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I've sucked three cock since my wife and I split up, and I'm planning to suck another one soon because his wife is too busy to join us, But I consider myself bi and the other bloke's wife is okay with it, so why not. It doesn't affect me out in the real world. And it's fun.

My first ever mfm the woman and I did a 69 while her husband fucked her from behind. We almost had to peel her off the ceiling. Just a thought.

Our real first experience was MFM. We sat there talking for about four hours because no one knew what to do. Then he went for a piss and my wife started kissing me and I had my hand up her dress when he came back. I think the bottom line is you all know why you're there but be polite.

Because they're not straight. I get it all the time. Married men with profiles that say they're straight then the next thing is they're telling me they're not.

About 40 years ago I read a book when I was a teenager, and I don't remember the name of the book, but I do remember one line from it. "I'm not homosexual. But I'm not heterosexual either. Let's just say I'm sexual." That's me.

I don't think it matters. It's easier for me to jerk off on a woman's tits, but a couple of weeks ago I was in an mfm and I came in her mouth then the other bloke did too. She had a great time. Look out for each other is my advice.

Frankly I don't see the problem. It's just liquid. We've had 3sums where the other guy's cum splashes on me and I'm okay with that.

If MMF is swinging, mine was a surprise. A couple I knew asked me around for dinner on a Friday night and when I got there they showed me photos of her nude and told me they were swingers. I thought playground equipment. Anyway. turned out they had another couple lined up for that night but it fell through. I was only about 20 and I felt it could have been a lot better if I were more experienced.

My wife and I recently separated - nothing to do with swinging - but when we had threesomes with another man I was always interested in his cock and found it frustrating I wasn't allowed to interact with it. I have now put a profile up on Adultmatchmaker identifying myself as Bi, and the number of people - men and couples - whose profile says they are all straight but have contacted me is astounding. I'm in the process of talking to two couples and a single man who all identify as straight but want to suck cock. Haven't done it yet, but it will happen in the next week or so.

I think you definitely need to meet the other couple in a non-pressured environment first. If there's no connection among the four of you then just move on. It's really difficult to find that chemistry. My wife and I met sverela couples where there could be a connection among two people but not among four. We eventually just settled for MFM. It's a lot easier.

Thanks for your reply sexykittennjean. We have a universal health insurance system in Australia, so your job doesn't exist here.

Forgive me my ignorance, but what does a medical collector do?

Julie, I assume your post was for us, the OP. It's a fair comment, but I just don't see my wife as being that duplicitous. Also, she has been very agreeable to meeting other couples to test the waters. We've had several MFMs since then, which she has enjoyed a lot, since she basically gets to pick the men. On the couples front, not so good. We had high hopes of one couple we chatted with for weeks, and had even set up a meeting until her mother got sick, then they never talked to us again. We think they may have split up, We met another couple who told us online they were not smokers, because we stated explicitly we didn't want to meet smokers. Then when we met them they smoked like chimneys, and the husband was very glum. We got the feeling she was driving the whole thing. Anyway, the journey continues

I think mixtupcpl hit the nail on the head in their last paragraph. Our first time with another couple was a disaster because we made every newbie mistake you can think of (I've written a story about this, it's in Curious About swinging, you may be able to find it) but we had made a pact before we went in that whatever happened once we walked out of the room we would still be a couple and normal life would resume. We were still able to laugh about it on the way home, and we've had some experiences since that have made us glad we stuck with it. Even if one of us has made a mistake and gone over our boundaries we've still been together enough to get over it.

Just like to endorse what everybody else has said. I think you have a great relationship with your daughter and I can see it getting better.