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cocpl2007 last won the day on December 7 2010

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About cocpl2007

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    Here to play
  • Birthday 05/27/1951

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Washington
  • Interests
    Couples play, preferred
  • Swinging Experience
    more than once!

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    cocpl2007
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  1. Great news! It'll only get better.... ;-)
  2. Been there,done that, Candycane3. And have the regrets! In retrospect I should have called a halt to the festivities before we... spent the money, felt... well, we'd already spent the money, the three of them are just fine with everything... nope! If the opportunity ever presents itself again, I'd put the brakes on. The main theme to couples play is always if anybody says "no" then it stops. We are so programmed for this to be the ladies option, but in our experience it takes all four! You asked for the experiences of others... hope this helps CoCpl
  3. Welcome to our world! Oh, that's welcome "back" to our world, MrsV ;-)
  4. Sounds like it is worth the time and effort to find, read, discuss and... enlighten. We're always game for some new insight into this age-old issue of monogamy. And I won't even make any "Family Law" pokes!
  5. Certainly agree. This can't be the first time you've encountered incompatible couples, or individuals. If it was, you have been uncharacteristically fortunate.
  6. Two, actually... from the same, now long-time playmate: "Your wife's pussy is wonderful" (like I didn't already know that!) "You sure don't have to warn me, I l o v e to swallow"
  7. This one is still a "work in progress" in our relationship! About the time I (Mr. Co) think I have it figured out, say some lusty does one of those peek-a-boobie dips to show off the girls, I'll mention to her what happened. Sometimes her "professionalism" kicks-in and she quickly expresses her displeasure. Then, during the same trip/excursion a lady will dip'm for her, and she'll make sure and point out an opportunity for me to see'm too. Now when it comes to "booty" she's the quick one with those. She notices right away, and always points out that I need to change my gaze, to join her's. We do share our initial impressions of people we meet, so we can better judge each other's "compatibility index." Just when I think I have her's figured out, she'll toss in a zinger!
  8. Interesting question MajorQuestion. Mr. Co here. Like SecretAsianMan “I should write a book!” I too came to the single life from a marriage which included lifestyle play. It was something I enjoyed very much. Something I find curious is that I never engaged in any lifestyle play when I was single. Not that I wasn’t interested. Not that I didn’t actually attempt to attend some functions, but it was that the line of single guys trying to “get-in” was just too long. I wasn’t very happy as a single guy, outside of a relationship. Whether or not my lover was interested in the lifestyle wasn’t important at the time. I never hid the fact that I’d been previously involved from any I seriously dated. It wasn’t something I made a big deal about. Some were interested/intrigued some were not. I wasn’t sure myself about the “requirement” that to be serious, to contemplate marriage she must also have a desire to participate in the lifestyle. It seems this took care of itself. Those who were not sexually adventuresome seemed to drift away quite naturally. I never hid who I was, nor what I’d done. But, future play with other couples was not an absolute “requirement” to me. So my suggestion. Take your time. You’ll find out soon enough if the ladies you are dating have similar views as you… if it is a “requirement” that they do, it seems to me that you’ll have a very good clue early on in your play, together.
  9. Two different ways. During Mr. Co’s first marriage, it was the pillow talk which evolved after watching porn together. The “Onion” used to run ads, which seemed to us to indicate there were other “couples” interested in meeting. So we ran a similar “ad” and low and behold we were contacted by the very first couple with whom we played. As it evolved, perhaps some here remember AOL? AOL used to enable the search of member “profiles.” The keyword “couples” was used to alert others searching that there was indeed an interest. Turns out, that system was many fold times better for actually meeting compatible couples that the commercial sites nowadays, AFF and SLS. The second. When we first began dating Mr. Co shared his prior experience with the lifestyle. Mrs. Co was intrigued, and expressed an interest in exploring her bi side, but did not want to play alone, so to speak. Thus far any couples we’ve met have been via the commercial sites… what a minefield!
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