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How do you feel about a quickie?

Do you have quickies?  

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  1. 1. Do you have quickies?

    • No. Save it for later when there's time to enjoy it.
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    • Yes, but only to satisfy my partner, I really don't like it.
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    • Yes, I like what I get but it's not as fulfilling as a when we take our time.
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    • Yes, it doesn't matter how long it takes to get there, it's just as good.
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    • Yes, I prefer the rush of rushed sex over longer sessions.
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On the Board here, people discuss their more elaborate sexual practices and memorable experiences. But earlier today because of the press of other weekend responsibilities, Red and I had a quick one. Afterward in the car feeling somewhat satisfied and somewhat unsatisfied, it got me to thinking: I wonder how the other Swing Boarders feel about the subject. Please vote and comment.

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We find that sometimes a quickie is great. Love them on lunch breaks. Not quite as fulfilling as taking our time though.

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We enjoy a nice quickie from time to time. Sometimes Mrs two4you wants a fast hit in the shower. Funny thing is, my penis, which of course has a mind of its own, understands the shower means "quickie", and doesn't last very long.

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Quickies are what keep the ball rolling.

 

I always say to MrG take care of the vanilla and the chocolate chip takes care of itself.

Love, love, love a quickie for us they are like a moment of connection and intimacy amongst a usually chaotic day.

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I always say to MrG take care of the vanilla and the chocolate chip takes care of itself.

 

Maybe because it's early, but I don't understand...

 

Quickies are what keep the ball rolling.

 

Indeed! The few times a quickie has left feeling more than just partially satisfied was when both Red and hubby were involved. Once I went back to the office for a meeting and one guy asked, "Are you OK?" "You look flushed." (Thank God for panty liners.)

 

Love, love, love a quickie for us they are like a moment of connection and intimacy amongst a usually chaotic day.

I too love the relief a quickie brings, but in a way, to me, it's the ultimate of sex over love. Not that that's bad, just what it is. The fucking is hard and frantic. What is great is that hubby and boyfriend, we know each other so well that the timing is perfect. Hubby or Red will get up to the point of cumming and hold back until I do. It's really amazing what can be done when there's a deadline.

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Sometimes I like a long, slow, sensual session of lovemaking. Sometimes, I like to bend my wife over the kitchen counter and fuck her hard and fast. Sometimes I want Chinese food, sometimes I feel like pizza. Variety is the spice of life. Viva la difference!

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I think it depends on what your mood is as well as what you want. Sometimes it is what Lionheart says but sometimes a quickie just takes the edge off until you can have a longer sex session.

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I love a quickie, especially if it is in the morning and I have other things to do. It really starts the day off right.

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couplers...Take care of the vanilla and the chocolate chip takes care of itself means to us, that the connection is kept between us and because I don't cum during intercourse, it's just like a warm up...it's vanilla...no foreplay, no asking, no toys or games. Like people have said it's taken rather than given...the chocolate chip is the good stuff which I am usually left craving after the 'wham bham thank you mam, text me!' It ignites me to the point where we wanna do crazy stuff. without the quickies in between I can go off the boil and become closed. you said here that it's sex without the love sentiment, funny because for me it's the opposite, a quickie for me is like a hug!

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Keeps the fires going for us when we don't have as much time to connect due to our schedules. We know some weeks will have more play time then others. :)

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A quickie is good with the hubby once in a while. Sometimes its him fucking me and other times he'll just go down on me, and get me off to make me relax for the rest of the evening. Certainly, I prefer a nice long session. Third or fourth time we were at a couples club, a guy comes up and says lets go up and play. Now, he had not talked to us at all during any of our visits. I think this was the first time he had seen me with my boobs out. I responded to him, your wife was just telling you that it's time to leave. He responded, it will only take 10 or 15 minutes. My hubby turned to him and said, you won't want to leave after just 10 or 15 minutes with her, took my hand and we walked away. I was so proud of hubby.

 

We were staying in Florida for while one winter and had made friends with a single guy, flirted with him,a little touchy feely, but hadn't played. I don't think the swinger concept had occurred to him. He was older, retired, probably 65. He had approached me about going out, and understandably so given my flirtation and so forth including showing him my tan lines one night but I responded that I only play with my hubby. But then one night we were there and it was his birthday. A couple of guys came out and had drinks with him but they left early and he was feeling a bit bad. We bought him a couple of drinks,flirted, etc. Hubby told him that I gave great birthday gifts (code for blow jobs)and suggested that I take the birthday boy out and give him a nice birthday present. We all laughed but I did. Hubby cautioned that we had to be back in 15 minutes or we would lose our seats and he would come out and get me. We got in the car and birthday boy started kissing and undressing me. Instead of a blow job, he wanted a fuck. We did. It was possibly my favorite quickie because he was so surprised and appreciative to both me and hubby.

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I love quickies!

 

Obviously, the long drawn-out sessions are fun too, but there is something to be said for quickies!

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couplers... I don't cum during intercourse, it's just like a warm up...it's vanilla...no foreplay, no asking, no toys or games. Like people have said it's taken rather than given...

