After many false starts, mishaps, disappointments and disasters, we FINALLY feel like our luck is changing! A couple of weeks ago, we connected with an AMAZING couple on one of the sites. We've learned to not be too optimistic about a couple until you actually meet them in person. We finally met them on Friday night, and there was instant chemistry. The past few times we've met up with other couples, it's been rare if either of us felt any chemistry. But this time it was off the charts for both of us!
When all four of us decided we wanted to meet, we all agreed that our first get-together will strictly be drinks and dinner. As a couple, we didn't want to feel any pressure to take things further if we weren't "clicking" with them, and they were very flexible and understanding. Understandbly, we were both still a little nervous driving to the restaurant that night, but the nervousness disappeared almost instantly once we met them!
As the night went on, I think all four of us were wish it would continue somewhere in private. But at the same time, my wife and I were certainly content with getting to know them. Towards the end of the night, there was definitely enough flirting, touching and "plan making" to know that they were mutually interested in getting together again.
We plan to meet again later this week! We're so thrilled to finally find a couple we're very attracted to physically, and also love spending time with. We'll let you all know how things go on our second get-together!