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How about purple guys? That is hubby's fav.

He is 34. I am 28. Been together for 11 years married for 7, and swining for about 3.

I agree with jcbicouple, as we are in the same "boat". We have a single male friend that we play with often outside of our circle of friends. They all know about each other and are fine with the arrangement.** Finding the right guy for us wasn't too hard, but it did take longer then 2-3 weeks. Just make sure that you talk about everything!!! Take your time and get to know the person so that you are sure you are all on the same page. **This would make an interesting poll. (If I only knew how to post one.) If you had a circle of regular play mates that didn't like the idea of a MFM situation and you did. Would you tell your play mates if you met someone single that you wanted to play with? facelick

I think that swinging is different for everyone depending on what you want out of it. You make your own rules, other then the simple few that are known by all, or at least should be, everything else should be up to the couple or person in the lifestyle. It is a choice that we made, and we should be able to change if we want.

So... hypothetically speaking if I had a party at my home where I served eight to ten munchies (something like; crab dip, shrimp cocktail, and the like), invited 3 or 4 couples and left a "donation cup" (for lack of a better term) on the munchie table. Would I be breaking the law? The "donation would go toward the food expense, and would not be "required at the door". Or would it only be breaking the law if some of the couples had sex?

Yes, we were contacted by a local celeb but in the end--lol--decided that the risks of someone finding out were too high. We still see them around but have decided not to play with them, if their secret is reveiled we don't want ours to be too.

Makes me wonder...........how many real crimes were committed in this town while the officers were making their purchases? I've never hear of a sex toy killing anyone!!!

It's not the size of the barge, it's the ability to remain in port until all of the passengers have disembarked!!!

I was very glad to see this post as my hubby and I have been invited to our first house party and as my luck would have it my period is schedualed to start. I too was wondering if I should just come out and tell people that Aunt Flow is visiting, but actually for our first party it could be alot more exciting to limit my play to "other" interesting ways to feel good. This post is getting my juices flowing!!!

Something to ponder.................It is not the size of the barge, it is the ability to remain in port until all passengers have dis-embarked!!!