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NymphoWind

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About NymphoWind

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    Make me purr...
  • Birthday 12/07/1984

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Vancouver
  • Interests
    Threesome, Swapping, Group Sex..
  • Swinging Experience
    New to the lifestyle.
  • Anniversary
    Feb 14th

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  1. Well me and my partner have been looking for potential playmates to join us... Right now mostly males to join us for a threesome, and out of a bunch of people we actually met up with one guy, he turned out to be a virgin, or so he said he was, and it was something we thought could have been fun... We ended up talking to him and trying to get to know him for a span of 1-2 years, and near the end of the second year, when we asked if he would be interested in setting something up soon? He kind of was rude, and his excuse was that we made him wait for so long that he does feel frustrated, I think whether or not he was real enough to show up, or if he was telling the truth about even being a virgin, the way he was rude, kind of just totally turned us off... So we ended up just not replying to him, so as of yet, we haven't found anyone from CL, I like to read ad's every now and then, hoping to find someone good, but so far no luck...
  2. Here in Vancouver BC there are a few Swingers clubs, which are a great place for people to meet, on the topic of these places, we wanted to hear how a person would come to open a swingers club? Many swingers prefer to set up play sessions at hotels, and I was interested/in thought of wanting to open a Swingers club/Hotel, a place people can meet, hook up, and so on, can you give any advice as to how we could make this happen? How we can bring in the right crowd? Idea's for what you think would make a better swingers club/hotel compared to others would also be great! Thanks! - NymphoWind
  3. Ok so I hear its a no no, in swinging to have your co-worker join... Can you tell me what your thoughts are on this subject? Is it something people should just completely stay away from? Or is it a workable type thing?
  4. Breaking whatever rules that were set between you and your partner even just once!
  5. Honestly, I would prefer if I was a part of the play instead of just a spectator. I mean there is a possibility that for a few minutes I may step aside to get a drink or to grab a toy to join the play, but as far as it goes, I think a threesome is about double pleasure, so why break the double pleasure? If males have problems with having any contact between each other, than the female should always just stay in the middle...
  6. This has not been a issue for us, this probably won't be a issue for us, it's a curious thought and interest in hearing what others would do if a situation has come up, or had come up... I/We completely understand that cheating is cheating and regardless of anything, cheating is bad, and not swinging... Regardless of whether you are planning to go into the lifestyle or are already into it, lets say you catch your partner cheating, (In bed or somewhere in general; Like on a desk in your or your partner's office...) How would you go about dealing with this? Would you (A) Leave your partner because cheating is cheating and even though being in the lifestyle means hooking up with other people the approval is there. or (B) Would you flip out in that moment, but let it go because once or even being in the lifestyle means eventually you'll be seeing your partner with others and vice versa. (even though it doesn't change the fact that cheating is still cheating, and cheating is not swinging...) or © Would you forgive your partner, and even things out by hooking up with someone else, and than continue on with the relationship? And so forth?
  7. Sounds to me like someone broke rules... And somewhat a perfect example for something not to do ever... I can only imagine what happen once they got home...
  8. In the middle of my sit-ups I had a thought pop in my head, and so I thought I'd take about 5mins away from my workout to post a question for those who are in the swinger lifestyle. Now I understand that those who are in the lifestyle find it a huge turn on to see their partner with another, etc etc... But for those of you who are in the lifestyle is there ever a time when you feel slightly jealous seeing your partner with another? Do you/have you felt any kind of jealousy towards your partner during or after ever playing? (Just a question that my mind has found interest in hearing...)
  9. When first meeting strangers or as a swinging safety plan, what steps do you do? What I mean is, some couples I have heard use fake names, to make sure things stay extra discreet... Etc... What other steps or precautions do you use? - Always use condoms - use fake names - Have play sessions at hotels/motels
  10. Well its about that time once again, me and my partner have been talking about our fantasies even more since the last attempt set up fell through... The first thing that came up was a question for each other, and that was; "Is making our fantasies something that should stay fantasies or something that should become reality?" And the answer was simply "They should become reality!" Anyways we've talked about the whole MFM and FMF set ups, and as far as it goes Shes completely up for the FMF play, only she wants me to find our unicorn... With the MFM I'm completely interested in making it happan, as the very thought of it/looking at pictures online and picturing us in those situations are very much a huge turn on, and honestly something I have been fantasizing about alot, and a complete turn on for her also... Anyways as finding the right single girl for the part is a bit harder than finding a willing male I do understand that it may be a while before we find our sexy 3rd for our hot first FMF, but in the mean time we are still very interested in having a MFM. To make things better, we have been spending our time looking for the right guy for sometime now, along side of learning more about the lifestyle and involving someone in our play as much as we can, in our search we have found someone we both are currently interested in, he seems pretty cool, but before anything happens we'll probably take a little more time to make sure he's perfect for our first MFM play... As time draws closer and closer to the actual set up, I'm sure we'll both become much more nervous about it, now the question I wanted to ask is from anyone who has had a new playmate join for the first time, what did you and your partner do to make things more comfortable/calm and less nervous? This question applies for both MFM and FMF... Thanks...
