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Why do guys like their women sucking on other men?
couplers replied to enjoyingfun's topic in Swingers Talk
Whether I watch or not, I wonder, how does she feel, different or the same as me, does he feel the same to her as he does to me? I can see and appreciate the way their sex acts are different.- 77 replies
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My body count is low, but the amount of sex that I've had with those bodies is high. Perhaps in the regular swingers game, but I had great success early on when we were in our mid-twenties and I decided that I wanted my husband to play in addition to me having a boyfriend. I recruited for among my friends and acquaintances with great success. Maybe because so many of my friends were single at that age (late teens to thirties), my husband is very attractive and polite, he was considered both safe and desirable because he was married, to me, who was giving them permission and saying that I would be flattered if she used my husband. Finally, we weren't pushy, he and/or we would take them on dates and vacations, pay for everything and expect nothing.
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My poly family and I are the exception here on this site and in the lifestyle. We have on occasion taken it outside the family, but rarely; we have never been to a club, houseparty, or had sex with strangers. So my experience is not typical and I am unqualified to comment, except I take offense 😄 at the belief I (and Clair and Lora) not only can and do outfuck our same-age men, but we also go at each other. That's why for several years we shared a boyfriend for the extra we needed from time-to-time. This gets to a fundamental truth, men just want to fuck as many women as they can, women (mostly) want sex with men they know, trust, and have a deeper attraction to. That's why, i think, MFMs with regulars work so well.
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It is true that most of the people posting here are male, but not all, and the women who do post range from slightly lightly bi to full-on engaging in their Lesbian side, like me. Having said that, however, your friend may do better with an online forum devoted to gay and bi women to get a wider variety of viewpoints.
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I've spoken in my above posts. What more would you like to know? And yes, it's become normal (but never boring) for me and the others in my poly family.
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From today's Ask Amy
couplers replied to AdamGunn2's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
Agreed. In our poly family, our experience is that having other intimate relationships besides a single spouse reduces stress considerably. For the above reason, I don't think that is the case. -
For us it's the opposite - as I proudly present, "Hey honey, look what someone else has just done in my pussy."
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My wife says I can swing but she won't
couplers replied to erotic Eric's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I re-read my post and I was wrong. The question is whether your wife is merely allowing you to play or she is excited about you playing. If she is turned on by you having sex with other women, then I suggest that she help address the problem identified above by other posters of too many unaccompanied men in the lifestyle and too few women by her facilitating your quest for other female sex partners. Specifically, your wife can identify women among her friends and acquaintances that may be looking for a partner for casual sex and be a matchmaker. That’s what I did when I got over my jealousy after having a boyfriend but not wanting my husband to play. Long story short, I had many horny female friends who were unmarried at that time (although some had boyfriends and one was engaged) and in their late teens to well into their thirties. The topic often turned to sex in our conversations, and if she said anything about my husband being attractive, I would say that he finds you attractive too. Interest by her in my husband would be met with “It can be arranged, and I would be flattered.” Many of those took me up on the offer not only because he was attractive, but also because he was my husband, a known, safe man. Other women David and I “dated” together where I created the atmosphere and opportunities for her to have my husband. We took her to dinner, concerts, plays, even vacations, paying for everything and never expecting anything. Some of those women slept with hubby. There was never a one-off. It was comfortable enough for all to continue for a while. College girls just looking for sex with a nice guy, women with boyfriends looking for extra, a last fling before the ring, single mothers who hadn’t had any fun for a while, I babysat while they went on a date and had sex. So if your wife is like I was at that point in our marriage/lifestyle, it may be a fun way to go for her and make it all possible. -
I suppose one could say that the jealousy I have and my desire for it is a form of female cuckoldry.
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My wife says I can swing but she won't
couplers replied to erotic Eric's topic in Finding People to Swing With
Although lifestyle activities need not be symmetric, more than half the fun is having your spouse play. I believe that people, especially women, are not monogamous. You shouldn't try to "convince" your wife to play with other men or women or couples (her choice), but make it clear that you love her and it would make you happy for her to explore her sexuality and satisfy her desires with no need for her to let you play. Let it be entirely on her terms: where, when, with who, what they do. Be loving and generous. That's what my husband did with me. It took two years of me having a boyfriend while hubby didn't play, but then I understood, and wanted him to engage in the lifestyle as well. -
They went out and did fun things, then had sex together. Nothing they told me was anything you haven’t read about here on this forum, although I like letting my imagination run. I did talk to David and Shannon (just typing their names together makes me jealous) before and after they had sex. That was cool. And David told me that he called Joe and taunted him (as Joe likes) about fucking, screwing, making love to his wife, the insatiable slut. I also spoke to Joe and he confirmed what David said and he liked it. At least I could calm down by having sex with Red and some girl action; Joe was alone with his tormenting thoughts. It’s not courage, just that we in our family are very much in love and committed to out family, that makes us open about the little outside play that takes place, and we’re fine with it. Play outside our family may be intense (for me at least), but we understand it's just fun sex.
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Yep. They spent two days and nights alone together. Indeed. Women who are lezzie for each other can be like that.
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Chastity device? To me the whole idea of the lifestyle is to have more sex, not less. 🙂 Yes, often I get horny when David or Red is fucking another woman, be it one in our poly family or an outside girl. But I deal with it by having sex with whichever guy is with me, or Lora or Clair. An orgasm takes care of my distraction for a while at least.
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Why do guys like their women sucking on other men?
couplers replied to enjoyingfun's topic in Swingers Talk
When it's a guy, especially one of my guys, doing the licking I watch her being pleased. When it's two women, both, I go back and forth.- 77 replies
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Why do guys like their women sucking on other men?
couplers replied to enjoyingfun's topic in Swingers Talk
Agreed that watching pussy being licked by a man or woman is a turn-on, but the view isn't as good.- 77 replies
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