xyzzy07
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- Birthday 04/09/1951
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NC, USA
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Do any other swinger guys like to suck cock besides me?
xyzzy07 replied to Suntan51's topic in Bisexual Swingers
There's a bi meet and greet one evening.- 145 replies
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xyzzy07 commented on JustAskJulie's blog entry in Julie's Adventures in Swingland
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We've swapped overnight with a couple that we know well. I think it's fun to wake up next to (and then have early morning sex with) a different woman than normal! It's been in the same house or different rooms in a hotel, mainly because we live about 3 hours apart. We haven't experienced any uncomfortable bonding, although living that far apart and all having very busy lives, it'd be difficult.
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So, are you and the Mrs going to take her up on dinner? Sounds like the dessert might be very tasty.
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Talk about being in the other guy's shoes...
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We both dress up, and really enjoy the Halloween parties at the swing clubs. My favorite costume was as Tom Cruise in Eyes Wide Shut; a tuxedo, mask, and cape. The problem is that it was too obscure. We're still working on this year's costumes. The candidates are (a) Anthony and Cleopatra, (b) riverboat gambler and saloon girl, and © Indiana Jones and Marion. The problem with the latter is that Marion's character/costume is neither recognizable (like Cruise above) nor sexy.
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Our 1st FMF threesome..what was yours like?
xyzzy07 replied to Paul&Audrey's topic in First Swinging Experiences
Our first FMF was really fun, perhaps the best one we've ever had. It was at a hotel party, and we'd struck up a conversation with a lady in the ballroom. Later, we ran into her upstairs, found out she was single, and that none of us had hooked up for the night. Hurray! Our lady friend was very horny, and we had a great time. -
Single men: Do you prefer the husband just watch, or join in for a MFM?
xyzzy07 replied to a topic in Swinging Solo
When I've been the second M, the husbands have participated, although they always hung back for a while (as did I) for variety. I've never had the experience of just being watched by the husband for the whole session, and imagine it might be a little odd. Is it? One of our friends likes to direct the action. LOL.- 65 replies
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Finding the right mix of people to swing with
xyzzy07 replied to **Macbeth**'s topic in Finding People to Swing With
I have to agree with Sunswept that discussing swinging with your friends is much more extreme than going to a swing club. The clubs have welcoming atmospheres, and you can just dance and enjoy the sexy environment without doing anything at all beyond your comfort zones. You'll likely encounter much less drama with swingers than with vanilla friends. Even newbies like yourselves at a club have already decided that they may want to play with others.- 27 replies
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Playing solo "discreetly", should I assume he's cheating?
xyzzy07 replied to The Fuse's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I think it'd be hard to see the other couple in a foursome and not fell funny & awkward. It's a shame he screwed this up! lizandtom, what sorts of things have the guys whispered? I say nice things about the lady's looks and how sexy she is, but I consider that no more than polite, nor the encounters more than casual and friendly. In fact, I give the same compliments in front of the husband. Were the whisperings invitations to meet on the side? -
Does age have any bearing on condom use?
xyzzy07 replied to AdamInEve's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We normally use condoms when playing with others. The only times we haven't have been with two couples that became regular friends and sex partners. Was that wise? Who knows? It's absolutely true that it feels much better to have sex w/o a condom, so it sure would be nice to not have to use them. However, since they are at least partially effective, it makes sense.- 46 replies
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It's not clear to me that you have to know the other couple all that well, as long as the rooms are close together. Some of our best sex has been in separate rooms first, followed by getting all together (and in different combinations while one of us took pictures), followed by separate, etc. One fun variation is sleeping with the other spouse and waking up to a middle-of-the-night or morning romp. I wouldn't have guessed how hot that turned out to be.
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Sitting at a table is a good way to not be approached (standing at a high table is not quite as bad). We've learned to walk around and smile if we want to meet new people. I hadn't thought of a lady wearing jeans as a negative, but a slinky black dress and a sassy attitude is a sure positive!
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I wouldn't say he was a cuckold because he knew what was going on, and planned the trips so that he could watch his wife having sex. It's not a Jamaican guy fetish, though. She said that at home in the US, she played with a variety of guys. There may have been some humiliation involved. The guy she picked up was not being kind to the husband. Is there anything wrong with being a slut? I'm not even quite sure what it means. A woman who has sex with whomever she wants? One of my play friends loves to be called a slut. She gets very turned on...
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I first ran into this during a trip to Hedo. I was dancing with a lady, and we got friendly. She told me that they go to Hedo so she can play with Jamaican guys while the husband watches. I asked her whether he ever played with other women, and she said he didn't. Is this typical? Doesn't seem like much fun to me! It seems that he'd want to get his fun too.