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Female Ejaculation, and Clitoral vs. Vaginal Orgasms: a Feminist View?

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Just wondering about other folks' opinions of these women's opinions. Personally? I'm thinking don't knock it until you've actually tried it, lady. I'm absolutely a feminist, but I have NO problem admitting that I prefer vaginal orgasms over clitoral orgasms. Methinks they put a little too much emphasis on how men would perceive their "being right" about vaginal orgasms, and wind up steering women away from something that could bring them immense pleasure. For what? To avoid some imaginary misogynist saying, "I told you so."? And for that matter, what the hell do I care what a power-tripping asshole thinks anyway? Pretty sure Mr. intuition doesn't care a fig for being right or wrong; he just wants to do whatever it takes to give me as much pleasure as possible.

 

Thoughts anyone?

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I am manifestly not a woman. But I have observed many women during the sex act. This includes women who squirt. Yes, the so-called ejaculate is dilute urine. It looks, smells (after being in the sheets for a while), and tastes like pee. The squirt seems to correspond in time with climax but very often, in my non-scientific observations, before.

 

As for the clitoris being the primary sex organ, women who can come to climax simply by nipple play are unconsciously moving hips and consequently stimulating a clitoris while their nipples are being played with (Grammar Girl will forgive me for ending a sentence with a preposition).

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Vaginal contractions with intercourse or foreplay cause my wife to "fart" or force air from the vagina. Usually happens when I am eating or fingering her and she is getting ready to orgasm. She does not get wetter. It is also not her orgasm.

 

My first wife would get noticeably wetter with her orgasm and it was very noticeable. My ex could break a rubber if she chose. I have found a only one women that actually who did "squirt", actually what happened is they got much wetter and that was from the inside. It was not urine. ( urine on the skin will feel warm, this fluid was not warm) And it is not a common thing - it was like 1 woman out of about 50.

 

I had one woman that did lose bladder control when she orgasmed and that was a different feeling altogether. She warned about it first.

 

Yes, The G-spot does exist, yes, you can train it to have full body orgasms like those found at rebootyoursexlive.com. My wife can attest to this and I can make her come standing up in under a minute. It's fun. :D

 

What most people don't know about sex is that they don't know. No one I am aware of has had any training on sex. The closest most come to it is the Kama Sutra, some other oriental art, or porn. Most parents are afraid of this subject as it would seem they are giving approval, but explaining how to give head, use anal sex as a sub for vaginal intercourse. How to control herself and recognize the symptoms of hormones that have kicked into high. How to put on a rubber. How to turn a guy on and many other subjects are avoided with a simple - Don't do that!!

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I just didn't care for their bashing of anything to do with the vagina. One thing they're right about: the g-spot IS just the back 9 of the clitoris. That little man in the canoe? Just the tip of the iceberg.

 

G-spot stimulation is something of an acquired taste; although it's immediately pleasurable, it can be too intense for some, and it helps if you train your body to it. Mr. intuition was absolutely enthralled with it. I had to explain to him that sometimes I just wanted to light up a sparkler, but I'm not always up for putting on a whole bloody fireworks show. It takes a LOT of energy, and has even left me feeling very emotional and weepy. I came so hard once, I burst a blood vessel in my eyeball for God's sake. It's pleasure, but the intensity of it is almost...painful.

 

As for ejaculation, yes, I do tend to squirt if the stimulation is extreme. Maybe it's prostatic fluid, maybe it's just coital incontinence...I don't know. It feels pretty good, Mr. intuition likes it, so I don't question it much. I probably would avoid extreme stimulation with a swing partner, though. Or at least give them a heads up.

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I'm just going to say what my ex would say when we would talk. Her opinion on the subject of clitoral or vaginal orgasms.

 

She would always stimulate her clit during sex if it was accessible. She preferred to. She said her clitoral orgasms were far more intense, but shorter in duration. She preferred vaginal orgasms as well like you op. But the only way she would very randomly have them is during missionary position love making where we were also making out heavily and with nice slower long strokes inside her. Its also how she was always most lubricated naturally. My god would she get wet.

 

Even though she preferred vaginal orgasms she preferred doggy style for having sex. She liked the submissiveness of doggy style as she also knew it is my favorite. It was our go to position like many other prefer too. I've been with my share of females and I have never seen a woman have a vaginal orgasm from doggy style penetration. You all go right for clit plat and its always a clitoral orgasm. Us men have really no idea what makes a woman have or not have a vaginal orgasm.

 

My ex said it takes longer for it to happen too. Needs more hot build up. Its a timing thing too. A mood thing. I would have loved to give her more vaginal orgasms but even she said its just how she feels at that moment weather she will or won't have one. But again, it was always only with missionary position only and certainly not every time. Even if she didn't cum vaginally or clitoral of course since I was on top and in the way of her getting to her clit, she enjoyed our love making. If I came that way I would always go down on her and give her a good tongue lashing as long as she would let me. hehehehe! Love that after I cum in her. She did as well. Because it is naughty lol.

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Reading this thread makes me realize that everyone's views on female ejaculation comes from their own personal experience! That makes sense, because that is what they know.

 

My experience of being a man with a multi orgasmic squirting woman goes like this! These are my opinions and not meant to insult people that have different ones.

 

Squirting while ejaculating is positively real for some women! Both Ms Enhancer and a regular play friend in a couple we spend time with are full blown squirters and multi orgasmic. Nothing fake about it with either of them and it happens a lot.

 

It is not pee! I am sorry that some people have experienced being with someone who can't control their bladder, but the liquid that shots out from real squirters is clear, silky, oderless and pretty much flavourless.

 

Not all women have to have the same kind of stimulation to ejaculate! Ms Enhancer can and does ejaculate freely from clit or vaginal stimulation. Oral, intercoarse or touching it doesn't matter it will happen.

 

If you don't have an open mind to what is real and not real you can miss out on some real amazing things.

 

Just for the record everyone we meet with gets warned about the squirting so there are not any surprises or if they think it is pee they can move along. So far everyone we have played with has loved it and did not think it was pee so all is good.

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Some of what the women in that video said has been directly contradicted by a woman from whom we took a class on squirting. The woman had been an OB/GYN nurse in a previous life, before she became the owner of an adult shop in Baltimore called Sugar. The squirting class she taught was in part a physiology lesson. She teaches that female ejaculate is NOT urine, and that there is a mechanism in women that works similar to men, in that when they are sexually aroused, the pathway from bladder to urethra is closed off, thus making it actually quite difficult to urinate.

 

She also taught that, while squirting does not feel the same as a clitoral orgasm, it is pleasurable. The experience of the Mrs. after this class (yes, we went home and did some homework after the class!) bore this out, as she was able to relax and, after years of suppressing this feeling, just let it happen. She told me that it is not as much of a sharp peak as a clitoral orgasm, but rather is more of an even high, an extended wave of pleasure. She likes the feeling very much, thank you!

 

It never occurred to me to try to get my wife to squirt so that I could be lazy and feel like I've accomplished more than I actually have. And I don't by any means ignore the clit when I'm playing with a woman. In fact, I find that stimulating both G-spot and clit (including all the sensitive areas besides the button itself, like the branches down either side of the vaginal opening) makes a woman feel very good, and each kind of stimulation seems to get her more excited and closer to the other type of climax. So I tend to alternate, or work on both areas simultaneously.

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