I know I'm a single male so I think I know a lot of the reasons why it is the way it is for me. However, it seems that in the few offers I have had to swing people just get in touch with me for a 'hook up' eventhough I say I would like to find people who want to be friends. My question is are a lot of people in the lifestyle not looking for friends? Are single guys looked at as more of a dime a dozen so who cares about them wanting to have a friendship with the people they meet? Do couples and single females find it easier to find others in the lifestyle that want to be friends as well as play friends?