How Can You Tell If Your Nieghbors Are Swingers

[Eaglekeeper]

I have a nieghbor (Couple) that I beleve are swingers , just by some of there habits what a good way to tell if they are into this lifestyle ? Should I just ask them ?

[wrnakedru]

I believe that would be the easiest way to find out.

Of course, if you aren't good friends as well as neighbors, there's always the chance they won't tell you the truth.

But it's worth a shot.

P.S. Does it matter? and if so - in a good way, or a bad way?

[Miss_Piggy]

I say just go with your gut. If you think it might be appropriate to ask them then go for it. It really depends on how close you are to them. Otherwise, you could simply spend some time getting to know them and if they feel like telling you they will. I would caution you from making too many assumptions about them and they're private lives without them telling you what their deal is.

~Piggy

[sexypairca]

If the curiousity is getting the better of you either just ask them or get over it. I would rather know ahead of time than to find out by meeting through an ad or club and end up in what could be an uncomfortable situation, been there done that , the neighbourhood will never be the same .

Annette

[Alura]

Originally posted by Eaglekeeper
I have a nieghbor (Couple) that I beleve are swingers , just by some of there habits what a good way to tell if they are into this lifestyle ? Should I just ask them ?

Just out of curiosity, Eaglekeeper, what habits do they have that make you think they might be swingers?

We have some friends that we've been curious about for years, but never have the suspicions been strong enough to give us the nerve to ask. We first wondered when they went to a New Year's Eve party in the same hotel when a local swingers' club were having their annual bash. The wife has a nice body and dresses "pretty sexy," often showing cleavage, but that's still not conclusive evidence either.

Unless and until the subject comes up in conversation, I suppose we'll continue to wonder...

Mr. Alura

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by Eaglekeeper
I have a nieghbor (Couple) that I beleve are swingers , just by some of there habits what a good way to tell if they are into this lifestyle ? Should I just ask them ?

No. Conduct covert surveillance. Can you see their house from yours? If you can, use a camcorder to monitor comings and goings. See any faces you recognise from your local swingers club? Alternatively, follow them (at a discreet distance) if they go out together on a Saturday evening. And if that fails, get yourselves invited around for a coffee, and place miniature wireless cameras and microphones in their lounge, bedroom and master bathroom. You'll soon know whether or not they're swingers.

[Eaglekeeper]

The Husband is a Fireman the rumor around here is that , The local fireman around here in Panama City "Swing" I know the Ammo troops in the AF Swing see www.ammosex.com. The wife goes out late at night after 9pm and does not return untill wee hours in the morning, she dresses very sexy to show off her body and trible tatto on the small of her back. She will go out late with and without her husband and when her husband is off at work (as a fireman he is on 24 and off 24 hrs) she has other men show up at the house. last year during the spring time her husband was deployed and she would turn on all the lights in her house and open up the shades and walk around with no top on. She would also use the computer and webcam (in the nude) in front of the window of here house too. She seemed to have a battery operated boyfriend in hand as well. Finaly someone told here she had to stop because teenage boys were stoping by up and down the street to watch and get there birds and bees training. They are very priv. people the do not socialize with other unless they are part of the firemans click.

[frenzb4sex]

Wow...

Ummm....this quest to find out sounds a little extreme, and with the information you are giving and know, it sounds like borderline stalking--perhaps you take Brit Pair's statements as literal......ummm, wow....

If they are, they are. What does it matter? Why do you want to know? To swing with them? To avoid them? If they are private people, then how do you know all of this? Obviously they are a little more sexually liberated if what you have seen is indeed true. Are you good enough friends to come out and ask? I guess I just don't understand the motivation to finding out, but you've obviously been gumshoeing this for a while........Sorry, but yikes.....

[Eaglekeeper]

The dynamics of our homes make it so obvious to see everything at times , when my windows are open in one of my rooms I can see right at close proximity of there home. Thats one of the downfalls of living in homes like this here. (No Privacy at ALL) Like I said it all started when SHE Began exposing hereself to me and others a few months ago (But since stoped since others asked her too) I was getting a free show every night. The other day when I happned to be playing my PS-II I had my window open a fella came to her door and when she opened the door she was toppless. (Her husband was at work) am I stalking ? By means no but from wher I play in my room I can see everything. at times.

[frenzb4sex]

But that still doesn't answer the question. Are you interested in knowing because you are a swinger yourself? Or are you curious? Are you wanting to play with her/them?

I realize that she may be "right in your view" from where you play, but if it bothers you, close the blinds/drapes. Or move where you play. If it bothers you just simply that she is parading around half naked and you have children, etc., this affects, then you have a right to say something to them to stop.

But otherwise, I am still at a loss as to what the motivation is behind this questioning such. Have you ever gave thought that she just may be a nudist? Being a nudist has no affiliation with swinging.....

[frenzb4sex]

But that still doesn't answer the question. Are you interested in knowing because you are a swinger yourself? Or are you curious? Are you wanting to play with her/them?

I realize that she may be "right in your view" from where you play, but if it bothers you, close the blinds/drapes. Or move where you play. If it bothers you just simply that she is parading around half naked and you have children, etc., this affects, then you have a right to say something to them to stop.

But otherwise, I am still at a loss as to what the motivation is behind this questioning such. Have you ever gave thought that she just may be a nudist? Being a nudist has no affiliation with swinging.....

[Eaglekeeper]

No I don't realy think I could get into the Swinging thing. At lest at my age (I have been married for 11 years and am about to turn 40) Although If Swinging is your thing (That is your lifestyle) then thats ok. I am not one to judge. Live life to enjoy it of course. Yes I am somewhat ignorat. Maybe I would have thought that if she is a nudist then she may be into swinging, but at the same time she goes out all the time at night remember this place is spring break HQ (Panama City Beach FL) Clubs everywhere like La Villa, Spinikers etc. I have to admit she is a good looking girl and very attractive. So why would she walk around in the nude ? To get others attention ? And why does her husband allow her to do this ? Or am I just ignorat ?

[ionsawmill]

Originally posted by Eaglekeeper
The Husband is a Fireman the rumor around here is that , The local fireman around here in Panama City "Swing" I know the Ammo troops

I mean this in the nicest way. I want you to know this.

You are a little naive.

It's irrational to think that anyone would swing just because of their profession. It's also naive to assume that anything you read on a commercial porn site is true. It's very unlikely that entire divisions of the Air Force swing, considering the ethnic and religious homogeneity of our armed forces. I realize that some have rougher rep's than others, but when it's all said and done, the percentages of swingers and non-swingers probably isn't far from the general population.

Do you enjoy your nightly shows? If so, then continue to enjoy and don't look a gift horse in the mouth. If you don't, then tell her to keep her clothes on.

I can think of several reasons why she may behave as she does and I'm sure you can too. Regardless, it's none of your business WHY she does what she does. Unless you intend to join her or attempt to stop her, then it doesn't even matter WHAT she does.

[Eaglekeeper]

Your right it is none of my buisness but being an exibitionist on a military base is illigell and swinging is also illigell according to the UCMJ even though wife swaping my go on with both parties concenting to it ! The Military justice system will proscicute it. They will throw them out of base housing in a heart beat. But the right people have to catch them i.e base police etc. I am not one that would turn them in. And as for her being in the nude in her home is my buisness however what am I to do when my seven year old sees it ? when his bed room window is in direct view of hers ? Yes I want my son to learn about the birds and the bees but not this early in life. If I were to go over there by myself and ask her to stop she would prob. turn the tables on me and file sex harrasment on me in a heart beat out of spite.

[Vjklander]

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