 

Thank you for the explanation. Often though, in a quickie it is I, Petra, that does the taking and the guy is taken.

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Quickies are nearly mandatory for us, as we work different shifts. Our time together through the week is limited to lunch breaks and middle of the night half asleep encounters. I'd say we enjoy a quickie at least 4-5 times a week and those just fuel the fire for the weekends when we can take our time and languish in a longer session of love-making, role play, or trying out something new and fun.

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While we are on the mature end of the spectrum, I have a business that demands my attention. Having said that, we both desire a more intense intimate session that we cannot achieve with a quickie. That does not mean that our frequency suffers --- oh no --- as we do make time for "Our Time".

 

I want her to have an "O" and that does take time that a quickie would not afford. Love that woman!!:kissface:

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I couldn't pick an answer because the assumption is that you do it to reach an orgasm? It's always a great feeling to be inside my wife and I can't speak for her, she has no interest in reading or replying to this forum, but she seems to be enjoying it.

 

The closest picks were ...

 

"Yes, it doesn't matter how long it takes to get there, it's just as good."

 

"to get there" wasn't a good choice for me.

 

"Yes, I prefer the rush of rushed sex over longer sessions."

 

I just like the rush of having good sex.

 

I/we do it, quickies, for fun. I'll admit that it is more me than her. It's the being hard part that makes it difficult for her to "surprise" me. Grab her before she walks out the door to go to work, in the laundry room at her parents house, in the motel room while your friends are waiting for you to go to the beach...

 

The quickie sex for us hardly ever leads to an orgasm. I like to stop to tease her. A half dozen or so and then stopping. I've been a minute man in the past but the quickies and stopping before I cum has made me last longer in the times when we get serious.

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I went with #3 - Yes, I like what I get but it's not as fulfilling as a when we take our time.

 

I think it's part of getting older, but quickies are less fulfilling than they used to be. 

 

I think when you are young and ever optimistic...and ever horny :), you think this COULD be the wildest best sex ever, won't know until we try, and regardless, I'm glad to be getting it!

 

Then once you get older and a little more world weary and been there done that, you think this is unlikely to be the best sex ever, and regardless, we can always see what tomorrow will bring.

 

How about you?

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Quickies are not as good as a long session but they are great in situations where you are limited on time such as in a car, public restroom, etc.

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Our female half appreciates quickies quite a bit.   

 

By my nature I significantly prefer to take my time, build and enjoy working towards something more fulfilling.

 

 

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I know someone who wishes I weren’t so quick 😂

Because both of us need to get to work early, many of our morning sessions can be called quick yet she never complains, is always up for the next days early romp. 

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The best quickies I ever had were early on when it was only me and the two guys.  Red, who liked my fresh, would bend me over onto a table, pull my pants down, and do it while his hands would explore under my shirt.  Hubby, who liked to watch, would follow doing the same thing.  Five minutes and four orgasms among us.

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On 11/10/2014 at 1:36 AM, Glida said:

I don't cum during intercourse

A quickie can be oral as well.  We women often have quick mutual oral satisfaction. 

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My wife likes quickies with her favorite couple on her way home from work or whatever, shopping, workout.  It's amazing what they accomplish in a short time.  Fortunately, this never leaves her spent such that she won't get aroused again with me.

 

I've had quickies with the same wife and others, but usually I'm on the opposite end of the spectrum and take a long time to enjoy the ride.  Sometimes I will be motionless and just feel being inside a woman for a minute or two.

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I don’t remember the last time I had a quicky!  As I have got older it takes longer to get to the point that I can cum!  No problem getting and staying hard, but takes forever to cum.  It is one of the reasons we seldom have sex two days in a row.  It just leaves her raw if we do, because of how long we go.  

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3 hours ago, enhancer said:

I don’t remember the last time I had a quicky!  As I have got older it takes longer to get to the point that I can cum!  No problem getting and staying hard, but takes forever to cum.  It is one of the reasons we seldom have sex two days in a row.  It just leaves her raw if we do, because of how long we go.  

I can relate here, especially age combined with a vasectomy.  The plumbing all works but getting to the point of climax is definitely more deliberate than it was a few years back...  Especially if condoms are used!   It is incentive to stay in great shape though.

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22 hours ago, enhancer said:

No problem getting and staying hard, but takes forever to cum.

Some women would see that as an advantage.  I empathize with men in that regard, some women are always complaining that men are too quick or too slow to orgasm, when women can be as well.  Plus men have the added job of ejaculating - opening valves, priming the pump and whatever else is involved.  That's why I trained myself (successfully, I believe) to enjoy the ride however long it is, sense when he approaching climax  and cum when/before he does.  It's a coordinated effort. 

 

19 hours ago, ConfusedHubby said:

getting to the point of climax is definitely more deliberate than it was a few years back...  Especially if condoms are used!

I hate condoms.

19 hours ago, ConfusedHubby said:

It is incentive to stay in great shape though.

Our guys are in great shape, but that's part of the problem.  After doing in the morning, working all day, then hitting the gym and/or running, the guys are often too tired to perform adequately at night.

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