MakeUSquirt 18 Posted September 22, 2015 Hi and hello from Australia What is taboo for some is common practise for others. So my question is, what is taboo for you? My wife and I are open to most but not all things sexual and enjoy talking openly about sex and what our own desires are. Do you have the same relationship with your partner(s). Quote Share this post Link to post
MrMarvin 268 Posted September 22, 2015 It will vary from couple to couple and there is no right or wrong answer. In the end I firmly believe you simply do what is comfortable for you and your significant other regardless of what others might do. Personally as well I don't get too hung up on what is and what is not taboo. If consenting adults are involved, game on! Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 3,998 Posted September 22, 2015 Just about everyone here has to have a relationship where they can talk about everything with their partner, especially sex. What is taboo for us? Not talking about everything and anything. It's easier to say "I'm sorry" for saying the wrong thing than not to talk about anything (AKA my first marriage). Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,764 Posted September 22, 2015 Hi and hello from Australia What is taboo for some is common practise for others. So my question is, what is taboo for you?. My late wife didn't like anal sex. "There's a perfectly good pussy right next to it that will be much more welcoming." We also agreed to never "make love" with a play partner. That was easy since we didn't love anyone else. We're glad to have you with us. Quote Share this post Link to post
MrDiscover 802 Posted September 22, 2015 I think the first question is 'what is taboo' but not in the sense you meant it. I mean: what is 'taboo' for you? The above examples are boundaries but not necessarily taboo in my humble opinion. There are lots of definitions. A taboo also would mean punishment by a supernatural power and (in my region anyway) something too forbidden to even speak about. Both aspects are not true for anything in our relationship. MsD giving a blowjob is out of the question, so is bare intercourse. And emotional bonding with sex partners. And a few other boundaries. But we speak freely about it. These are not taboos, only rules. Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,764 Posted September 22, 2015 Oh, I see. Mrs. Alura and I never met a supernatural power so didn't concern ourselves with (his or her) opinion. Quote Share this post Link to post
sunbuckus 3,565 Posted September 22, 2015 For us, playing with animals; playing with children; urine and feces play; adult diaper play; and extreme pain/blood play is taboo for us. We aren't at all interested in those types of sexual play. Sexual play such as Dominant/submission isn't taboo but not what we're interested in right now. Anal play is every so often. And once in a while, we will meet a woman who is open to fisting (not my cup of tea). As it was mentioned, both in your OP and others, what is considered taboo differs from person to person, couple to couple. Some couples may consider anything outside of missionary PIV sex to be taboo (anal, oral, etc.). Meanwhile, there are those that don't consider much of anything to be taboo. As for your last question, I am unsure what you mean by it. I hope you return and expand on it a bit. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,018 Posted September 22, 2015 If you allowed us a month or two for assembling a list of we-will-not-do, I am confident that we could come up with a few thousand. In light of the fact that nobody in the ten year span of our swing experience has asked us or even implied something distasteful, I see no point in making a list, even a short one. The list of we-will-do is much shorter. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post