Limits in Swinging

Mich149 · 03-24-2004, 10:24 PM

I'd have to agree with just about everyone here. No blood relation = no incestuous weirdness. Especially after 15 years.

That being said, I don't think I'd ever be personally comfortable crossing the line with family. But maybe I'm just wound too tight

GirlieZ · 03-24-2004, 10:59 PM

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Hubby and Jan get along fine. He thinks Jan is hot. The admiration is mutual. Since Jan has not had sex in years, I, the wife, feels it would be a wonderful idea for her to have caressive intimacy and intercourse with my hubby in a seperate room. Since Jan is shy she may not want anyone to watch the two nude while he plays with her to get her vaginal juices flowing. Many years' of abstinence can do weird things such as vaginal dryness. then he may slide his penis in her vagina and screw her until she cums. A few sessions of sexual intercourse with him hopefully will give her back her self confidence for future sexual encounters with other men.
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Wow! Sounds wonderful! How unshelfish of you!

If all involved are comfortable with the whole situation...Go for it!

Vjklander · 03-24-2004, 11:09 PM

Well, I have this cousin ......
J R

da2ofusgb · 03-27-2004, 02:17 PM

Hi and great question..........

We would both have to say GO for it. It sounds like you guys have a very open relationship and see nothing wrong at all in helping your widowed friend out.

Have fun......

Ed & Tammi

tazzie_n_truck · 03-30-2004, 12:09 PM

For us some limits we have,

1. Don't do anything with family, (Including in-laws)
2. What goes on with us and another couple stays with us. If they say it's ok to talk about them with other couples or people, that's ok. No talking about the particulars.
3. No always means NO. We have come accross alot of people in the lifestyle who are very pushy and have been very rude with us.
4. Don't tell anyone in our families that we are swingers. That's the last thing we need is to have our families find out. Then we would never hear the end of it, and for Truck coming from a strong religius family, he don't want to be preached at by his family.

t-shirt

ionsawmill · 03-30-2004, 08:56 PM

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Originally posted by cafehunk
Under some of circumstances you describe, the Bible would require sexual relations. (Genesis 38:6-10)

I don't even like my (widowed) sister-in-law. My wife and I have discussed this situation before and both agreed that God will just have to strike me down. I'm not goin' there.

As for ratimadan's situation, it would have to depend on how close Jan was with the rest of the family. It could get really, really wierd if you're around her at family reunions, holiday get-togethers, etc. with the rest of the family.

D.E. and I don't even want to swing in the same county we live in, for fear of swinging with family. I'm related to half the people in this county by blood, and the other half by marriage.

CindyB · 03-30-2004, 10:46 PM

My husband and I were involved in a sharing situation with his brother for a little over a year. He had gotten divorced and really messed over by his ex-wife. Some time passed and we really felt sorry for him. At my husbands prompting we began to get flirtatious. Over a period of about 6 or 7 months we went from teasing to my husband revealing my breasts to him. The next step happened one time when my husband opened my blouse in front of him. They dropped to their knees and each sucked a nipple. I was in heaven. After a few minutes my brother-in-law pulled me up and to him, unzipped his pants and put my hand in. We wound up on the bed where I gave him a hand-job. Serious discussions ensued over the next 2 weeks. At that time we began flirting again and the evening ended with he and I having sexual intercourse in front of my husband in our bed. It was unplanned and yet we all knew it had become inevitable. Regrets? Nope. Memories? Yep. He remarried and we now have a hands-off policy. But we still give each other "the look" quite often.

JonnyBlaze · 03-31-2004, 02:59 PM

i have asked my girlfriend if her sister, who is 18 years older than us could join us. shes older but still beautiful. she says no way but i think thats because of something i already did. about a year ago i slept with her neice. shes only 3 years younger than we are and as long as i have known her there was a mutual sexual attraction. if only i could have got the two of them together

Jblaze

ionsawmill · 03-31-2004, 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JonnyBlaze
about a year ago i slept with her neice... if only i could have got the two of them together

Jblaze

Dude! You flubbed the dub. Now you'll never know.

shyanne3296 · 03-31-2004, 08:44 PM

Forget all the bullsh_t, swinging is sex with someone other than your spouse with full permission of the spouse and without remorse or jealously on anyone's part. JUST DO IT!

