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naughty A

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About naughty A

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    Lifestyle Mentor
  • Birthday April 11

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  • Relationship Status
    couple - female half
  • Location
    windsor ontario
  • Interests
    Sex... lol, club scene, working out, we have dogs & not kids, we have been in the lifestyle about 7 yrs and were highschool sweethearts and still are :-)
  • Occupation
    sex goddess

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  1. I probably should keep my mouth shut but... I haven't learned yet. I have read a lot of porn/erotica... and just viewed stories that featured two males interacting as part of the story... erotic, exciting what ever... mildly interesting. I knew my hubby had no interest... W h a t s o e v e r ... and I would never have requested that he indulge my curiosity. then I happened to be at a bdsm club one night and there was a gay couple there. and they were interacting and frankly... I hope I concealed my emotions because as judgmental and hypocritical as this sounds... it was far from appealing (to me at any rate). it is not an experience I want to witness again. we left early and on subsequent nights are always careful to take seats where the option of NOT observing is possible but not obvious. was it because of the activities that they were indulging in? was it because it was my first experience at a bdsm club? I don't know...either of those are possible ... but any possibility that I might have ever found it interesting has been completely obliterated from my mind. I feel like everything out of my keyboard is a wet blanket these days
  2. I don't have a problem with it. We are well aware that people move at different speeds and it is better for everyone if EVERYONE is comfortable. If they want to keep it at as soft swing activities that's okay too... or if they aren't sure yet how far they want to take it. If I think one partner is trying to push activities on to the other that they aren't comfortable with ... I will usually pull the reluctant one aside and say... you know... I'm getting mixed messages here, what is it that you DO feel comfortable with? I would sooner swing with a nervous novice couple than an experienced one that thinks they know everything and doesn't hear what you are saying. But swinging with another couple where everyone is on the same page mentally regardless of experience is the most important thing. Communication. right?
  3. Two Halloween swinger parties for us. I'm going to wear my chainmail bikini again this year for one (but these people haven't seen it before... and there just isn't a whole lot of opportunities to wear it that often)... and will be going as a woman warrior. Hubby is going a warrior as well but he will be wearing more clothes. LOL. For our other party... I haven't decided. Maybe a witch in black lingerie and the hat... with hubby going as a devil. I wanted to do caveman/woman costumes... but don't think I'll have the time to get to the fabric store and sew them this year.
  4. sorry to drag this out... with all the questions... but I wanted to be sure that I understood. Is she still having medical problems? pain with intercourse or limited sexual positions or ? Is it penetration she has a problem with... perhaps other forms of sex might be better received? - I know there are certain positions that - I just find painful or too uncomfortable for long how did the other couple react to your wife's behaviour? -- I'd be a little perplexed if it was us. and since I think I'm a considerate person... I would probably switch my attention from wherever to YOU... I don't like people to feel left out or neglected. did you talk to your wife about feeling left out?... I'm sure you did... but if you could try approaching it as a shared experience for both or us... did you talk to the other couple about feeling left out? sounds like maybe the other guy did notice this was happening. Don't know... wish I had something more to offer... I'll give it some thought... or maybe something else... I hate to say this but if the marriage counselling isn't working... maybe this is the beginning of the end... if you know what I mean...
  5. ...let me see if I understand this...'cause I don't think I do... she wants to have sex with this other couple... (him or her) but not you... uh... something isn't quite right there... and you ... want to have sex with her but not the woman in the other couple? or you're not involved with the swing sessions? I'm sorry but I guess I don't quite get it
  6. oh... and we are still swinging... for uh... 7 or 8 years now? even though it's been pretty quiet of late... I'm beginning to think my membership card might get revoked...
  7. I can't remember what years... ... we tried MFM when we were about 19... and thought about FMF... but couldn't manage to find the other female... tried to make it a 2 couple thing with friends and that cost us a couple good friendships... disastrous actually. retired the idea. maybe 7-8 yrs later... we found a swingers newspaper ads and stuff in a sex shop? WOW what an idea! BUT they also advertised a swingers club that was having an off premise party. (sept) we went... it was kind of fun... a month later we went again(halloween)... it was okay...not great... went Valentine's day horror! SWORE I would NEVER EVER go back. then... read a review for another club... late summer. Went in September... met a GREAT crowd. ... swung with the male half of that couple 2 weeks later (at a house party) and both he and his wife about 2 weeks after that, my first bi-fem! so does that count as almost 10 yrs... or only 1 ?
  8. my hubby wears a style called sport trunks or cycle trunks... getting increasingly hard to find lately... I've just ordered some online... and am waiting to see if they are the right style... I think they are what Brit Pair is describing... about the length of a boxer... without all that flopping around.
  9. been there a few too many times in my teenage years. Cops, park rangers, security guards... but I have just one further comment. Mosquitoes. sorry... sex outside is NOT worth the days of irritation and itching afterwards, or remote possibility of West Nile. - pass. The fantasy is much better than the reality anyway.
  10. What is the best time to arrive at a club? Early, soon after they open the doors? or after there are already a fair number of people there? Early is better because it gives you the opportunity to talk to people in smaller groups. What is the right size for a club? i.e. number of people in attendance or is that also more a personal preference? Smaller - 30 couples. It is less likely that you will meet someone you hit it off with perfectly but you will get to know all of them fairly well.
  11. Yeah... But I really had to search for them, they are awfully hard to get around here... (no pun intended). Seriously, I thought maybe they had stopped making them. The Altoids however were seriously fun, and dammit, my bedside stash is empty. :slam"
  12. Anyone else catch tonight's episode of CSI (Vegas)? Cliffhanger featuring a probable swinger couple picking up other swinger couples and murdering them... Tune in next week for the conclusion... as the chief suspects turned up dead too.
  13. pop rocks... not to give the answer away if yawanna does something different.... but you put them in your mouth while giving the bj... lots of little popping sensations on the penis... This was stolen from an old posting of Ohio Couple's... in response to a spammer... it was a humorous thread... as well as being informative. I always thought someone should start a thread for cheap sex tricks like these...
  14. Do I think swingers should come out of the closet... Not necessarily... if you want to come out about it... fine ... but there should not be any pressure to do so. above all that they shouldn't be forcefully "outed" as happened for some gay people... which was part of the history of the gay community (not that anyone is suggesting this for swingers) but I do think it is gradually becoming more and more acceptable and main stream. threesomes and swinging are receiving a fair bit of media air play... granted the point is for titilating and entertaining television ... but it is still putting the idea out there. ... I don't think the time that it will be openly acceptable is that far off...... it will become just one of those mildly kinky pastimes that interest some people... like handcuffs or foot fetish or water sports ...
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