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  1. Well said....and I'd say "DITTO" to this! For some it works (separate room play) but it doesn't work for us.......we are open to new things, but are comfortable to what we have opened ourselves up to RIGHT NOW.....and RIGHT NOW, we are a soft swap couple.....same room.....it's agreed, that for us, to move to separate rooms, would be a "disconnect" in the MUTUAL experience we are in this for........I'm not in this just for me and she's not in this just for her, we are in this for "US"......I respect those who do separate room play....nothing wrong with it......just isn't for us...
  2. As folks who right now, are content with soft swinging, then obviously we don't have a problem with it. We are up front about our intentions and what we are comfortable with.... we are doing this together and for one another.....and for those who don't agree or respect that with us, then they are not for us *and that is fine!*.....there's enough people out there for everyone and every "comfort level".......no offense taken by us if someone says "no" because we don't full swap.....we have OUR reasons and that's that.....it's OUR decision....and we respect those who do and and have their own reasons for being in whatever desired comfort level of the lifestyle..... **big hippie love hug** ~ Daddy
  3. I find it amazing that one can associate filth with a woman's menstrual cycle, for in all truth her womb is the cradle of life... from which all life is created and birthed. It's just baffling to me. In all logic, a woman on her period should be considered a goddess and should be worshiped. People should flock towards them holding infants "Here, please... kiss my baby... kiss mah babeh!" It should be considered a blessing of fertility... not a curse of uncleanliness. Anywho... with that being said... didn't mean to get all "philosophical" on you or anything. I remember the first time I ever squirted, I was by myself (ya, I was by myself a lot back then lol) I was about 16 years old, alone, locked in my bedroom one fine afternoon spending some quality time with my MacGyvered dildo... when all of a sudden *gush*... I shit thee not, It knocked the wind out of me, it was so pleasurable it made me cry. I started sobbing. If freaked me out something fierce... aww, but it felt friggin' amazing. It had only happened that one time until I met Daddy. He had me on my knees and he was just pounding away, my God he feels amazing in that position. You see, he's penis has a curve to it... it curves down. When I'm on my hands and knees it hits my G-Spot like nothing or nobody ever has before... I remember feeling an odd sensation like I was about to pee all over him. It was feeling so good though... I just relaxed and let whatever was gonna happen, happen. I orgasmed intensely, and I squirted... It was all over my hand and my thighs and the bed. I stopped, I was stunned, I thought I had pissed everywhere. "Did I pee?" I said. I brought my hand to my face and sniffed it "It doesn't smell like piss." My nose crinkled, I had never smelled a smell like that before and it almost didn't even smell like me... I sniffed it one more time "That's not piss!" I looked back at Daddy with a stunned yet excited look on my face "I think I squirted!" He cracked up laughing. He had been with a few squirters before... but to me it was a totally new experience. I've been squirting ever since It is quite a marvel indeed... so is my Daddy. ~ Babygirl
  4. First off... if they give me any "creepy" vibe at all, it's a no go. I don't do "creepy" weird people... especially when they say "I would love to jerk off in front of you while I'm wearing a skirt and little pink panties" THAT has not happened yet, but if there is a vibe... hell no. LOL Hygiene is a must, I mean c'mon... If I am to play with your naughty bits I must have a clean work space. Calling up last minute and saying "Yeah, my wife can't make it tonight... but I'm on my way" won't fly either LOL (unless you are a bi dude and only looking to hook up with Daddy.) Having a personality of a rock is always a guaranteed no go... Assholes... if you are an asshole, don't bother. (that goes for women and men) I cannot stand people who cannot conduct themselves in a kindly and respectful manner. Goofing off is one thing (I'm a goof) but being an asshole is another. ~Babygirl
  5. I'll only list mine (Babygirl can reply to this on her own), but.....although we both would have to agree on the person/couple, there *are* a couple things which I find to be "deal breakers" for me (I define a "deal breaker" as a TURN OFF).....doesn't mean I *hate* or would never have sex with, because in some instances an awesome personality can supercede one or more of these: Skinny women (I like a "real" woman) Fake Breasts (don't find the fake ones appealing in the least) Poor Hygiene (an awesome personality will *NOT* overcome this one) Lack of a personality (good looks generally will *not* overcome this) Pushy/Rude people (it's about mutual respect -- we aren't your fucktoy) That's about all I can think of right now.....(as I am at work)....but if I think of more, I'll append the list at a later time....as for "looks", Babygirl can attest that I like a variety of different looks and she's *still* trying to figure me out! - Daddy
