What Fantasies are you looking to fulfill through swinging?

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-19-2003, 10:50 PM

This is a carry-over from tonight's live chat.

What are the specific fantasies (if any) that you are atempting to fulfill by swinging?

And if you are into swinging to fulfill fantasies is that your main goal or do you just have fun and hope to fulfill those fantasies in the process?

When it comes to fulfiling fantasies, who's fantasies come first? Hers or His? Or do you try to make it equal?

Is one partners only fantasies to see the fantasies of the other partner fulfilled?

Bob123 · 06-20-2003, 07:04 AM

her fantasies probably come first. without her he is left out in the cold.

Elusive BiFem · 06-20-2003, 07:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Bob123
her fantasies probably come first. without her he is left out in the cold.

Without her, he isn't swinging. -EBF (it's early, no coffee. did I miss the point?)

Elusive BiFem · 06-20-2003, 07:34 AM

From Bob123 in the "Who's In Control" thread:

"The woman is of course. without her the man couldn't swing"

So I guess his answer is the same as mine. - EBF

alabamafuntonig · 06-20-2003, 09:49 AM

Most fantasy’s we have we work on together. I think at first my fantasies were worked on .now we are more inline with each other so it’s more of a mutual thing.

ciscosv · 06-20-2003, 01:39 PM

I missed another freakin chat. Oh well, till next time.

One fantasy we have come to share is having two cocks in her pussy. Damn that is a turn on for me. Since I was born with only one, I hope we will be able to find another couple to help us out in the future.

Dani&Drew · 06-20-2003, 03:46 PM

*points to self*

M&B · 06-20-2003, 04:00 PM

My newest fantasy is for Bob123 to attract a great woman and find out what it is like being IN in the warmth.

Bob, don't make it a fairy tale.

alabamafuntonig · 06-20-2003, 04:52 PM

once again m&b are you drinking more of that shine i gave you, i told you that stuff will cause dillutions!

M&B · 06-20-2003, 04:59 PM

Yeah, but, what if?

alabamafuntonig · 06-20-2003, 05:01 PM

what if ! rosan barr came into the picture ! now thats a match!

M&B · 06-20-2003, 05:05 PM

M&B · 06-20-2003, 05:16 PM

When we first started, we had no preconceived notion about what we were doing or what to expect. It was like a chemistry experiment that bubbled over.

We played with a couple that we knew for about a year. Afterwards, the experience was used for our own pleasure and excitement. Then, we played again. More hot talk.

Our fantasies evolved. Neither of us thought about one's being more important than the other. All that mattered was that it was for ourselves. Of course, it was nice to know that they liked us, too.

We approached the idea with the second couple that we played with. We already had an idea what their reaction would be before we talked to them about it. We were right!

That was all some time ago.

jen · 06-20-2003, 06:37 PM

Bob123, I'm going against my moms better judgement here, so help me out...ok.

M&B has this fantasy;

My newest fantasy is for Bob123 to attract a great woman and find out what it is like being IN in the warmth.

I'd like his fantasies to come to be realities, he is a nice guy, he should be happy.

Also, Bob, I'd like you to be happy.

Sorry mom.

St. Augustine · 06-20-2003, 07:48 PM

(Cathy) I will admit that I am the one who is in control. I shared with Mike that I have fantasies of a 3some with him and another woman and would like to actually do that. We are actively seeking at this time to fulfill this fantasy of mine

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06-19-2003, 10:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	What Fantasies are you looking to fulfill through swinging? This is a carry-over from tonight's live chat. What are the specific fantasies (if any) that you are atempting to fulfill by swinging? And if you are into swinging to fulfill fantasies is that your main goal or do you just have fun and hope to fulfill those fantasies in the process? When it comes to fulfiling fantasies, who's fantasies come first? Hers or His? Or do you try to make it equal? Is one partners only fantasies to see the fantasies of the other partner fulfilled?
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06-20-2003, 01:39 PM	#6 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	I missed another freakin chat. Oh well, till next time. One fantasy we have come to share is having two cocks in her pussy. Damn that is a turn on for me. Since I was born with only one, I hope we will be able to find another couple to help us out in the future.
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06-20-2003, 04:00 PM	#8 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	Some people make fantasies come true My newest fantasy is for Bob123 to attract a great woman and find out what it is like being IN in the warmth. Bob, don't make it a fairy tale.
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06-20-2003, 04:59 PM	#10 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	Bama, Yeah, but, what if?
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06-20-2003, 07:04 AM	#2 (permalink)
Bob123 Has Left the Building Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 166 Location: ca Status: hermaphradite	her fantasies probably come first. without her he is left out in the cold.

06-20-2003, 07:34 AM	#4 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,398 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	From Bob123 in the "Who's In Control" thread: "The woman is of course. without her the man couldn't swing" So I guess his answer is the same as mine. - EBF

06-20-2003, 09:49 AM	#5 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	Most fantasy’s we have we work on together. I think at first my fantasies were worked on .now we are more inline with each other so it’s more of a mutual thing.

06-20-2003, 03:46 PM	#7 (permalink)
Dani&Drew Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 105 Location: Lansing, MI	points to self

06-20-2003, 04:52 PM	#9 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	once again m&b are you drinking more of that shine i gave you, i told you that stuff will cause dillutions!

06-20-2003, 05:01 PM	#11 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	oh lala! what if ! rosan barr came into the picture ! now thats a match!

06-20-2003, 05:05 PM	#12 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum
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06-20-2003, 05:16 PM	#13 (permalink)
M&B Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 808 Location: Southern Cal Status: quo anti bellum	Now, to the subject When we first started, we had no preconceived notion about what we were doing or what to expect. It was like a chemistry experiment that bubbled over. We played with a couple that we knew for about a year. Afterwards, the experience was used for our own pleasure and excitement. Then, we played again. More hot talk. Our fantasies evolved. Neither of us thought about one's being more important than the other. All that mattered was that it was for ourselves. Of course, it was nice to know that they liked us, too. We approached the idea with the second couple that we played with. We already had an idea what their reaction would be before we talked to them about it. We were right! That was all some time ago.
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06-20-2003, 06:37 PM	#14 (permalink)
jen Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 1,118 Location: above a rainbow Status: un dolce uno	Against my moms better judgement Bob123, I'm going against my moms better judgement here, so help me out...ok. M&B has this fantasy; My newest fantasy is for Bob123 to attract a great woman and find out what it is like being IN in the warmth. I'd like his fantasies to come to be realities, he is a nice guy, he should be happy. Also, Bob, I'd like you to be happy. Sorry mom.
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06-20-2003, 07:48 PM	#15 (permalink)
St. Augustine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 266 Location: St. Augustine, FL Status: Couple	(Cathy) I will admit that I am the one who is in control. I shared with Mike that I have fantasies of a 3some with him and another woman and would like to actually do that. We are actively seeking at this time to fulfill this fantasy of mine
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