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This is a discussion on Who's Pleasure is it? within the Why we Swing forums, part of the What Is Swinging category; Ok, here's the question of the week...lol. When you are in a situation with more than one partner.....
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08-29-2001, 02:10 AM
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| Your Hostess  Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,236 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59   |  Who's Pleasure is it? Ok, here's the question of the week...lol. When you are in a situation with more than one partner..whether you be a woman with multiple male partners or a male with multiple female partners or any combination. What is on yoru mind more.. your pleasure? or theirs? Ladies when you are having a MFM 3-some do you concentrate on enjoying it as much as you possibly can? Or are you concentrating more on making sure those two guys enjoy it as much as they possibly can (and in the process possibly losing a large amount of enjoyment for yourself)? Same thing on the guys. Julie http://www.swingersboard.com |
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08-29-2001, 05:58 AM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA |  Julie, Speaking strictly for myself I do my best to see that my female partner gets the utmost enjoyment possible. In so doing, I get intense pleasure! So far there hasn't been a complaint.... Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
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08-29-2001, 08:20 AM
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| Posts: n/a |  It is funny actually, when it is just my wife and I together I am sometimes selfish and am looking for my own pleasure, but in a group situation I am always trying to please the other one, whether it is my wife in a 3 some or another lady. Gaia, my wife is only concerned with her own pleasure in a group. DOn't get me wrong, any guy or gal involved is completly satisfied, but my wife really takes charge. She will tell us what, where, who, why and when. There is never any fear with her in a group. She says it is part of the experience for her. In her girl on girl times though, she seems to be interested more inthe other girl. I have heard her say that us men in the group are her toys! LOL no problem on our end for sure. Correct me if I am wrong guys, but we don't seem to mind being used.... whereas a woman feels cheap if she is viewed as an object. Medi, the male half of this couple |
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08-29-2001, 02:09 PM
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| Posts: n/a | Cool!  Another "question of the week" game! *LOL*  It all depends on who I'm with, male or female... When I'm in a MFM 3some, I enjoy all the speciall attention that is focused on me.  Knowing that my hubby enjoys watching me with another male, giving that special attention back to both of them, physically, mentally, visually, and most of all, SEXUALLY. I enjoy "giving" as much as "receiving" too...When I'm with another female (which isn't very often), I prefer to be on the "giving" end. I find pleasure in giving another woman erotic pleasures. The way she moves, the way she sways with the waves of ecstasy, her moans for more, as her cum flows so easily...Man, I sure miss the ocean & beaches! *lol* Of couse, I enjoy doing this while hubby or the other male is taking me doggie style. Two-4-One Special! OH YEAH BABY! *LOL* I do prefer MFM 3somes. Hey, what can I say, I love cock!  My NEXT fantasy to become reality, is seeing hubby in a FMF 3some, with me watching...No better yet, me watching while another male takes me doggie style. Yeah, that's it! I want to see hubby being pleasured by two or more females, visa-versa!I'm taking applications! Just kiddin'...*LOL* No apps. needed, just erotic fun times enjoyed by all! CyberWife [This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 08-29-2001).] |
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08-30-2001, 09:32 PM
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| Rebel without a Cause :P  Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 438 Location: Colorado Status: Ugly half of a beautiful Wife SLS Name:fountaincouple Blog Entries: 4 | Heh , for me my deal is to insure the woman is thouroughly pleased, after all if she doesnt enjoy herself, then I am not going to get repeat business, and thats bad ju ju. I feel I need to put my best foot forward so to speak  so for me its pleasae the partener untill she explodes, and worry about me last.------------------ Rich
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08-31-2001, 11:41 AM
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| Registered User Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 2 |  Julie, When we are with another couple two thoughts come to mind. 1. Being the male I am there for the primary purpose of pleasing my female companion. 2. Pleasing myself while enjoying the total scene. Just a couple of thoughts. |
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08-31-2001, 01:04 PM
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,236 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59 | |
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08-31-2001, 05:03 PM
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,236 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59 | Sounds like another episode of the twilight zone.. it worked.. cuz there's a duplicate post from the other screenname. I'll delete the repeated post. Julie http://www.swingersboard.com |
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09-07-2001, 01:03 PM
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| Posts: n/a | In a one-on-one couple situation I concentrate on giving pleasure to the lady I am with at the moment. If we indulge in soft swing it is my hon. When we switch and swap for foreplay and/or intercourse it is the other person's spouse I want to please. I beleive this is only fair since the other guy is focusing on my wife. If it is otherwise then that may end the relationship. It is my experience that you get in return more than what you invest in sexually pleasing the female you are with. To see your sexual mate writhe with ecstacy and bringing her to a thrilling orgasm gives me greatest pleasure. Neal ------------------ |
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09-09-2001, 07:49 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA | It's all about...ME!!ME!!ME!!......Me...... doing everything I can think of to insure the guy or guys I'm with is having a good time and being pleasured from the top of his head to the tip of his toes and then back up again... Connie..(had them eyebrows raising on ya'll there for a minute didn't I! haha) [This message has been edited by Stratecpl (edited 09-09-2001).]
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09-09-2001, 10:07 PM
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,236 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59 | Ok, so Connie.. in that process what happens to your pleasure? Are you so focused on giving pleasure that you end up not getting as much pleasure as you should? Julie http://www.swingersboard.com |
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09-09-2001, 10:17 PM
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA | Quote:
 ........No..I'm not so focused that I don't enjoy it immensly... I have an awesome time, the more I pleasure (read tease) the guy, the hotter I get from seeing, smelling, and feeling his lust...and in turn the hotter he gets the better the ride for me and him... ya see? It's a give and take deal..the more you give to the right person the more you get back in return..it's been working like a dream so far!Connie [This message has been edited by Stratecpl (edited 09-09-2001).] [This message has been edited by Stratecpl (edited 09-09-2001).]
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09-30-2001, 12:43 PM
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| Julie's Helper  Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,185 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31 | Well, the very first MFM threesome we had I was more focused on the two men, but this has greatly changed since then. Now I focus on my own pleasure..case in point..Friday night was one of the best threesomes I have ever had..I totally concentrated on myself and the pleasures that my husband and our friend were giving me..it was absoutly fabulous..and in doing so I came to understand that this was exactly what the two men were wanting..they were both concentrating so much on my pleasure that it increased theirs, not to mention giving both of them a great ego boost..I could tell this by all the high-fives they were giving each other during our play session..they were both having a blast making me scream in extasy..lol..so now on in a MFM threesome..I am totally focused on me. This is not to say they got no attention..they did..but seeing the pleasure they got out of my total abandoment made me see that at least with these two men, focusing on myself is the only way to go. Teresa
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