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    Single Male
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    San Jose, Ca.
  1. Why does it always have to be somebody else's woman you're so intent on "pleasing?" That's an easy one to answer. Being a man that enjoys pleasing all women, there are bound to be others' women.
  2. If I'm a hamburger than I just want to be well done. Ha ha. Thank you for your clear and thoughtful suggestions. I understand completely. I'll tell you a little secret. I don't want to be a single guy. I'm usually in relationship. It's only now that I'm single. I'd love to meet someone to share in the lifestyle. A single female or an open couple. I get it that couples are looking for couples mostly. I don't take it personally. I think you're right. The meet and greets seem the best way to become more involved. Wish me luck.
  3. Thanks Maria, I'm far from pushy or aggressive. In fact usually the opposite in the beginning phase of meeting others. It's only when I'm clear about the appetite of others that I proceed. Not sure what you meant by "vanilla mindset". I never take the "buckshot" approach. I have too much class and respect for that. When I said some men can become excited and a little aggressive, I meant as to send out emails to several women stating his attraction and desire to play. Nothing more. It's the prejudgment that is disappointing. The women I've known through the years, more importantly that have known me, love and appreciate me as I do them and say I'm one in a million. It's like having a stunning resume', introducing yourself at the interview and the interviewer says, "Your fired!" It's that ice break that can be a heartbreak. I can handle rejection that's based on a difference of interests or values but rejection based on prejudice is frustrating. "Single male? Thank you. Next!" Re: Introductions and letting others know a bit more about me... I'm not sure how to access. I can't find where to post a personal profile. Thanks again.
  4. I think that some men find their way to the lifestyle (myself certainly) because they're guided by a sincere, natural desire and appreciate and adore the company of women and would like to meet socialize with like minded others. A single man first finding access to many beautiful women who may be as intoxicated by the headiness of pleasure and seduction as he is, can get a bit excited and perhaps even a little aggressive. Sort of like a kid in a candy store. That doesn't mean that he's is only a horny, one track minded surface swimmer. He may want to send a message to several women that he truly finds sexy and lovely. Being attracted to different women of different types doesn't mean he's full of it or that his attraction isn't genuine. Single men that are new to the lifestyle can't help but feel a little awkward at first by including the man of the couple in his desire to romance the woman. In the world of monogamy that is the last thing you're supposed to do. It's a different game than we're used to with different rules. After reading the different posts, I get the feeling that there are some angry women out there. I guess it's understandable considering some of the men they encounter but it wouldn't hurt to be a little nicer. As a single man trying to get involved in the lifestyle, rejection is pretty much a given. I'm like a one eyed cat peeping in a seafood store. I don't mean to speak for all single men but there are those of us who believe in ladies and gentlemen and would find great pleasure in getting to know the woman, the man, the couple. Perhaps couples could take this into consideration. Just because a kid goes wild in a candy store, doesn't mean the kid doesn't really appreciate candy.
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