28 married couple that has been together for 6 years. We have a great relationship. Not jealous and very much in love. What I am curious about is how to bring up the idea of swinging.
So far, I have got interested in porn and bought her some toys. As far as talk goes, I have let her bring up the subject but im looking for a direct approach with out freaking her out or making her run for the hills. When she drinks she usually brings up her bicurosity. She has told me on more than one occasion that she wants to sleep with another woman. I have been fully supportive of this and encouraged it. However, by the next day the subject has already been dropped.
We are open with our sex life and she likes to bring it up in front of our friends, details and all. Also swinging has been brought when we are around friends. Usually by another couple trying to bash swingers, and both times my wife has defended swinging.
As far as experience, She loves girl on girl porn, When we are on vacation with other couples, She always hops in the shower with her friends and encourages group showers with her friends. A few months ago we stayed at her best friend's house. We went out downtown and when got back. Some fun flirting turned into her trying to get her friend in bed with us, but she got a little aggressive and her friend became uncomfortable.
Thank you for any help!