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big_ems

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About big_ems

  • Rank
    Just Getting Started
  • Birthday 06/21/1958

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Jackson, MI
  • Interests
    Auto racing.
  • Occupation
    Truck Driver
  • Swinging Experience
    Wife had her first threesome, a week ago. May 3, '13
  • Anniversary
    July 11.

Swinger Info

  • SLS Name
    Jacksonnewbies
  1. We got rid of our six digit home, with three bedrooms, and a very high payment, for a very nice, fairly new double wide. It is in a very nice park, paid a fraction of what it appraised for, and is only about ten years old, where the old house was over one hundred years old. I have seen where people put down people being in mobile homes, but to have saved so much money, from that expensive stick built home, I think we made the right choice.
  2. I appreciate all the comments so far. Yesterday, the wife of the couple, came to my wife's store, and they chatted for a while. The thing we can't understand, is that she always tells my wife to call her husband, and talk to him. She won't give any details of what he has to say to her. My wife is really curious, but doesn't want to call, and talk, if she is going to turn him down anyways. My wife says she really likes talking to them, but she has already decided not to have any sex with them. She says she wants to be friends, and she is going to tell them that she doesn't want a sexual relationship, but rather just friends. If they act negative towards it, then she is going to drop all of it. In a sense, my wife is very new to this idea. I participated in swinging, with an old g/f 30 years ago, and had lots of fun doing it. Now that we both have gained some weight, we don't have the fun we had when we were smaller. Seems like our bellies get in the way now, lol. Most of the time, it turns out where we are on our backs, with our feet at each others head, and she jacks me off, and I finger her out. Thats our sex life. She always complains about not being penetrated like when she was younger. (her ex husband, and ex boyfriend were 8+, and she misses the feeling) I bought her dildos, and a viberator, but she says it isn't like the real thing. She also likes the feel of a man on her too. I looked into extensions, but nothing worked for me, I just don't get hard enough to keep it going with an extension, and that leads to more frustration. So, I guess I got started looking at different sites, and I was the one that found the couple. They were somewhat local, and sounded really experienced. They said they liked oversized women, and that is what got my attention. Since I couldn't provide my wife with enjoyable sex, I was looking for someone that could. Then when I found someone, they say they only want her, because she is new, and will open up more to them, if I am not around. I told them, I wouldn't comment on anything, just watch. I even told the wife of the couple, I could at least give her some oral sex, and she said no, she only liked penetration. Now thats another problem, we don't understand. She says she does her hubby every morning before they go to work, but there again, she is trying to find women to do him, when she isn't around. I know he takes her to Detroit, to a club, where he and other husbands, watch their wives being taken by several well hung black men at a time. She has told me, that she has had over six guys at one time giving her attention, in any hole they can find, and that is the kind sex she wants, no one else, so that leaves me out.
  3. I have been talking to the wife of the couple on yahoo messenger. My wife has met both of them at her store, but hasn't had time to sit and talk to them. I know she is real, and who I am talking to, because of the way she types, and the kind of work she does. Her husband is a farmer, and is out farming, or working on equipment during the day. She works in an office, with a computer, and talks on it at work. These people are real. They have been swingers for 25 years, so they say. I have talked to other couples in their area, and they talk highly of them. Their excuse is that since my wife is new to swinging, they should be able to coach her in that way, and that she might open up to them differently, than if I was there. In a way it makes sense, in a way it doesn't. Wife told me, even if she does consider swinging, we are doing it together.
  4. There is a couple, that wants to have a intimate relationship with my wife, but does not want to include me. I talk to the lady, all the time, and she says my wife wouldn't have sex with them if I was present. She says my wife needs to have time to know them, before I enter into the situation. She has talked about being with her husband, when he does my wife, and her only being there for comfort to my wife. Kind of like a coach or something. She did mention that after a few times with him and my wife, she would like to have sex with her too. Perhaps a one on one with my wife. I have asked her, if I could just watch, and she said in due time. I asked about doing her, but she says she only likes black guys with large endowments, and I don't fit the bill either way. I am williing to let them do want they want as long as the wife is favorable to it too. She has told me that she wanted me there while they screwed, but the couple says no way. What should I do?
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