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03-24-2004, 10:24 PM	#16 (permalink)
Mich149 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 323 Location: Detroit, MI Status: On the Prowl - lol SLS Name:mich149	She says... I'd have to agree with just about everyone here. No blood relation = no incestuous weirdness. Especially after 15 years. That being said, I don't think I'd ever be personally comfortable crossing the line with family. But maybe I'm just wound too tight

03-30-2004, 12:09 PM	#20 (permalink)
tazzie_n_truck Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 212 Location: Sioux Falls, SD Status: Couple	For us some limits we have, 1. Don't do anything with family, (Including in-laws) 2. What goes on with us and another couple stays with us. If they say it's ok to talk about them with other couples or people, that's ok. No talking about the particulars. 3. No always means NO. We have come accross alot of people in the lifestyle who are very pushy and have been very rude with us. 4. Don't tell anyone in our families that we are swingers. That's the last thing we need is to have our families find out. Then we would never hear the end of it, and for Truck coming from a strong religius family, he don't want to be preached at by his family. t-shirt __________________ T & T

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03-24-2004, 10:59 PM	#17 (permalink)
GirlieZ Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 241 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	______________ Hubby and Jan get along fine. He thinks Jan is hot. The admiration is mutual. Since Jan has not had sex in years, I, the wife, feels it would be a wonderful idea for her to have caressive intimacy and intercourse with my hubby in a seperate room. Since Jan is shy she may not want anyone to watch the two nude while he plays with her to get her vaginal juices flowing. Many years' of abstinence can do weird things such as vaginal dryness. then he may slide his penis in her vagina and screw her until she cums. A few sessions of sexual intercourse with him hopefully will give her back her self confidence for future sexual encounters with other men. _____________________ Wow! Sounds wonderful! How unshelfish of you! If all involved are comfortable with the whole situation...Go for it!

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03-30-2004, 10:46 PM	#22 (permalink)
CindyB Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 65 Location: Tinley Park, Il. Status: couple	My husband and I were involved in a sharing situation with his brother for a little over a year. He had gotten divorced and really messed over by his ex-wife. Some time passed and we really felt sorry for him. At my husbands prompting we began to get flirtatious. Over a period of about 6 or 7 months we went from teasing to my husband revealing my breasts to him. The next step happened one time when my husband opened my blouse in front of him. They dropped to their knees and each sucked a nipple. I was in heaven. After a few minutes my brother-in-law pulled me up and to him, unzipped his pants and put my hand in. We wound up on the bed where I gave him a hand-job. Serious discussions ensued over the next 2 weeks. At that time we began flirting again and the evening ended with he and I having sexual intercourse in front of my husband in our bed. It was unplanned and yet we all knew it had become inevitable. Regrets? Nope. Memories? Yep. He remarried and we now have a hands-off policy. But we still give each other "the look" quite often.

03-31-2004, 02:59 PM	#23 (permalink)
JonnyBlaze Active Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 16 Location: Boston, Mass Status: engaged	i have asked my girlfriend if her sister, who is 18 years older than us could join us. shes older but still beautiful. she says no way but i think thats because of something i already did. about a year ago i slept with her neice. shes only 3 years younger than we are and as long as i have known her there was a mutual sexual attraction. if only i could have got the two of them together Jblaze

03-31-2004, 08:44 PM	#25 (permalink)
shyanne3296 Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 2 Location: Trinity, Tx. Status: couple	Forget all the bullsh_t, swinging is sex with someone other than your spouse with full permission of the spouse and without remorse or jealously on anyone's part. JUST DO IT!