How Long Have You Been Swinging?

Officialy since March. But We did "fall into" a couple MFMs in the past 3 years. But Febuary of this year we started to do some research on the subject to see if it was something we wanted to expand on. It was. We went to our first swingers club in March.

[EvilMJ]

We are in the less than a year category.

However, when I sat down and looked back at it I realized that I have been involved in swinger activities with previous boyfriends and never really considered it before. Odd, I guess the tendency was always there but never realized. (way too deep for lunch time )

[xxoticangel]

We have been swinging off and on for almost 6 years. Prior to that I (male) was in a vanilla marriage that only strayed twice, once while camping with military buddies with my new (at the time) bride. It was more of a gang bang that swinging since she was the only female and there were 3 guys including me. One other time was a MFM with a good friend that was shipping out the next day. The three of us got drunk and ended up in our bed for the night. Other than those two events I never considered swinging until I met my wife.
On the other hand she has been swinging since forever. She had a group of friends in H.S. that hung out together and "group date"ed. They did not have boyfriend/girlfriend relationships. They had sex with anyone as long as they were part of the group. According to her she lost her virginity to a guy in a room with 3 other couples. She continued this trend until she married her ex after graduation.

[Jamie&Kieth]

A long time with with close friends, 20 plus years with one one couple and 10 years with another couple and for about 5 years with this other couple. Oh and all couples are married.

Both my husband & I prefer making friends and developing a relationship with the people we have sex with. Makes it more personal and passionate and enables all of us to trust ourselves and each other.

[SexyAmy]

2 years and still going......

[CuriousInOregon]

Less than a yr for us BUT its just so fun It feels like Forever, We are looking fwd to playing for awhile until we have had our "fill" of it any way.

[Chris&Suzanne]

Hard to answer for us. We have been swinging (99% soft-swing) for a few years, but I don't consider that we have 2-4 years experience.

We actually still think we are new. Well maybe not-used.

[24moreos]

I have been swinging on and off for years my partner has been 1 year
we are new at this together. and we are having a blast

[24moreos]

Life Is A Journey:the Idea Is Not To Arrive In The Grave With A Perfectly Preserved Body, But To Skid In Side-ways Shouting Holy Shit What A Ride

[SanDiegoM4cpl]

eight years. in a couple more years ill have to remove the socks.

it started with a former partner of mine and i have continued since. in those years i have been on and off with work and location. location and structure have alot to do with me participating.

for me i can be in a location with lots of time and ability to meet people but low and behold, they arent there!! other times im in a great location to meet peopl but my work s hectic or my hours shift or whatever throws my life out of equilibrium. for me sometimes the swing clubs work better for me as a single guy. if im avaialble that night i go, if not i dont.

i really like couples, but the last thing i want to do is cancel a meeting with them because my work is crazy or im going out of town or some other thing. i understand what couples have to do to make appointments so when i arrange meetings or persue couples i make sure that the sun moon and stars are lined up. last thing id want is to have them send me a bill for the baby sitter, dinner, motel, parking and valet because it was my fault. most people understand but still i do my best to make sure things are rock solid.

kyle

[BustyBlonde]

off and on for about 12 years. Sometimes the off was by choice, others it was by geography. Some states are just not conducive to a good lifestyle...such as Idaho....someone SAVE ME!!! lol

[Curious2swing]

We have not done it yet but are anxious to try!!!

[4Aleixs]

About a year now. Mostly has envolved MFM. One MFF. She how has a regular "bf" she sees too.

[bourbonnchristi]

We have been swinging off and on for almost 8 years now.

[cj22s]

We had a thing with a female friend 3 years ago, but did not actively pursue the life style until about a month ago. We just got together with our first couple this week.