  6. Well, due to our age difference (18 years) and the fact that she likes to role play with me......hence the username: Daddy And Babygirl (and most places we tried using it already had it taken, so we had to take off the "i") - Daddy
  7. Wow. Simply WOW. This majorly hit home for me on many levels............almost to the verge of tears. Thanks for this post xray. ((bookmarked)) - Daddy
  8. I abso-flippin-lutely love this train of thought, and we have discussed making this a "frame of mind" for us....not that we weren't already thinking that way, but it's good to see it put into words....thanks Dynamar. That works for a lot of people.....but *we* do have to "like" someone to have sex with them -- we'd have to "LIKE" them a lot.....I don't give the "gift" of trust to my partner to use it on folks we don't "LIKE".....besides, I have a hard time "performing" for strangers (let alone for strangers I don't like or dislike).....there *HAS* to be something there beyond attraction......hell, if Jessica Alba or Jamie Lee Curtis (who I find very attractive) were to be laying in my bed as a "gift" from my partner (BabyGirl), that would, on the surface, be AWESOME....but if they opened their mouths and show themselves to be unfriendly or have the IQ of a rock, or turn out to be a complete "c-nt".....then I am sorry, but thanks for the Eye Candy....thanks for playing.....but they go home with a consolation prize of "REJECTION".... I am not "all that"....just means I couldn't have sex with them......however the second part is true...."we do not have sex with someone we dislike"......this is definitely how we are..... Another noteworthy "quote".....thank you jimnjan Again, well said Tia....."comfortable" and "friend" isn't always synonymous but to be comfortable with someone, you can think to yourself "This is someone I could see being friends with".....and that helps the frame of mind for me...
  9. So much insight in this thread..... Our "first time" was a MFF experience and I was in a state of "Shock and Awe" but in a very good way. Too good as I had performance anxiety and what made it more frustrating is "Babygirl" was motioning for me to join in on the fun.....willingly wanting me to partake of this other woman.....and I couldn't. So it was fun, enjoyable, but the evening ended up with me extremely embarrassed, frustrated and feeling "alone"......but many talks later (after i picked up my bottom lip and ego off the floor)....and we are closer and more communicative and I just know when she has her playmate over again, I *MIGHT* be able to redeem myself...... - Daddy
  10. Definitely interesting thread.....probably going to order some soon, thanks for sharing!
  11. Very well said......personally speaking, I had gotten *SO* frustrated that it almost completely ruined the experiences for me......"for me"....but I was so turned on and pleased to see my partner happy.....it *is* a head game for many of us.....and at first, I felt it was "this" reason, then "that", then "this" again.... Ultimately, I think it was anxiety....and the inability to perform for strangers....this last time was a couple, with whom we got a long with pretty well, but we didn't swap, we only focused on our own partners (after the ladies had some time to themselves).....and I was able to perform and function and my partner was attentive to me and was so pleased when it was all said and done.........it really helped me to have a supportive partner and someone who cares about how things are for *ME I can only hope anxiety levels get less and less as time goes on and eventually performance anxiety will be a thing of the past. I really found this thread (and a few others) to be very helpful to someone who had "performance anxiety" LOL
  12. I like the new coined word, and agree with you.....plus plain rude to not get permission first.....but.....with the thought that the Mrs didn't stop the other guy, then maybe that's how *they* play together......for me and "Baby Girl", we don't kiss the opposite sex, so for us, this wouldn't have been tolerated..... Agreed wholeheartedly.....my partner agrees that I won't put up with "anyone's" crap......in my own right, even as a "newbie", I have no problem challenging the "Alpha Male" of *ANY* group, insomuch as they want to be rude to me or my partner...... I agree, it's gotta be about the eye contact.....my problem tho, if any activity is happening with "Baby Girl", her eyes may be going into the back of her head in pleasure......so I'd have to wait for her to be less.......uh.......stimulated. :lol:
  13. We've only been discussing things seriously for a month and a half, but talking about fantasy fulfillment for a few months.....
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