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ebarz

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  1. Thanks to all who took the time to reply, Intuition you are correct, that is only one side of the story. I would have to admit that I am probably over driven, sexually. I need it often... How much is normal?? I'm sure that varys greatly , I know it does between the two of us. My problem is if I quietly wait for her to come around it will literaly happens once or twice a month! I need it once or five times a week! And it seems that if I take matters into my own (hands) it only adds to my fustration. Is that normal?? When I try to come on to my wife, and get turned down once, twice, three times.... I just feel like --- fine keeeeep it.. I'm not good at begging, to any one.. I tend to get kinda grumppy and down right hard to live with. Its either that way, or she gives it-machanically just to keep the peace but no feeling and that isn't hardly worth it either. I will try some of the suggestions. I'm tempted to tell her about this web page and let her read it but I don't know if that would be hurtful? I love this woman, and I do find her attrative and desirable. Any suggestion on how to curb my sexual appitite?? Short of casteration!!! Thanks, I wish everywhere was as laid back and cool as this forum.
  2. I appricate all comments, this is so cool to be able to talk to total strangers about something so personal. I agree on many suggestions as a matter of fact I feel I have been doing most of those things since day one. I do feel that our communcation has suffered, mainly because I feel we have had this sex conversation many times but with little change, or little effort to change so why keep beating a dead horse. I have made many sacrifices to try to make her life easier, when our childern were born I took on more or less a third job so that she could be a stay at home mom. I probably give her five massages to every one she gives me, I help her in any way I can, with little return of appriciation sexual or otherwise. We never fight about anything, not spending, not child care, work responsibiltys, families, only this issue. I know that I am starting to feel a sence of resentment toward her. This issue is not new, I recall feeling shorted even on our honeymoon, before the kids and all the stresses that we put on ourselves. She does get horney, about once a month for about two hours! then back to the same familuer dry spell, witch is very hard for me to adjust to. I don't know what I'm asking for, maybe just letting off steam. sorry, and again thank you.
  3. thank you, this is a very interesting site. And don't forget to tell your husbands just how fortunate they are!! lucky bastards !!
  4. well I guess I just wondering if her lack of interest couldn't be long term denial??
  5. First I would like to say my wife and I have been married for nearly 18 years, have 5 wonderful kids and a successful business. In all that time she has never been all that big on sex. She has put on negligee twice for me in 18 years. She is very beautiful, somewhat self-conscious. She knows how important sex and the release it provides to me is, so she does try to meet my needs but more like it is her responsibility than her desire, her chores. I seriously only want her to be fulfilled. I can only think of one time, when I think she may have had orgasm - orally. We have only been sexual with each other, so its kinda the blind leading the blind. Although we have discussed this many times, she insists she's not gay. One time many years ago she did say "I don't know maybe I'm gay or something" She is very "old school" and conservative when it comes to sex. I bought her a vibrator once, hoping that she would use it, even in private by herself to learn about herself, never did. In my younger days I would cope by just not going to bed until I was exhausted, so I could sleep. Although that may be why our business is now successful I guess I'm just wondering if any other women or men have ever been in this situation, if so what would you suggest?? I love her I just wish she could...
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