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Bunny&Ed

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About Bunny&Ed

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  • Birthday 06/11/1964

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Southern Michigan
  • Interests
    Art, Dancing, Novels, Nudism, and Travel.
  • Occupation
    Medical Professional
  • Swinging Experience
    Newbie

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  • SLS Name
    EdandBunny

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  1. While we have been getting responses, it would be interesting to know if there is anything that we can do to help improve our profile, (other than changing the wife into bi-curious...heehee....which is not happening...heehee) Your input would be greatly appreciated.
  2. Dear P&P, it was good to hear a man's point of view. Thank you...did I forget to mention, that I love a man with an accent, even if it is only in ink..;)Seriously though, being a nurse I can totally understand the union issue, and though awful things called penises. However, I still can't help but adore them, lick them, suck them, blow on them...I digress...Wasn't there a phrase that the third time is a charm, does that mean that I'm cursed, because all three times have been unexpectedly limp in response. Ok, I'll keep fishing, maybe if I hook one, it'll stay erect, I've heard that pain can cause this response!!! See Mama, he really does love me....I love you too, you beast (my pet name for Ed, always said with love within the tone....)!
  3. I start by saying thank you for taking the time to read my very long message. I would say that everything was definitely hot and heavy, sweaty and wet, until that last seconds, when it all went limp. Then total disappointment, because foreplay for me is all fun, but the hard pounding at the end is what I'm really after, to be truthful... I giggled at this, Ed does have ED, in fact, when we first decided to swing, we discussed this, and now we make sure that Ed has taken his Cialis 4 hours before our planned meeting time with another couple, or club time. It costs us $150.00 a month to keep Ed from having an embarrassing moment and little Ed is performing as expected when on a command performance. At first, it was like Huh? you didn't understand what I wrote, and then I realized that you were as confused as we were. Here's a couple that we have been getting to know for more than 4 months, cards, dinners, movies, soft swap, voyeurism, exhibitionism,,,,and then reassurance that he was on medicine and was ready to literally rock my world and couldn't wait to do it. Then after 30 minutes of hot, exciting foreplay, and fizzle....with the medication on board to boot, so you can just imagine how I felt. (Note, this is the third guy in a row that has had this happen...Am I cursed?) Thank you for sharing this, it wouldn't have been bad if it was just one guy, but to have three in a row, and all of them couples that we had spent time getting to know and had faith in. But to no avail, no fun for bunny. Thank you all for your support....I'll keep dreaming of a stiffy, at worst, my husband says that he's always available for me...heehee
  4. This is definately something that Ed and I love to do at the club, and also watch. However, no camera's. Because our most commonly used teasing phrase for each other is...."there is no evidence....no pics/no evidence...other swingers (that wouldn't come forward because they'd have to be seen or outed)/no evidence..thus, I'm still innocent unless caught on film...heehee" So no camera's please, but if you want to watch or be watched, we are all in! ::P:
  5. Hi all; We have all talked about this before in another thread. But, this time I really need to know how often this is happening, and if it's just me or are others going through the same thing. I would have written last night, but I was depressed, disgraced, and totally feeling degraded, in and about myself. For the first time in years, I let someone else's action make me cry. I cried in the car going home and in the shower while trying to erase any evidence. I have never felt so dirty and disgusted with my self. We had just spent the evening with a couple that we had shared prior soft swap relations with. We have seen him and her together on other occations having sex. We know that he takes medication (viagra) and has had no problem with erection. During our full-swap with them, last evening, he was hard and soft through the foreplay section. Hard when dancing or playing cards, hard during the approximate 10 minute blowjob, and hard during the periods of me giving him a hand job, but....when it came time for him to penetrate me for our ride together, didn't happen, he couldn't, it was like instant limpness...(please, note that...not bragging here....but I'm very tight and any softness at all isn't going to get in..a side effect from being a belly dancing instructor..) After about 30 minutes I gave up trying to get him hard enough to get in. This was our third full-swap situation, and I haven't had a ride or been penial penetrated yet. Meanwhile, my husband is pounding away on these other men's wives. And then I have to go through the gushing wives comments about how wonderful and hard my husband was, while I'm trying to be polite and feeling worthless. Four things, then did I Question.... 1. I questioned myself and everything I did, thinking that I had tried every trick in the book, that I have used on my husband (except for a whip). So, does this mean that my husband can and will fuck just about anything, which includes me? Am I that disgusting? 2. Should my husband wait to penetrate, while waiting for a sign from me that I have successful penetration, before he penetrates the wife. Then calling a switch at the last moment, if the male cannot get penetration. (Which, by the way, I totally hate this options, because it feels so selfish..) 3. For us to just stop swinging all together, because I'm not what men want. (which again is a selfish answer, because obviously the women like my man, and this may not be what Ed wants, but will do, if I ask.) Are there any others out there, who have had this problem. Multiple Failures of Penetration related to limp-dick-ness? Is this why a lot of couples seem like bed notchers, because they are going through couples at a fast rate, just to find another complete couple that can perform? Still hurting..Bunny
