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carlos_pchot

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About carlos_pchot

  • Rank
    100 Posts Club
  • Birthday 03/08/1976

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Experienced Single Male
  • Location
    Colombia
  • Swinging Experience
    5 years
  1. Hello there, thanks for sharing and glad to hear you had such a great night, keep it up!
  2. Hello there and glad that you're enjoying it so much!!! keep it up and suit yourself, one of the great things about it is to think new things to do on the next encounters, games and more fun! Take care
  3. Hi there, couldn't say I did it, but wanted to!! jeje with one of my ex, I wanted her to have sex with a friend we had a soft encounter and stayed being friends, even wanted to set a "trap" for him.. jeje but couldn't do it, so I understand what you say. It's not inusual, some couples don't like it, since they like to go out always as a couple, but if you're ok with it and you enjoy it, well, go ahead. Would be nice if you carry on with a secretary or someone from your work too, don't you think? take care
  4. Hello there, I think your issue it's not exactly swinging related, but still it's a good way to talk about it and receive some advice. Long distance relationships are always difficult to handle, and you have seen why, it's something you have to talk about given the chance to be together both of you in the future. If you won't find any way to be together soon, it's probably best to set the relationship in stand by and be on your own for both of you. It would be quite selfish to keep her in a long distance relationship like that and if you love her like you say, probably would be for the best. Stay in touch, don't close yourself to the chance of being with her in the future, but it's better to be on your own, with any other people around. If you're meant to be with her, you'll get together again. Take care.
  5. Hello there, I think you're ok, no mistake, if it's a big turn off for both of you tell them!! it's the best way to handle it, giving them slack, it's no good, there are a thin line between being funny and being stupid, so it's easy to get there and don't realize it, they're still your friends and should have enough confidence to tell them that you don't like that kind of treatment to you. Maybe they can do it with other people and find it amusing, but they must respect your feelings and that's it. Take care
  6. Hi there, I don't see any problem masturbating on that situation, maybe not everyone would do it, but nothing wrong with it.
  7. Hello there, and glad to you see you decided to stop lurking I think your thoughts are pretty much normal to everyone that ever wanted to share the idea of swinging with their couple, so suggestions: Try to give her a pretty good idea of the lifestyle without trying to say that you're going to jump right into it, read the forums, the threads with her, like: Look, I found this site, it's looks cool and would like you to read it with me, but don't pressure it, and see where it takes you, remember always, that you only can do with her and she really wants, I think you have enough time to being open with each other, but that doesn't mean that she's really opened into her fantasies and dreams, especially if she's conservative as you say she is. Keep it up and take it easy! it's not something you want to rush into it. Take care Carlos
  8. Hi there, you're not alone, there are tons of people that doesn't get turned on by it, mostly soft swingers and that's great also to enjoy, so don't feel so lonely about i hehehe Take care Carlos
  9. I think it's just as easy to understand that we all have fantasies, some are more difficult than others, but having your wife involved in your fantasy and just watch her it's incredible exciting... it's like getting inside your own adult movie... I think that does it for most guys, even for those that won't accept it, imagining your wife as this sexual woman desired by one or many guys and getting off with them will get you hard and ready for the next fantasy take care
  10. hi CrazyKatie, would love to see you more often than this, your situation it's more usual than you think, with my first sw couple, I did all the contact work, the chatting, the phone calls, when I had filtered them, I talked to her about it and made them contact her so that way she could say if we could go out or not. Don't feel bad because your hb is like that, you just can't expect to be like you, much like your sex drive is, the good thing is that you have a good time at swinging and he's into it and like usual, improves your sex life as a couple. Keep it up like that and just tell him about the prospects when you have seen they're serious and really offer a good chance for you both. I'm sure it will work out great. Keep in touch,
  11. Hi there knotty, it's quite true what everyone else have had, so I'll just add, that there is no way to avoid the "stickys" as LikeMinds put it, there's always a chance to find new ones, but don't let them ruin your lifestyle for it, my advice would be to let it as a "great one time experience" with them and move on to a different kind of people, maybe they tell you now that they don't want to be pushy, but if they already started, probably they're just faking it to keep you there with them. I had a couple friend that sometimes would get mad just because I wouldn't answer on the msn for a few min, like it would be my duty to do it, (sometimes I just was doing something else on the house or was just a phone call) so, that's the kind of people that you don't want to get around. Best luck, would love to see you more on the board Carlos
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