  11. Is there really much of a difference between the two? They say sex addiction is a bad thing, but some may not have great views on swinging... Can a swinging person be someone considered sex addicted? To be honest I have a huge sex drive, and I love most aspects that are a part of sex, beyond that I believe that it is part of who we are as human beings and a very natural thing, which also draws me and my partner into a curiousness over the swinging lifestyle, something we find ourselves being drawn closer to all the time... Anyways, would those who are in the lifestyle consider themselves sex addicts?
  12. Very often, I have come to wonder what it would be like to find someone on which you know in this kind of lifestyle and i suppose depending on who it is, would really be something to think about... But on finding one's boss, that really must be something, i mean how do you go to work and not have the thought of the whole subject pop in mind, and ignore it through the day... Honestly for me it would have just be nothing less of weird if i was to find one of my past bosses in the lifestyle, Although there has been two or so bosses that i would love to find in this lifestyle, as would many i bet... But regardless lol that's a interesting find...
  13. Well we're pretty new to the lifestyle still looking into it more over then living it currently, we're 24 and 20... Anyways As I'm sure you'll hear this a lot, feel free and take the time to check out the many post of others on here, you'll find pretty much all the information you'll need and the best part is everyone here is really cool and respectful which make things that easier to feel comfortable learning about the lifestyle... For us, the more we hear the more we learn the more excited we are to take a dive into the lifestyle, we're already looking for a right someone to join us which does say a lot!
  14. Hey thanks for the reply! Well the thing was, in conversation we were thinking of having a 3some with another girl to kick start our first experience in a three way, as usually being with two girls at once is something most males dream of having, on her part she was really new to the whole idea never really considering having another join, Other then that, the truth is sex wise I'm the only man she's ever been with, and after years of playing and enjoying each other in many ways, we decided it may be interesting to have another join, and since she has only been with me, she strongly felt that having one persons at a time was something she would like to start with... Anyways as time passed I was able to have her open up more and more sexually with me, and started to encourage her to really just let loose, she eventually decided like my fantasy of having two girls at once, she thought it would be amazingly sexy if she could have two guys, and at first we agreed that alright first we would invite a girl to join us, and see how it plays out, then we'll find a right guy, and see how that was, as things started to become hotter between us, the issue that I was her first and only came up, whereas for me I've had my share of sexual partners, and as our conversations grew in depth, and as her fantasy began to grow on me, we together decided well for the first time why not make it a MFM instead? I mean I haven't been with two girls yet, but that doesn't change the fact that i have been with many girls, and experience wise she has only felt the best and better that i have, and never the best someone else has to offer, and so that's how we came to deciding that we want to start with a MFM... Honestly though, at first i had many hang ups over the idea, I wasn't sure at first if i would be ok with another guy joining, even though the very idea of this naughty fantasy did pinch a arousing cord within me, but over time i started to feel that it was no different really then say a FMF, and topping that was that very fact that the more i saw the fantasy turn her on, the more i thought about her pleasure and moaning double, the more it grew on me... And now I've reached a point where when masturbating or having sex the fantasy of seeing her working me and another guy drives me crazy, i find that i cum harder and just feel that much more wild, compared to when i now fantasize about having a FMF... Although the idea of having another couple join us really is a turn on, i don't think we're ready for that, and rather take on one person at a time feeling more comfortable with one person to fill some positions, but I'm sure after the first few 3somes we'll start looking for hot sexy couples to join us, as we both share a fantasy of laying back and watching another couple work us while we glace over to see one another in moaning pleasure...
  15. Hey, Thanks for your post, i agree with it very much... As far as having her be a part of the process as much as possible i try to get her in it as much as i can, but she has also made it very clear that shes just very shy about it all, and rather have me doing most of the finding and such, although slowly i have been getting her to open up more, so far she still rather leave the picking part to me, but now is open enough to come meet the potential choice i find for dinner or the "interviewing stage" I hope sooner then later, I can awaken the wild side within her completely, but at the same time seeing her becoming more and more involved, step by step really does make things fun. "it is easier to make friends out of swingers than swingers out of friends." I can't agree more!
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