  6. Hi all, Definitions: Gangbang-one female with more than two men at the sametime. Train-one female with more than six men lined up to screw her one consecutively after the other, with no breaks inbetween. Encounters-one female with one or multiple partners at different times through night/day with breaks inbetween. A gangband, I really am not that interested. But the idea of a fuck-train during a house party (which may happen tonight) is definately in the planning. How is this done you ask....The girls line up side to side on all fours. The guys have a handful of condoms (one for each girl) and lubricant...The timer is set for three minutes per fuck, and then guys rotate to the next lady in line...then when they return to their significant partner (wife or girlfriend), they then fuck her bareback until they cum. The trick of the game is for the men, to control themselves and not cum until they have successfully fucked all the women at the party....Imagine the challenge with more than 10 couples, that's a lot of work guys, and a great ride for all the girls.
  7. Hi all, We have this statement on our profile. Due to we only swap, when both couples swap. So, the attraction must be in place for all four members, and neither of us will take one for the team. (please note that we are both straight, which probably helps keeping the foursome from heading towards a threesome.) We don't play seperately; plus we only play in the same bed. I know, I know, I'm back to that we-thing again...heehee. Yes, this limits the field, but when it happens, it's great!
  8. Alarm, Alarm, yes, too all thee above.. Stay away, danger will robinson! This reminds me of the expression, "I'm allergic to condoms..." WHAT! You have got to be kidding. Only her and not you...something is rotton in the water...My advise, don't drink the water...Run away as fast as you can.... There are so many other fish in the sea, wait and find the right ones..There is no rush... Your gut feeling will not lead you wrong, it's your bodies natural alarm system to warn you of danger.
  9. Quote: "The first time was totally unplanned" (Maria) For us too, we thought that it was going to be soft swap.... Quote: "her hubby was so distracted by my sweetie fucking his wife..." I thought that this would be a problem with Ed, I know he wants to just watch sometime. But he managed to focus on the intended partner with occational glimpses my way. Quote: "'i don't know why you insisted that we use a condom when they aren't'....to which I propmtly called out to my SO and asked him to verify...which he did. And play time was brought to a screeching halt. " Oh, I would have beat Ed a little harder with a whip when he got home, after threatening to cut the thing off....Our swinging days would have been over. Our second rule in our agreement for swinging is condoms. (Fixed or not) Skin to skin contact during intercourse is our intimacy thing. If Ed had done this, it would have broken my trust with him, and ended our days of swinging..And yes, I mean it.... Yes, we have a swinging contract. We gave a lot of thought to swinging and had a lot of discussions about expectency and rules...Our marriage is a contract of faith and trust, our bodies can be shared with others, but our honor is to each other. Ohhhhh, I would have liked to be a bug on that wall, back when...heehee I'm glad that you two worked it out...and have moved on...but, us women need to ban together and raise our voices to be heard demanding, "We want hard dicks, Give us our daily hard dicks...Hard Dicks!!!!" heehee Hip Hopping And Swinging All The Way! Bunny
  10. SpooMonkey, So true, that if his performance with the wife is excellent, then yes, ED is not his problem....Then I agree with others that alcohol, exhaustion, and lack of desire can cause the limp syndrome....That means it's time to call a stop and go back to the partner that can provide....heehee This would have to be terribly embarressing for the guy.. I'm curious though, if it's not getting hard in the pants with general play and flirting, why would men think it's going to get hard outside of the pants? Thus, the fun and games prior to play to see if there's interest...if there is no twinkle or pucker in the jewel...Why not just call it quits...I hate to be disappointed... Note: That with the swing we did, he was soft with his wife on the date prior when we all did exhibition. For some crazy reason, I thought, maybe the extra excitement of me being different would help, NOPE....what were we thinking....bad bunny and ed! heehee.... Hip Hopping And Swinging All The Way!!!! Bunny
