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About robinandmarion

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    Just Getting Started

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Princeton, NJ and Mequon, WI
  • Swinging Experience
    Since 2007

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  • SLS Name
    robinm

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  1. Does anyone know what happened to swappernet.com? For several days, it showed a picture of a dildo and said they were doing maintenance, and now I just get the message that the website is not available. We were "lifetime" members there... guess it meant THEIR lifetime, not ours, lol!
  2. Interesting posts... and we agree completely, which is why we passed. "Ethical Swingers"... guess we're not the sex crazed loonies vanillas think we are! But I will tell you, any husband who refuses intimacy because they can't perform is a loser. As we all know, there are a lot of things you can do that doesn't involve a stiffy. That said, I have no idea what I would do if I couldn't get it up. I don't even want to THINK about that... but I sure would like to think I'd be using my tongue, my fingers, and some toys to make sure my wife was pleasured.
  3. Frankly, Gordo, my wife would never be in the position our friend is in, so your hypothetical doesn't work. I'd like to think that if I had prostate surgery and things "didn't work", I'd be the first one to help her find a "stud"! Without a doubt, I'd be doing my damnedest to rock her world with my lips, fingers, dildos, etc. But, on the other hand, I have no idea what my psyche would be like if my equipment stopped working for any reason. So given a few new pieces of info, would your answers change? 1) The woman is clearly being neglected. 2) Turns out she has a "BF". 3) They are pretty much only staying together until their daughter's wedding. 4) They weren't doing all that great before his "problem" surfaced. We are not going to pursue, but the main reason is because she's my wife's friend's sister, and, like any relationship, if things go south, we don't want it to be awkward. Not sure we would have gone forward anyway, but that road's closed so no need to conject.
  4. Wow. Don't beat around the bush, y'all! Tell me how you REALLY feel, lol! Damn... I hate it when my gut is right!
  5. Well, the first time, my wife, ever the curious one, said point-blank: "So, how does this work?" The wife of the other couple, much more experience. suggested that they put on a lingerie show. The second time, we were with the same couple and a couple who were friends of theirs, and the wife simply slipped away and put on some lingerie, which got things going quite nicely (actually, we all got naked and got into their hot tub, which, to this day, we think is the best ice breaker we know of!) More recently, we were with a newbie couple, and after lots of flirting, my wife simply changed, and then the other woman changed, and the rest was history. Unfortunately, the guy ended up not being able to handle his wife with me, and we've never seen them again. They deleted their profile, and haven't responded to the two texts we sent them. But, that's another story for another day. It was a pity, because we really liked them as friends, and would have been happy to just hang out with them. C'est la vie.
  6. My wife and I were drinking tequila shots with her friend, who lives out of town, and her friend's sister. Turns out her friend's sister, whom we both know pretty well, has a husband that had prostate surgery and can't perform any more. Now, my wife gets friendly when she drinks, and she started suggesting to the sister's friend that I might be able to "help". When we talked about it the next day (AFTER the alcohol wore off), my wife was still game, and told me that she didn't really care if I just went with her friend's sister, or if we all had a threesome. Personally, I want the threesome, but I'd be happy to do charity work alone, LOL! In my view, swinging is about additions, not substitution (I've never been thrilled with the term swapping, because I prefer that everyone be in the same room, and I love joining in when my wife is with a lover). In any event, I texted with the friend's sister, whom I also know socially, and she remembered what we discussed, and seems to be all for it. So, the question is, should we go through with it? We'd hate to break up a good friendship, and the friend's sister does not want her hubby to know (which I'm concerned about, since we certainly wouldn't want to have him go ballistic and tell all of our friends and family that we had sex with his wife)! As much as I'd love to provide this woman with what sounds like a much needed roll in the hay, my gut tells me that we are better off with couples we know are on board. What do you all think?
  7. We agree with Angelkin that it is best not to give out phone numbers until a meeting is imminent (Angelkin, eminent is a slightly different word meaning conspicuous, projecting, or prominent, as in "his eminent penis got me wet"; sorry, my mom was an English teacher!!!). While the suggestion of having a "swinger's phone" is a good one, there are some inexpensive alternatives. One is to get a number from Skype and buy some credits. I think it costs $3/quarter for the number, and a few cents per minute. The downside is no texting. The other option is an app that can be used on the iphone, ipad, and PC (not sure about the Mac) called "Pinger". It is primarily for texting, but you get a free phone number and can get some free minutes to use for phone calls. The downside is that you can't do picture texting. Once we've met and hit it off with a couple, we have no problem exchanging phone numbers. This may be getting off topic, but I find that some couples want to text with the opposite sex, while others only want the guys to text. Our preference is that the guys text until we meet, and if we develop a friendship, then I could care less if my wife is texting or sexting!
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