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How long can a man last before ejaculating?

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It varies and depends on the situation. After the first time I can go...well usually until the woman wears out. But then, there's not that much need very often. Most of the time I try to last until she is content.

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When it's just us, we usually don't go a real long time. Mrs cplnuswing would rather it be more intense but over sooner than stopping and starting just to try to stretch it out longer, so our lovemaking style has kind of evolved around the preference, and you body kind of just gets trained. I've honestly never really clocked it, maybe 5-8 minutes of actual intercourse? That's not to say there aren't ever stolen moment quickies, or longer slower paced sessions, but for an average, that's probably a pretty good guess.

 

With playmates, especially new ones, I often don't come at all, so I guess the answer is infinity :) What is going on there is kind of the opposite of what I just mentioned above. Since you haven't had years together developing that pattern that puts you both in your happy place, then I always want to error on the side of caution. I want to make her happy and satisfy her, so instead of guessing, I keep it simple...I go until she says stop :)

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Sometimes the excitement of a new lover has me explode early. Hate when that happens; tough to control!

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Of course, this varies with a number of factors- tiredness level, how long it's been since my last orgasm, what kind of (and how much) foreplay we've done before intercourse, how excited I am with the woman, phase of the moon...

 

Once we're on to actual intercourse, I'd say I generally last around 15 to 25 minutes maybe? According to what I've been told, that is longer than many guys. It's both a blessing and a curse, because though my women friends seem to be enjoying themselves, sometimes my sexual endurance goes longer than my physical endurance!

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Sometimes the excitement of a new lover has me explode early. Hate when that happens; tough to control!
Ten years ago, I suffered something similar. Now I'm happy when it happens at all. I no longer, in fact, consider ejaculation a necessary for having fun.
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I started watching the clock during sex. I had read that 5-7 minutes was normal and I felt like we were going at it for at least 45 minutes. Turns out it's only 11-15 minutes.

 

In a group, almost never. We were having drinks this weekend with a guy who had been a previous lover. our first meeting a couple years ago he was fully straight. Now he was wanting to explore some bisexual stuff. Sucking dick and eating a cream pie were the only things on his list. We banged him on the back lawn but as usual, I didn't come. Lotta pressure now lol. Anyway, I think I just wanted to brag that I played this weekend.

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.....getting it up in my adult video chat fantasy webcam sessions seems to be Ok with my new size A tits now for about the first 2 or 3 viewers who exit the room after cumming but then it gets slightly more difficult. I begin to think all sorts of things really and am glad when more and more people exit after cumming but my stamina if that is what you call it really does depend on the viewer figures and the exit ratios. You have to cum quite fast though before there is only one or two viewers left however. That is important. My slowly increasing breast size helps. So does my cock size.

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I spent the weekend pulling weeds and planting flowers and also didn't come :) it might have been the frustration that the new mower wasn't working well and I found out only after finishing that the height adjustment settings didn't match.

 

On the general question of how long a man can last: well technically forever with enough stopping and rest :) but this is such a variable for 99% of men, we can all remember both marathon and quick shooter sessions. Nobody seems to have a perfect formula for making it last a certain set time. As an experiment in my younger days I once tried putting that gel used to numb teeth on the inside of a condom. It seemed to work but who knows, it could have been one of those times I would have gone longer anyway...

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