Tom4Fun
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- Birthday 09/25/1969
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Northridges, CA
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Just beginning
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Tom4Fun started following Question for Couples seeking single males for MFM, Open Marriage: How to word it in ads, Advice for single guys and and 4 others
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Why wouldn't "love" have any of the components you clearly indicate here?
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Can sex still be good if only one person orgasms?
Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Ok, I understand your point.- 60 replies
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Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I understand that "swinging isn't about populating the earth." But orgasms are a primordial biological urge that is the cause of us all being here.. So, with respect to that, the urge to orgasm is very strong. My point really was that, setting aside all the other reasons why we can't have an orgasm sometimes (e.g., alcohol, condoms etc.), that orgasm is something that both people should enjoy - mutually...- 60 replies
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Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
No, it is not selfish if that is your choice.. But what is the motivation for not having one? And why would your mate not want you to have one?- 60 replies
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Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
The Point? The point is it should be mutual and not one sided or selfish! If one were to do what I suggested, they would not go too far with the selfish need to please only themselves without regard for their mate. And in consideration that this is an opinion forum, as you suggest, that is my opinion...I do respect your opinion by the way, but am offering a different perspective...- 60 replies
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Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
There is no need to try and prove that you are a man!! Really...Try this. Cum quickly and not have any regard for your partner for several months.. Just be into your pleasure and not your partner's, see how that works.............- 60 replies
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Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
?? Very satisfying -- for who? K, now gather your balls from the closet and be a man!!Cumming is good, and cumming is much better when both do so...Like I said, once in while, its ok not to cum. The whole reason there are people on this earth is because guys like to come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's why your writing a reply on this post. No cum no you!!!- 60 replies
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Nope. Better step up to the plate and give some attention. Otherwise, you will find out that the idea that - "in absence the heart will grow fonder" is a bunch of BS. Good luck.
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Or, if that doesn't work for you - add some humor. "Hello, I'm Bart. I may produce one too many farts.. My belly may wiggle like jello, but I'm just an ordinary fellow. I can still see my penis when I pee, and you will enjoy me with glee. I am not out to impress anyone, I just want to cum and have some fun. I know it's scary, but I'm really not married, I'm just a guy with baby blue eyes and in no disguise. The only thing I can guarantee is having fun, and you will cum. I am an athletic person with an outgoing personality, witty, relaxed, and courteous and somewhat flirtatious. I travel a lot with my job, that's why I jerk my knob in the absence of your slob. To me its not about just getting into bed or being intimate, its because I'm not having sex or being sexually consistent. Swinging is an added perk, I swear - I'm not a jerk. Let's chat and see if were compatible because I'm tired of the inflatable.
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As long as everyone has been tested for STD's.
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Can sex still be good if only one person orgasms?
Tom4Fun replied to northindycpl's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
If it is not mutual than it is not generally good. On occasion it's ok, but in the end, everyone should be satisfied...- 60 replies
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We are a swinger couple seeking a single male...questions
Tom4Fun replied to curiousswingers's topic in Swinging Solo
I can't believe this. This seems so cliche.. On one end, sinlge guys are coplaining that they are not getting any response, and on the other, the couples are complaining that they don't get a response? With all of these singles out there, including myself, I just can't imagine that no one responds in a sincere way. If the guy is married, I doubt that they wouldn't follow through, really... I doubt it's because they are married, that is a false interpretation..Its an easy excuse to label us single guys as having some easy-to-explain fault. For a guy to cheat is easy, why would a guy pay money to be on a site and not follow through - really! Having a free membership doesn't give you the same ability or privalages to meet people. I would suggest keep trying, you will find someone sincere.- 26 replies
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Does anybody know any 100% free swinger sites?
Tom4Fun replied to a topic in Finding People to Swing With
The best question to ask is "which site provide the best prospects for your dollar." If your a female, then SLS should be the best one. Avoid AFF, unless you have money to waste. Otherwise, just go out to local clubs and bars. -
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Blowjobs.... Guys do you orgasm from just oral?
Tom4Fun replied to fun_couple's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Yes, I can. As long as there is no interuption. If the girl isn't afraid of a guy cumming in her mouth, then it is all good.- 77 replies
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