  11. QUOTE:" My wife gets bored pretty quickly when we play with another couple if the guy can't get it up." This was the problem with our first swing....The man was definately interested and couldn't get me out of my clothes into the bed fast enough! He was all over me, but his jewels were semi-firm at most, (I hate to tell you this guys, but that is not "hard"!) This meant he was interested; but unable to get a hard erection, he kept apologizing, and all I could think of was, where is my medical bag......heehee Because he is not my client I couldn't broach this subject with him, but I will, with all of you. Now, for medical info: Erectile dysfunction for most men, begins in their mid to late 30's, were the penis does not become fully erect, but the male is interested in penetration. This can be related to tissue changes in the penis or chemical changes in hormones as men age. Men usually ignore the early signs of this disorder and try attribute it too decreasing lack of interest, and can become clinically depressed when it starts to affect the marriage and his interactions with his wife that he is terribly attracted too. There are three popular meds for this disorder, Viagra, Levetra, and Cialas. All allow a man to get a "hard" erection when the moment is right. Some of these pills are effective up to three days. So guys, don't be bashful, and don't claim lack of chemistry or audor, go to your doctor and ask for a perscription...It's worth it....And it will only take a touch and you'll be ready for action... My new rule for swinging after the first disaster I went through: If his penis doesn't get hard during the Naughty, Naughty, Bunny game; then it's exhabition only...Cause my Ed's will be....heehee Hip Hopping And Swinging All The Way! Bunny Seder Jr.
  12. I'll Chime in and share the Bunny side....heehee First of all, for me it was disappointing, but enlightening. I wanted to be turned on and flirtasous, but instead I felt rushed by him (which was probably a good thing, here's why). I really wanted to please him and enjoy the foreplay, but he was covered head to toe in furr. This was more difficult for me than I thought it would be. Due to the fact that ed has some fur across chest and lower abdomen and pelvis region and legs. But ed has a lot of exposed skin on his neck, nipples, chest, belly, behind his knees, and penis that I throughly like licking and sucking during foreplay. Because my swap partner, who is a fine looking man, was hairy from head to toe, I couldn't find a place to lick or suck on that didn't provide me with a mouth full of hair. He didn't like his nipples sucked or bit (I'm a biter by nature..) thus, my options and interest in foreplay quickly went down hill. Yes, we put on the flavored condom and I gave him a blowjob, which quickly lead to penetration, because the gentleman couldn't maintain a erection (what is the deal with this!!! get some meds please....) I felt rushed, and didn't enjoy myself. (All I could think of was, my hard man-meat is pounding the the tar out of her,,,go man, go man,,,,but I want some too..heehee, not jealous, but envious..heehee) I have coached ed, to take his time and pleasure the woman, and what ever you do, pound on her for no-less than 5 minutes before coming...I think I got the 30 second ride, and still wonder if he ever really penetrated me...! All in all it was a learning experience, things that I learned: A: I'm not jealous of him being with another woman when we swing... B: I'm proud that ed can please and provide a good work out until the women can come. C: If the other man can not establish a hard/firm erection, than it will be a no go! D: And if the man has too much furr, I will have to get the razor out!!!heehee All in all though, I don't feel any regrets, I just wish it had been better for me. It made it hard for me to express excited feelings later when talking to Ed. We love to chat together about our adventures, and I felt like, I put a damper on the moment, which Ed did enjoy.... Oh well, on to the next adventure...any volunteers....heehee Hip hopping along, Bunny (Ed's other half)...
  13. Geezzz, I can't even go and take a nap and Ed gets us in hot water up to our asses...heehee Maybe I should help clear some of this up....or make it worse, one of the two...heehee Ed and I, both work in the medical field, which is very customer service driven. We are expected to give prompt and polite service to the patients and doctors, whom are considered our personal customers. Being the social ants that we are, we have taken this responsibility on in our personal and social lives. We have wondered and talked about why people who have been on "today," seem not to have taken the time to give a simple 5 word or less response to an email. I think that this is the reason that Ed was venting and asking for advise today. Bammmm, boommm, bang...did he open a can of worms. (He feels terrible) He was chastised both on and off the forum today, bad-bad-boy. I will get the whip out later..heehee I wonder, how many people get tired of the no response's and just stop sending mail out at all or leave the lifestyle. If it weren't for the fact that our profile has gotten us some decent contacts, we would have probably given up. For the most part (except for those on this forum!) we have not received responses to our emails. Out of the numerous couples that we have had or are in contact with, only 2 of them are from us initiating contact. I can see why many would just stop, without even asking the newbie question of why this phenomenon takes places. So we understand when you ask us to consider that people have busy lives outside of all of the lifestyle. But, at the same time, please understand that newbies don't know the rules of the game. I rather get a no thanks, no way, nice try, or you've been deleted...heehee...than no response at all. Oh, and thanks for all your responses. We will try to be more patient...Next subject please.....heehee;)
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