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bryanlee last won the day on July 2 2008

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About bryanlee

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    Slave to Vanilla_Sugar
  • Birthday 12/17/1981

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Jacksonville, Florida
  • Interests
    Motorcycles, Beach, Hanging out with good friends, cooking out, hiking, camping, swimming...anything outdoors.
  • Occupation
    Government Contractor
  • Swinging Experience
    New to the scene

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    bryanlee

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  1. As i have said in other threads....do what feels good and let others decide how they want to label you. You are the one enjoying yourself (or others) and who cares what anyone else thinks/feels about it. Those who insist on putting labels on others are going to do so no matter what you are doing. Have fun and pay no attention to them.
  2. Rude people - Not just to me, but anyone in general. Dirty people - Whether it is just the way they dress, smell or even a dirty home. I will walk away immediately. Idiots - I can barely stand to be around them much less have any sort of sex with them. I call it self-inflicted retardation. Racism - I have had people assume that just because I am from Alabama that I agree with their distorted views of reality.
  3. I wouldn't be concerned so much about my family finding out as they are all very supportive, not to mention i have far more "interesting" family members who do far more "interesting" things, lol. As a younger couple it is our friends/peers who we don't tell. The lady and I are very committed to each other, but when you tell someone in our age group that you are a swinger the first impression is that I (Bryan) am the luckiest guy in the world and that Sharon must be a whore to go along with it. Although they don't outright say those things it is just how it is generally received. I would rather tell my parents than have our circle of vanilla friends find out. We keep our sexual preferences private not because we are ashamed or feel that we are doing something wrong, but because it is nearly impossible to explain something like this to "outsiders" and we don't feel the need to explain any of our actions to anyone except each other.
  4. I say do what feels good and makes you happy. Let everyone else worry about how they decide to label you.
  5. I am sort of neutral in this area. I fall in the above average size, but i can enjoy anal if the female enjoys it. I don't want to have to wonder if she is in pain or not enjoying herself. I have been with women who have had amazing orgasms during anal and some who would rather have their foot in a bear trap. I can see how a woman might rather have anal sex with a man who was smaller especially if she is new to anal. I think some guys are so into it just because it tends to be very taboo among some women.
  6. If your penis is your only means of pleasuring your partner(s) then you have bigger issues than ED. If it happens just move on to something else until you are "ready". I would not be happy about it, but I would certainly not be ashamed. Adapt and overcum.
  7. This makes me wonder about my own neighbors. I will have to keep my eyes open for signs.
  8. The norm is different for every group of people. Even in a group of friends there are norms. Things that are and aren't accepted among those people. I just choose not to compare myself to anyone else. I will always be normal when compared to myself, lol.
  9. I have had it done, although not recently. My lady and I were talking the other day about doing more of it though. I think some associate it with being bi or being less of a man, but i say if it feels good...do it.
  10. We haven't told anyone at all. Neither of us are embarrassed at all, but we just feel it isn't anyone's business and we like the idea of the shared secret. We have a couple close friends that may find out but it will only be if we both decide to let them in on that part of our lives.
  11. I myself do not cum easily with oral. I have gotten the "are you there yet" look on several occasions. My g/f is able to get me "there" faster than any other woman i have been with. Another thing is if i have already cum once, I will never cum orally. Your jaw will fall off before it happens, lol. It feels great and I love it, but I won't cum. Maybe you and your lady should do some experimenting to see if there is a more efficient method to get you there. If you figure our what works for you then you can convey that to you other partners. Good Luck!
  12. I have never used them, but then again i don't really need them. I have had performance issues once or twice, but they were due to nerves and not any medical condition. That being said i am still curious and given the opportunity i would probably try one or half of one as suggested above.
  13. Thanks for the replies. As you said, we will just have to "feel them out".
  14. Anyone here into double vaginal? During an especially hot night of sex with the Lady, I was fucking her with her dildo and after a little while i entered her myself along with the dildo. This was the first time we had ever done that and it drove her wild. Today we were talking and as usual our conversation led to sex...it never takes long for it to get there either, lol. She mentioned to me that she wanted to do it with the real thing rather than a dildo. I'm perfectly fine with it if that is what she wants. I told her that i wasn't sure how easy it would be to find another male who was ok with that sort of contact, but we will try nonetheless. I personally am not bi, but i don't have any problems with the contact either. I get the idea that this may be "too close" for most guys. Am i wrong? I guess we will just have to look around until we find what we are looking for.
  15. Lack of respect towards myself, my partner or even just in regards to our relationship. I hate when people talk to one of us as if the other is not standing there. Poor personal hygiene - No excuse for this at all. Also, on this note...anyone with a filthy home. If your home is dirty then chances are you are dirty. Alpha Male Syndrome - I am in no way intimidated by anyone, but it just doesn't make for an enjoyable time when you have someone who feels the need to assert their "supposed" dominance constantly. Anyone who is Rude, Obnoxious, Uptight etc.
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