautiful couples were there. What a turn on. Almost everyone was friendly and very sociable. It was like no vacation we had ever taken. Sara had her clothes off before I'd even set the suitcases on the bed. The first night we went to the disco. Sara wore a slutty leather bikini and top that showed her full tits. For her bottom, she wore a very short leather mini skirt with no panties. She got lots of stares on the dance floor. We noticed one tall good looking guy flirting with many different women. He looked like a younger James Brolin. Sara said that he was kind of cute. His wife was kind of hanging around, not appearing to mind his flirting and touching several women. Suddenly, he walked up to Sara, with me sitting beside her, put his hand on her knees and said to her.."you are gorgeous". Sara and I didn't know what to say but I could tell she was very flattered by the compliment and blushing. He was kneeling if front of her and he could very plainly see her pussy peeking out from under her tight skirt. It turned me on to see his eyes gazing under her skirt for a few lingering seconds. After he walked away, Sara looked over at me and said something like, "he's quite the handsome guy". I said, "what would you do if he made a pass at you?" She just smiled. Later that night, we saw Brolin go into the Club "Playroom" with three or four other couples and a woman that did not appear to be his wife. Sara asked if I wanted to go in so we did. There were many couples in various stages of making out. We got a spot near Brolin and quickly undressed. I started licking Sara's pussy hard. Brolin kept looking over until he finally looked up and told her she had a beautiful pussy and that I was a "lucky guy". I thought for a few seconds then asked if he wanted a taste. Sara heard me and didn't seem to have any objection to my suggestion. Brolin's partner said "go for it". My wife just smiled. He licked my wife's pussy for several minutes . She really moaned more loudly than I have ever heard her moan. Brolin's partner reached over and, after gently stroking my hard cock for a few seconds, wrapped her soft wet lips around my shaft and started sucking hard. Of course, we weren't "swingers", so I was reluctant to go too much further without discussing it first with Sara. But this did go on for several very sweet minutes. I can't say whether I was turned on more by seeing Brolin licking Sara or having my own cock sucked. Brolin's dick was thick and hard and I certainly got the feeling he would have loved to shove it in Sara's pussy if he had half a chance. After about fifteen minutes of sucking and licking, Brolin returned to his partner and they continued their play. Needless to say, I got behind Sara doggy style shortly after that and blew my load in no time. Brolin said that he hoped to see us again as we quickly left the room.The next evening we wanted to try the hot tub. We had many drinks and socialized with many different couples. Every one was naked. It was a great time. There were many fun couples and groups in the hot tub. By 1:00 a.m.. some of the couples started getting pretty hot. It started with blow jobs, usually. In no time, there were at least three couples fucking right in front of us. The guys were sitting on the edge of the hot tub and their spouse or girlfriend (I assume) were riding on top. We were only three or four feet away from these sexy asses bouncing up and down on cock right in front of our faces. Needless to say, Sara and I started getting very horny. Although she is a little shy about having sex in front of others (so she told me) she began kissing me and grabbing and tugging at my very stiff cock. After several minutes of very intense necking and fondling, I gently bent her over the edge of the hot tub and shoved my cock in her pussy from behind and started pounding away. She was moaning and squirming, seemingly oblivious to the other people around. After pumping away for several minutes, I heard a "hey there guys" from behind me. It was Brolin. We joked and chatted for a bit as I was pumping my wife's pussy. Definitely a first for both of us having anyone see us fuck, let alone chat while doing it. I caught him glancing occasionally at her wet cunt as he talked to both of us. After a while, he didn't even pretend, he just kept staring at the hot wet pussy while talking to me. I could tell that my wife was happy he showed up especially when she noticed his cock getting very stiff just under the surface of the water as he looked at us going at it and saw her tits bouncing back and forth as I pumped her ass from behind. His wife soon wondered over from the other side of the hot tub. He introduced her and I was a little embarrassed but barely broke stroke. She looked at both of us and made some nice compliment about my cock. She was not the same lady Brolin was with the night before. She was short haired perky blond. Her pussy was trimmed to a nice thin landing strip and I definitely took a few glances while we talked. I guess it was about then that I became a little camera shy and pulled out. Sara was still totally hot. She said, loud enough for Brolin to hear that she "could have gone all night". Sara stayed in the doggy position and said .."maybe your buddy is up for it", if its ok with his wife. I asked him about it being ok with his wife and he looked over and they both nodded and said, "no problem, we're cool if you're ok". Well he didn't have to be asked twice. He quickly stood up and gently eased his stiff cock into my wife's pussy. His wife, obviously not being new to this type of thing, quickly slid over beside me and wrapped her lips around my limpish cock. It was at full attention in about 10 seconds. I asked Sara if it was ok and she said "go for it honey". After sucking for a few minutes, Brolin's wife sat me up on the edge of the hot tub and slid her wet pussy over my stiff cock. She bucked up and down like a pro as her tits bounced up and down in my face. It was hard not to come inside her hot wet cunt. It felt fabulous. I couldn't help but look over at Brolin and my wife. Brolin must have fucked her for at least 15 minutes before coming inside. I wish I had brought my camera. I thought it would make be jealous, but the sight of this guy fucking my made me so hard that after he came, I blew my load inside Brolin's cute wife. After a few minutes of pleasantries, we both paired off with our respective spouses and went at it again in the hot tub. It was the most sensual erotic experience I have ever had. We never saw them again after that, but did exchange email addresses. Brolin and his wife left the next day and although the rest of the trip was great, we didn't have quite an experience like that again. I still dream about our adventure and look forward to a similar experience.
  12. That is what I certainly would have thought. When we first discussed the idea of "swinging" earlier in 2008, one of the first things she pondered was having to give her guy a blowjob. I think that she would actually be turned on by this I tend to agree with you there. Last year I said why don't I wear a condom to have you practise giving blowjobs to see if you grow to like it. She hated the taste also. Part of me thinks that given a chance, she might be a real tiger and surprise me if she finds a guy she really clicks with. Good advise about visiting clubs and just hanging out. I do think we'll get there eventually, but may not yet be totally ready. I'm in no hurry and neither of us is really pushing this along at all, only keeping the lines of communication open and seeing where it leads.
  13. that's funny you should mention that. I onlly found out last week that her favorite position is on her back with her legs straight up over my shoulders. I asked her why she didn't tell me before. Anyhow, not quite a starfish.
  14. That is some good advise. I get the feeling from reading many of the posts that the women are often the members of the lifestyle couples that run the show and the husbands, while not necessarily passive, kind of go along with the flow. I think I understand the psychology behind it and why it would be quite successful that way and feel that we are a bit different from others (with a passive woman who would enjoy sex with lots of different me), although that's probably not the case at all. While I do think that my wife is the more jealous of the two of us, I'm not sure that an MFM would work for me(although it might, who knows). I'm worried about feeling left out or a bit jealous, but I'd probably be ok. I don't think she's a "dead fish" at all and most guys would have a great time with her. She's really up for anything in bed, but positive affirmation and encouragement of her partner are not her strong suits though - just not her nature or upbringing. But she's come a long way since we met five years ago.
  15. I'd like to think that if I was a girl, I'd love to give blowjobs too.
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