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Whoa! I'm so impressed with all your comments. Thank you for your opinions. Especially the women that have been in this situation before, so now I don't feel like I'm the only one! A huge thank you for the men that gave their opinion too. Well, the other day I took a big breath and dared to talk to my hubby. I was online reading this website, and he was near me watching tv. So suddenly I went to him with a sexy smile and he said "what's up with that smile?" I told him that I just read the story of a guy that while swinging he suddenly started doing oral to the other guy and that the wives were very turned on. I told him that while reading that I was turned on too. I asked him, "baby, I would love to see you sucking a cock, would you dare to do that ? Just for me!!!??? And to my surprise he smiled and said yeah...I would let him suck mine better!! And I was soooo relieved! I wanted to ask that question for so long and didn't dare! I didn't want to offend him or something. BUT!!! I'm the happiest woman, he said he would do it. I can't wait to watch that. I think I would come just watching it!! Thank you guys for your replies, I would show him this thread so he can feel at peace about it!!! I want him to know its ok and that he's not the only man that would want to suck a cock, even when he's not interested in hugging or kissing. Thank you, I love this board!!! :claps: :claps:

Whoa Cleo! Thank you so much for the great idea! We do have a two-sided dildo and he loves to use it on me. He can do that every time we make love, he doesn't get tired of it! Can recommend to me HOW to bring the idea of him doing oral to it, for our next time? When you and your husband did it, who came with the idea?

Well, it seems like the answer for my question is : It is not common to fantasize about that! From almost 200 people that have read the post only 1 answered. That answers my question. I'm a freak!!! LOL:8-0:: :8-0::

Hello everyone! Yesterday something really weird happened to me while i was reading this site. I love sex stories. And I was reading the interactive stories you have in here. The story was about a woman and her husband being in the hot tub with another couple. Fine. But suddenly the story gets to the point where the woman wanted the "other" man to do oral sex to her husband. And he did. I got so and so turned on that you know what I ended up doing Afterwards, I was like: What the hell made me so turned on? This is so weird! I really was extremely turned on by imagining my spouse being orally stimulated my another men. Penetration wasn't on my mind at all, (that would be a turn OFF), just oral. Is that normal for women to fantasize about that? :confused:

I LOVED the Why Not? answer! It was hilarious and so true!! Why not make life easier. Listen, The #1 problem in marriages that causes divorces and suffering is .....?? Infidelity. Why? Because we ARE sexual animals. And we want to pretend we are not. That's why we try and try harder to be faithful, and at the end we fail even when we adore our spouse. We think, we stop ourselves from doing it, we try not to "think" about that gorgeous men or woman we met at the supermarket, why? Because we do love our spouse and we don't want to lose years and years of a good marriage and a family. A family that most men and women would give their lives for. People just want a fantasy, just sex, that's it. That's why men stray (women too) and if the spouse discovers the infidelity, they cry and ask to be forgiven. It was not love at all, it was the excitement of a NEW thing, a fantasy, a turn-on moment, and that is it. They go back home because they LOVE their family. And nothing will change that. Well, let's get smart then. If that sexual urge comes to women and men as well, why not do it together? Why fight it? In the begining is hard to say everything to your partner, your secrets your fantasies, specially if they are "bi", but you know what, in the end you will never be lied to, you will be there. He will enjoy a new woman, you will enjoy too, and your relationship will be closer. More open. Totally open. No lies, no going behind your back. That what hurts the most the lying. And it's nonsense to be with just one person forever, and stop yourself from trying new adventures when there are so many fishes in the sea! You don't want to lie to your wife or husband but you want to have other sex experiences too in your lifetime. You know what? You can do both, without losing one. Swinging. Even if it is from time to time. Or threesomes or whatever you two crave. You will be more excited, your sexual life will be powerful, and every time you two make love will remember and fantasize and it will be great. That's my opinion!! Let's not fight natural life! We are not made to be monogamous, I was raised to believe in it but life has show me the reality, we are NOT!

Ok. Question... there's one reply that says that you should not swing with a coworker because you don't know if he or she slips or intentionally tells others about it? I agree. BUT doesn't ANYONE have the ability to slip? What difference relies between the coworker and some stranger? The stranger couple will know where you work what your name is and can blackmail you anyways? Don't they?