This is a question for the experienced swingers here.
My wife and I have been looking into swinging for awhile now, and trying to educate ourselves on the lifestyle. Which I'd have to say has been made much, much easier thanks to this site
But our question is: Is it all worth it?
Look at the issues at hand on this site:
We met with another couple and they broke the rules, this guy didn't use a condom, my wife/husband is jealous, what if our friends/family find out, this guy shagged us and won't call, how do you find a good match etc.. etc..
In the movies it's all very straight forward; there's a party everybody's happy, a big swap fest takes place and then they do it again.
But in real life it really seems like swinging is not just a lot of work, but it causes so many people more problems and issues then they had before they started, and its all about sex...
is it really worth it?