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About kycpl4bifem

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    Cpl
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    Central Kentucky
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  1. We need to move to in next door to you. In our area (we go to clubs in Ohio) the single men often outnumber the cpls and the only single women we see are a cpl of over 40 over 250lbs ladies who sit back and take their pick of desperate cpls. The single men here will drive you crazy. Following you around the club, ask to join over and over, knocking on private room doors, Sitting 10 feet away staring at you without blinking and jacking off. Any time you would like to bring a bus down our way take all of them home you want. We have plenty to spare. Only one of the clubs we have been to has the single men on short leashes so they will behave themselves.
  2. Our first cpl told us they wanted to be friends not just sex buddies. We met went out a couple of times and thought they were for real. My wife was a virgin when we got together and this was only the second man she had ever been with. She had been with other women. After that night they called us and we went back to visit them on New Years Eve a few weeks later. We played and toasted our new friendship. Since then when they do return our e-mails it has been to tell us they are too busy to meet. That was New Years 2001 by the way. Have not seen them since. Just an odd one line e-mail every now and then. My wife continued to swing only because single bi women are nearly impossible to find. For a while she only approved of meeting cpls with watcher only men or impotent oral only men. She has since loosened up again but has only added one more man to the list of people that have penetrated her. We are starting to see a newbie cpl now who seem very nice. So far it has been FF guys watch but she has expressed a desire to full swap with them. (If he can:: he suffers from a bad case of anxiety) If this goes badly guess it will be soft swap only, impotent cpls, and the neverending search for single bi fems. Wish us luck.
  3. They are walking bullseyes. Every once in a great while a single fem will come into the club we go to and is swarmed by every single guy, bi fem, and cpl in the place. On the internet swinger sites they get flooded with mail faster than anyone could be expected to read it. If we are ever going to get enough of them into the lifestyle to end this mad dash everytime one peeks in we are going to have to back off alittle and give them some room to breath. No one could expect to become comfortable in a new situation when they are put in the middle of a clasic fumble pile up on the 10 yard line. This is an adult lifestyle act like adults and give new people single or cpls some space and time to adjust. It's no wonder so many people report being scared to death on their first club visit when the regulars go into a feeding frenzy everytime new meat comes through the door. My 2 cents. What does everyone else think?
  4. He was a Boy Scout leader "Always be prepaired"
  5. We once did a 4sum in a twin bed Though I wouldn't recommend it. We now keep a queen air bed rolled up in the trunk of the car just in case an extra bed is needed wherever we are.
  6. Be VERY careful one of my single exfriends tried to play socialy bi jut to stay close to my hubby and get to play with him. I didn't find out until she told him str8 out she wanted him but without me. He told her he would talk to me but was sure it would be ok once since we had been together for a while. She explained to my sometimes "slow" husband she ment marriage not sex. This happened while I was in the bathroom. He told me as soon as I came back in and we have not spoken to her since.()()
  7. If it ever happens you do meet a cpl you want to full swap with (and I know it will never happen) I would like to suggest that if the thought of her sleeping with another man doesn't bother you but the sight of it does, why not just do seperate room. We know several cpls who don't like to watch and only do seperate room. (We are fine either way):evil:
  8. Ever consider coming to Kentucky? We have lots of couples here that fit your descriptions and they swap often. If you doubt it check out swappernet's ads for our area. It may seriously be a local thing in your area. Here it is very common to see tall thin model material women with large big boned country boys. Been there myself but I did loose the weight. Not for looks though. It started to cause me to be short of breath and prevented me from following outdoor interests I enjoyed. I have seen no change in the number of women that want to join us as a result of the weight loss.
  9. We all have our own insecurities about ourselves. Are we pretty enough, are we young enough, are we experianced enough, and they seem to go on forever. The real key to sucessful swinging is learning to be comfortable in your own skin. The people we have met through swinging have been some of the most accepting tolerent people we know. Don't ever think that there will be no one to share experiances with. Everyone is looking for something different and I am sure you will be someones ideal date. Just try to relax and be yourself. The surest way not to find anyone to swing with is to hide in the corner and never speak to anyone for fear of rejection. You will be rejected everyone is from time to time but if you keep looking you will find others who appreciate you and are thankful for the opertunity to share an intimate moment with you. Good luck and Happy swinging.
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