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MattMann

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  1. I usually stand and raise one hand ceremoniously and proclaim: "let the fucking commence!"
  2. My wife had sex with a virgin, but I didn't charge her anything for it.
  3. This really isn't the kind of thing you should try to talk her into, especially if she has had traumatic past encounters with unwelcome sexual contact. For her to really enjoy swinging, even if it is with your full blessing, she needs to have the desire to do it herself, otherwise it will not be fulfilling and may even become a trauma that she feels you pushed her into and that would be bad for both of you. You got a good wife the second time around, you should be happy about that and quit while you are ahead.
  4. This question and the size question speak to a pronounced need we males seem to have to do all that we can to please a female sex partner. Is that because we care so much about women's pleasure above our own? (I mean women never question whether they are equipped to please a man sexually or seek out long, complicated instructions on the varied and complex maneuvers required to bring their male partners to a satisfactory sexual experience - usually it is pretty easy to do) Or do we really want to make ourselves feel good about our ability to attract and sexually satisfy women (preferably a wide range of women over a lifetime) because we focus in so much on the way women perceive us to measure up our own perceptions of where we fit on the scale of being a "real man"? It really seems that winning the favors of women is the ultimate goal of every male achievement and quest. As they said in Scarface: "First, you get the money, then you get the power, THEN you get the women!" Is that a sad commentary on our inability to escape our biological programming or a statement of the immense power women wield in a free society with their sexuality?
  5. 19 years, but the last 5 or so have been iffy, so divorce could be just around the corner...
  6. I get the feeling that you are saying women feel that facials and anal are something they have to endure rather than enjoy. Is this true of most women? Ooops, sounds like another poll..... My wife loves both those things, I don't really care either way and only do them because she asks. But maybe I am the strange one.
  7. I really don't think most straight men would ever feel comfortable kissing or caressing another man and most do not find the average male body all that appealing (maybe it has to do with biologically seeing other men as competition and not mating material, maybe women's inborn nurturing allows them to see the same beauty in other women that men do and having less of a built in need to compete with them, also allows them to be loving, submissive, whatever) compared to how women view other women even if they are straight. I find it interesting when women say they think it would be hot to see two men together though and wonder if that is really true. I don't see how they would, but if they say so... I think the erotic visions they have come from an idealized vision of two hairless, beautiful men with sculpted bodies and with full heads of hair and that usually won't be found anywhere outside L.A. or gay porn. That said, every man who has seen a woman give a blowjob has wondered what it would be like to do it; and those who say they haven't are liars. They would all suck their own if only they could - so a different one isn't that far a stretch to consider doing, especially if they think it would turn the women on. Sorry about the blanket generalizations, just gives the sentences more oomph to not equivocate every three words.
  8. I agree that soda is not entirely an accurate name; and that just calling it "coke" (or "co-coler" by those who use that expression) is merely the name of one brand of cola product and therefore confusing if you desire a different or will accept any brand; and that pop (usually pronounced "pap" by those who use that expression) is just a silly thing to call something (soda pop is also just a little too juvenile). So how about we just all agree to call them soft drinks like the restaurant menus all do?
  9. Coke was invented in Atlanta, Georgia and Pepsi was invented in New Bern, North Carolina both in the South. Also, RC Cola, Mountain Dew and Dr. Pepper have southern origins. So you can damn well call them what we tell you to! :slam" Soda is acceptable but Pop is just TOO yankeefied (especially when pronounced with a nasal accent).
  10. Wow, that was a great story. I am always surprised to read about women who are insecure about their lovemaking or think another woman is better than them. I thought that was strictly a male problem and women had far less to worry about as far as differences in "equipment" and performance, etc. I could never rate woman better than another as far as the sex act is concerned, they were all great. Some may have better personalities and demeanors but you don't have to have sex with them to find that out. Usually.
  11. I prefer to measure from the back of the buttocks to the tip of the penis, or preferably from the nearest wall behind the buttocks to the tip of the penis. Much more impressive results that way. On paper at least.
  12. Of course, those are all valid points, and again, I may very well be completely wrong. But even if you are "in love" with one person, it is still possible, I believe, to be "in love" with more than one person at the same time. Surely people are "in love" more than just once in their lifetime, so it is not an isolated incident or a feeling that can only be felt with one person and the emotion is then turned off with a switch to not allow it to happen until you are out of love with that person, yes? No? What about widows who lose a loved one but find another to love while still not losing the love they have for their departed? I also completely agree this only works if ALL involved have full knowledge and consent (the other spouse would have to be pretty secure too). Maybe polyamory IS what I am talking about, but semantics aside, I don't think falling in love accidentally should be seen as such treachery and with such terror as to suggest people should turn off their feelings and head for the door should such start to occur. EBF, feel free to use it, but I really think it fits me better than you so I won't worry about you stretching it out when you return it.
  13. If these things are handled without lying or sneaking around, they need not be devastating. We all know sex is just sex and the hurt caused by cheating is caused by the feelings of betrayal and mistrust the cheated on partner feels. If you meet a great person who has similar interests, personality or whatever combination of similarities or opposite qualities that makes for a rewarding relationship and deep friendship, should you put that person out of your life just because you already have a spouse who you also have a great relationship with? Do you limit yourself to only one friend and end any potential future friendships because you already HAVE a friend? Do you only love one person in your family? Can love only be allotted to one person at a time in you life? The addition of a sexual attraction to this emotional attraction to a person of the opposite sex can be a scary proposition and jealousy and hurt will happen but infatuation also wears off and that person you couldn't stop thinking about or writing to could fade to boredom or grow into a lifelong friend who will always be there for you when you need them (just like marriage goes from the early bliss to a more steady contentment-or boredom depending on your situation). Just keep it all in the open, your feelings, your meetings and don't hide it or sneak around, that is where the hurt, anger, suspicion and resentment come from (as long as the spouse knows your love for them is foremost and not displaced or given over to someone else, just shared). That's just what I think today, of course. I could just be a pontificating jackass who doesn't know beans about anything so don't take my word for it.
  14. From an article on women.com: "2. The study most trusted by urologists shows that the average erect penis size is 5.1 inches long and 4.8 inches in girth. Unless you're in a chat room. Then double it."
  15. Yeah, size doesn't matter..... That's why it takes seven pages to answer a yes or no question.
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